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Worst day ever. How to get over this!

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Blogger373 · 18/11/2019 20:05

After a 2 year long relationship, my boyfriend has ended things via text.

He was previously a married man with children and has decided being with me would affect the relationship he has with his teenage kids, and they would never forgive him for being with the woman who he had left their mother for. So I do understand his reasoning.

Long story short , I am utterly devastated and feel as if I will never get over this man. I have been crying and vomiting for the last 3 days, and have had to take time off work.

I have had break ups in the past but this is just something else. I need to get over this and feel normal again, any advice/tips are so warmly welcome x

OP posts:
Bluerussian · 21/11/2019 00:56

In her second post she said she wasn't the person who broke up the marriage.

Oh I don't know what to think. Maybe he spun her a line about it all being over but he was still living in the same house because of his kids. I have heard of that sort of thing being said and women falling for it.

Anyway I don't think she has been back recently to give us an update. I just hope she's OK.

MsRomanoff · 21/11/2019 05:15

In her second post she says the relationship started when he ended his marriage. That could mean all sorts of different things. It doesnt mean she wasnt involved before he ended the marriage.

Who gets with someone seperated and describes themseleves as the woman he left the marriage for?

Bluerussian · 23/11/2019 07:45

That's a good point MsRomanoff. I doubt the op will return to this thread now.

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