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Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread

793 replies

Fedupofitnow123 · 28/11/2019 22:47

Thank you for your continued support, I'm starting this thread regarding the impending court hearing tomorrow, if someone could link my previous thread that would ne highly appreciated!

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Mollychristmas · 29/11/2019 10:50

Good luck OP!

Thinking of you Flowers

TooMuchBloodyChoice · 29/11/2019 10:56

Just read both threads. You are so unbelievably brave FedUp I hope you get the Order and it’s good news that his false identity has been discovered. You will get through this.

Also your son sounds adorable. You have clearly been a very good mum, for him to be so mature about the situation.

Wishing you all the best for todayFlowers

iklboo · 29/11/2019 10:57

Good luck FedUp

Dillydallyingthrough · 29/11/2019 11:03

OP I've just read your other thread, you are so brave and amazing, I'm really struggling to put into words the respect I have for you.

You and your DS have such a bright future together. Good luck Flowers

Encyclo · 29/11/2019 11:04

I've just read both threads. Shocking stuff. You are amazing! Best of luck today

Rosepetals30 · 29/11/2019 11:04

I read both threads and I'm astonished (yet not surprised, there are too many dickheads out there these days!)

All the best in court today, I hope everything is resolved fairly when this saga ends x

3dogs2cats · 29/11/2019 11:06

Wow fed up. I can’t believe what you have achieved in a month. You are absolutely amazing.
Best of luck today.

CherryBlossomPink · 29/11/2019 11:08

Nothing more to add other than wishing you and your little family all the luck in the world today xx

MotherOfLittlePeople · 29/11/2019 11:10

Thanks thinking of you Op

Besidesthepoint · 29/11/2019 11:10

Oh my. I had read part of your previous thread but only just caught up on the name change and previous family. He sounds even more dangerous now. Good luck OP

autumnboys · 29/11/2019 11:13

Good luck today. Fingers crossed for you Flowers

Choice4567 · 29/11/2019 11:14

ThanksCakethinking of you

LovePoppy · 29/11/2019 11:20

Good luck today!

Starlight456 · 29/11/2019 11:22

Good luck op

DontDribbleOnTheCarpet · 29/11/2019 11:29

Wishing you all the best for today. Try to think of al the women you have standing behind you and take strength from that. You can get through this, and hopefully your solicitor will wipe the floor with him.

Uncompromisingwoman · 29/11/2019 11:42

Sending all positive thoughts for a good outcome. You are one very courageous woman Flowers

DodgeRainClouds · 29/11/2019 11:43

Totally behind you all the way. Read through your first thread this morning and cannot believe what you have been through. You are amazing Smile

kenandbarbie · 29/11/2019 11:46

I read your first thread today. Best of luck today xx you're doing fantastic xx

Bingcankissmyass · 29/11/2019 11:47

Good luck!!Flowers

soupforbrains · 29/11/2019 11:48

Good Luck! I've been lurking all through your other thread but I marvel repeatedly at your strength. Hope it all goes well today.

backaftera2yearbreak · 29/11/2019 11:49

Never underestimate a parents desire to protect their child from harm. You had the strength to get this far. Congratulations. I’m thinking about you today xxx

LemonBreeland · 29/11/2019 11:51

Crikey, just read the whole first thread and this. You re an incredible woman and what you are doing for your DS, yourself and your unborn child is incredible. I hope all goes well in court.

SunshineCake · 29/11/2019 11:52

I have just read both threads with mounting horror and holding my breath.

I really hope this goes the right way and that you and your son and baby are thriving.

I'm livid at the police woman not only falling for his fake charm but verbalising it to you Shock.

TicTac80 · 29/11/2019 11:55

Just checking in to see how you’re doing. When I was at family court, my solicitor did all the talking. I was terrified but the judge and court staff were fab. The judge also took a v dim view of my ex’s behaviour. Keeping everything crossed for you xxx

ItsNovemberNotChristmas · 29/11/2019 12:03

I've got everything crossed for you