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Advice please, I am being stalked

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user1491774393 · 09/04/2017 22:56

Hello everyone. I dont really know where to begin and this is complicated. I am being stalked online and offline, I have also been disgustingly slandered and harassed. Stopping short of deleting all of my social network accounts I dont know what to do. I was hacked a few years ago, and things that I had written went on to be plagiarised, then I was subjected to a smear campaign. This was really bad, It ended up in me having a mental breakdown and attempting suicide. The online harassment is still happening. I already had post traumatic stress disorder before this. I have told the police, I have screenshots of the weird cryptic harassment I am on the receiving end of almost daily. Removing my social network accounts would render me pretty much isolated due to disability. This has made me beyond depressed, It also made me relapse back into having an eating disorder and I am now awaiting assistance from mental health services because of this unrelenting and cruel harassment. Any advice would be appreciated, I just dont know what to do. My children and I had to leave our home because of this, which was a massive upheaval for all of us. This is actually making me ill. Sorry for moaning but you ladies give the best advice.

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user1487941567 · 15/04/2017 23:49

I think the stuff outside your home isn't related btw. I often find dead birds inside my hall from the local tomcat who goes round bringing them in through the kitchen windows. The books also, people leave things outside to be picked up by others. They get kicked/blown around and you might find them outside your door. I found hoover attachments in my side alley.

The other stuff.... it's obviously someone you know, sadly. I wonder what the online stuff people have seen about you is? Have you ever googled yourself?

Cameronpoe · 16/04/2017 09:26

You have been to the police lots about online harassment by unknown people etc but when an actual concrete crime was committed with an identifiable suspect and a witness (the assault by the binman) you didnt report that to police. You also didnt chase up what investigation the council did. You are clearly comfortable reporting issues to the police so i was just wondering why you wouldnt report an actual physical assault that would be quite simple to investigate? I think rather than going back to police with concerns about being remotely hacked etc i would report the physical assault to them so they can investigate and find out where it fits in. I am curious why you were happy to let that lie without any investigation at all but criticise the police for not investigating hacking and anonymous messaging? I hope you can get to the bottom of it in time.

DesertSky · 18/04/2017 23:29

I think OP had a rotten meat pie (if I remembered correctly?) left on her garden wall and she's Vegan? So fairly suspicious, if the troll knew that. The books are odd as I think OP said they were new/expensive and related to Politics - again something that could have been picked up on Facebook, i.e. tracking OP's likes. It does sound like somebody had access to her posts on social media and a viral message was spreading around hence why members of public were calling her nasty names in relation to this.
How have things been OP? Are you coping better?

user1487941567 · 18/04/2017 23:37

Food next to house; Foxes opening bin bags? We have foxes opening our food rubbish and then pooing on top of the bin while they sit eating it. I really don't find that suspicious.

There is actually a box of books on the wall outside my house now. It'll be gone within days, someone is having a clear out, that's all.

user1487941567 · 18/04/2017 23:38

There is a bag of clothes out there too, my first thought is not "omg someone knows I wear clothes, it's a sign"

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