LookattheflowersKerry No, that wasn't me, but that just goes to show that I am not the only twat magnet unfortunately. I hope whomever that poster was managed to get that stopped. It is really horrible and people can try to say ignore or rise above it and it just isn't that easy, even for the most resilient of people.
Regina (Great name by the way) Someone would have to be a little tech savvy to do all of that, I'm not. at all. I have up to date antivirus and net security but thats about it.
Charlie Yes I still live with my Dp and Children. They are my life. I only had social media to stay in contact with extended family and friends from other parts of the country and world, also support groups which I really found useful.
Hellofromme, My partner is really supportive, but he doesn't like how much this changed me. It's safe to say I am not the confident and happy woman that he first fell in love with, which is something I feel very insecure and guilty about. I am still happy and grateful, I still have joy and adore my little family but this did change me quite dramatically. He thinks that action should have been taken by authorities to trace and deal with these people, because they have obviously been doing similar to others and by getting away with it they will have the gall to do this to others. It's frustrating for him but I'm still me, albeit an anxious and very easily startled version.
Frumpet, I will see my GP. I am awaiting an appointment to have emdr again, which is something I had years ago to overcome the trauma of being sexually assaulted.
Welshmoth I do have my suspicions yes, But I need solid proof before go in accusing anyone. I know who started it, I dont know who all of the winged monkeys are. One of the people that is doing this admins a fb page that doesn't actually know me personally, one of them is a woman I went to school briefly with. I have no idea of the others. My circle has always been small because I'm shy and I have been with my dp for a long time, so he has been my friend / confidant and everything since we met. I was told by a friends sister ages ago that someone was asking personal questions about me, I did query her after this, as it stood out in my mind as strange, and became significant following this experience, she told me she no longer remembered. Most of the stuff they said about me was bollocks, but they named my sons paediatrician at the time too and that isn't something my partner or I had ever discussed on the internet. My PC was bought new. The only time someone else could have accessed it was when I moved. I keep doors locked and windows are only open if I am in. I did have a few incidents (things tampered with and moved around) which made me think someone had entered my property but I have no proof of this. A suspicion isn't proof. My partner said my sons could have moved the items and damaged other property so I have to accept that because it is a possibility.
NotCarylChurchill I could post a link to my dropbox but my name is visible on th escreen because I recorded that from my fb, I only videoed the trolling after my personal info was released, I didn't know how to screenshot things on my pc until last year (I'm a thicko) I know who some of the posters where from what they said but I need to prove it and I cant do that due to my own stupidity, just going off my gut instinct isn't evidence in the eyes of the law. I'll have to figure out how to post screenshots onto here,. One of the fb groups this happened on got took down because the other posters could tell someone was being bullied (that was me) so they reported the group and fb took it down. I did contact some of the other members of the group and they could actually remember this, I was just wondering if there was a chance that any of them screenshotted the things I didn't, I should have got more, but I was in a state of shock and disbelief seeing things from my medical records, things about my late nan, my brothers and others being obnoxiously posted. It was all disgusting, really scraping the bottom of the barrel and until recently I was getting horrible weird messages from fake accounts of which I always report. One of the people doing this actually said in a conversation with me that no one would believe me, I realised this afterwards, when i re read old messages. I actually thought that person was my friend (a fellow aspie). Obviously not.