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Shagged my ex and he’s attempting to blackmail me

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Suchanidiotpart2 · 23/07/2019 22:50

Know I’ll get flamed for this but I need some advice. I stupidly met up with my ex to discuss our DC. He turned on the charm and kept ordering the drinks and we ended up in bed. My lovely, kind and caring dp is moving in this week. I wasn’t going to tell him because it was w stupid mistake and I made sure it was safe sex.

Ex wants me back. I’ve told him no chance and he’s threatening to tell my dp.

I feel so much shame and am disgusted with myself. My poor boyfriend. I need to tell him before my bastard of an ex does don’t I?

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Dadaist · 26/07/2019 19:05

@TatianaLarina I 100% agree with your last post. I think this was my point from the start!

But as you’re quite the pedant - it’s not ‘informed consent’ which apples to medical procedures. In sexual offences it’s just ‘consent.’
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TatianaLarina · 27/07/2019 00:37

Informed consent as in awareness of the question and the consequences - key issues in intoxication.

Patroclus · 29/07/2019 14:54

Amazed how many people have fucking despicable morals and this is why I will happily emain single forever

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