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2 valentines cards

242 replies

Oneandoneontheway · 14/02/2018 23:04

Found 2 cards last night, both blank in my husbands laptop bag. He was away with work today on site. I have been given one card and just checked the bag now & the other card is no longer there. Paranoia or reason to be suspicious?!?!!!!

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EinsteinsArousedSausagesHCB · 17/02/2018 11:46

I think his reaction speaks volumes. So sorry OP. Flowers

Cricrichan · 17/02/2018 11:55

I'm so sorry op and glad you're going to get some parental tlc

Wellfuckmeinbothears · 17/02/2018 12:26

I am so sorry op. His reaction would be all the proof I needed to be honest.

Sending you and your little ones a big hug x

MyOtherProfile · 17/02/2018 13:28

So sorry... really hoped for a plausible explanation.

BroomHandledMouser · 17/02/2018 13:41

Oh love I’m so sorry.

His reaction is absolutely ridiculous, he’s pissed off that he’s been caught out.

Sending you and the children lots of love and strength.

luckiestgirl · 17/02/2018 14:55
Flowers
Gemini69 · 17/02/2018 15:12

I'm so sorry OP Flowers

ISpeakJive · 17/02/2018 16:03

This is shit. So sorry Flowers

FrozenMargarita17 · 17/02/2018 18:54

These are for you Thanks

stardust18 · 17/02/2018 19:46

So sorry OP 💐

StarsAndWater · 17/02/2018 20:25

When I first confronted ex about our 'card situation', he was horribly upset at being accused and told me I needed to get help for my paranoia. He then refused to sleep in the same bed with someone who didn't trust him and ended up on the floor in DDs room.
Turns out he was having an affair. Surprise.

mindutopia · 17/02/2018 21:47

Take care of yourself and hug those babies.

frutti · 17/02/2018 21:48

Flowers sorry op. What a load of shit for you to deal with on top of two toddlers. Well done for taking some time to think about it. I hope your parents help you through this.

madedotcomissues · 17/02/2018 22:20

Oh I thought that was going to be a legitimate 2 card purchase.

So sorry OP, it must be an enormous shock. What a git.

Big hugs x

RandomMess · 17/02/2018 22:24
Thanks
DuckNoodles · 19/02/2018 15:49

So sad to hear the suspicion was correct Sad how are you today OP? Flowers

Heismyopendoor · 19/02/2018 20:46

How are you doing OP?

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