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My Dh died this morning and I don't know how to go on

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JuanPotatoTwo · 27/02/2017 19:18

But I will because I have to, because I have 4 incredible dc he loved.

I'm so so sad, didn't see it coming this time. Been lots of occasions in the past when we thought we'd lose him but he fought back and pulled through. Too much for him this time. One month today we would have been married 24 years.

Being self indulgent posting but I'm trying to put on brave front for dc even though 3 of them are adult and trying to be brave for me. We all loved him so much.

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sofiainwonderland · 27/02/2017 19:50

So very sorry Juan... may he rest in peace. Be strong and blessed. May God be with you....

I hope you're surrounded by amazing supportive people!

McButtonwillow · 27/02/2017 19:51

So sorry Juan sending you much love Flowers

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ChrisYoungFuckingRocks · 27/02/2017 19:53

I am so sorry to hear this Juan. My husband died very suddenly one morning, and it took a long time to get over it. I really do feel for you. It's very difficult now, and take your time. If you need to be around people, then ask. If you need to be alone, then ask. Do what you need to for yourself to get through this time. It does get easier, but right now you have to put yourself first. Flowers

winewolfhowls · 27/02/2017 19:53

How indescribably terrible, so sorry for your loss Juan.

Raahh · 27/02/2017 19:54

Oh Juan

I don't know what to say, my lovely. Flowers

(((Hugs)))

Take care of yourself , it must be such a shock.

BitOfFun · 27/02/2017 19:56

Oh love, I'm so sorry to hear this- your whole family are in my thoughts xxx

Bombay2Goa · 27/02/2017 19:56

So sorry for your loss. May your many memories of togetherness always keep his spirit alive and strong in your heart. Flowers

Fiderer · 27/02/2017 19:56

Juan - you poor love. Hugs & kisses to you all.
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YoureAllABunchOfBastards · 27/02/2017 19:57

So very sorry xxx

Lynnm63 · 27/02/2017 19:57

So sorry for your loss Juan, we are all here for you. Flowers

SailAwayWithMeHoney · 27/02/2017 19:57

So sorry for you loss Flowers

UnicornsShitRainbows · 27/02/2017 19:57

oh love. please take comfort in the fact that so so many people care. even if we dont know you, we still care that you are hurting. I hope you have some support. my condolences added to all those before me.

SallyGinnamon · 27/02/2017 19:57

Awful awful awful. Flowers

Nothing I can say but sending hugs to you and your DC.

Inertia · 27/02/2017 19:58

So sorry to hear this Flowers. I hope you and your children are able to support one another.

SemiNormal · 27/02/2017 19:58

Thinking of you and your family Juan, be kind to yourself in the coming months Flowers

HelenaGWells · 27/02/2017 19:58

So sorry for your loss

ColdAsIceCubes · 27/02/2017 19:59

Flowers I'm so sorry. Love to you and your children.

MackerelOfFact · 27/02/2017 19:59

Such tragic news. I am so sorry. Sending love to you and your DCs. Flowers

Bluefluff · 27/02/2017 19:59

I'm so sorry xx Flowers

CatThiefKeith · 27/02/2017 19:59

Oh Juan I am so sorry. Much love and light to you and you dc. We are here is you need us. Flowers

BoreOfWhabylon · 27/02/2017 20:00

So very sorry Juan Flowers

Ordinarily · 27/02/2017 20:00

So sorry to hear this Juan. Flowers

Klaptout · 27/02/2017 20:01

So very sorry to read this Juan.
You are not self indulgent, there are no rights wrongs or expectation for how you feel and what you do.
Whatever is ok.
I hope you have people within hugging distance. Flowers

HazelBite · 27/02/2017 20:02

Love and strength to you Flowers