Been with my bf a year. We are very much in love.
This last two months two things have happened. We had both had way too much to drink. I did wind him up both times.
First time, big argument, he chucked me on the chair and had his hands on my throat while yelling.
Second time. Kept pushing me over in an argument. No hitting. I kept getting up to be pushed to the floor again. But the final push I hit furniture and hurt myself. Needed stitches.
He is the most gentle man usually. Both times a lot of drink was involved. I was arguing back.
I know what I would think if it was a friend.