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My Dh died this morning and I don't know how to go on

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JuanPotatoTwo · 27/02/2017 19:18

But I will because I have to, because I have 4 incredible dc he loved.

I'm so so sad, didn't see it coming this time. Been lots of occasions in the past when we thought we'd lose him but he fought back and pulled through. Too much for him this time. One month today we would have been married 24 years.

Being self indulgent posting but I'm trying to put on brave front for dc even though 3 of them are adult and trying to be brave for me. We all loved him so much.

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ExplodedCloud · 27/02/2017 20:02

Very sad news Flowers for you

yousignup · 27/02/2017 20:02

Oh no. There is nothing I can say to make it better. I am sorry for your loss.

millionsofpeaches · 27/02/2017 20:02

Sorry for your loss Juan. Flowers

PageStillNotFound404 · 27/02/2017 20:02

Oh you poor, poor thing. Much love to you and your children Flowers

FourToTheFloor · 27/02/2017 20:03

I'm very sorry for you and your family Flowers

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 27/02/2017 20:03

Flowers. Love and thoughts to you all. .I'm so heartily sorry for your loss

Natsku · 27/02/2017 20:05

So sorry for your loss. I hope the messages here help you in any little way.

Draylon · 27/02/2017 20:05

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MollyHuaCha · 27/02/2017 20:06

That's so sad. What can I say? Big hugs winging their way to you through cyberspace right now. So sorry JuanPotato, your heart must be breaking xx

stillshewishedforcompany · 27/02/2017 20:06

So so sorry. Post as much as you need.

silverfingersandtoes · 27/02/2017 20:06

So sorry Juan. I feel for you; I've been there. In fact I'm still there. Try to get through just one day at a time. So many of us will be thinking of you.

MrsKoala · 27/02/2017 20:07

I'm so sorry. Flowers

topcat2014 · 27/02/2017 20:08

Very sorry to hear your news.

MrsVamos · 27/02/2017 20:08

Juan my lovely.

There's nothing I can say to make you feel better.

Just sending you & family all my love.

Huge hugs.

MrsV xxx

HarryBlackberry · 27/02/2017 20:08

Flowersxxx

Notsure1234 · 27/02/2017 20:08

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Blossomdeary · 27/02/2017 20:09

That is such sad news - I am sending you kind thoughts. I am glad that your family are there and you can support each other.

IlPorcupinoNilSodomyEst · 27/02/2017 20:10

I'm so sorry to hear this, sending lots of love Flowers

GlitteryFluff · 27/02/2017 20:10

In so sorry Flowers

StiickEmUp · 27/02/2017 20:10
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DanniiMinogue · 27/02/2017 20:10

Oh my goodness, I'm so very sorry - hugs to you and your dc x x

LorelaiVictoriaGilmore · 27/02/2017 20:11

I can't imagine what you and your DC must be going through right now. So sorry for your loss and hope you are getting lots of rl support as well. Flowers

MoonlightMedicine · 27/02/2017 20:11

Im so sorry, much love to you and your children. Take all the support and comfort you can from those around you Flowers

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 27/02/2017 20:11

I'm so sorry, Juan. Be very grateful for your DC. When my DH died our DC were what kept me going. Had I not had them I might easily have harmed myself. The impulse was there - again and again - but the DC were far too precious for me to ever take it further.

You will smile again. In the meantime, focus on the DC. You may be in a wasteland of loss, but they will still need all the everyday stuff.

AYankinSpanx · 27/02/2017 20:12

I'm so sorry. Pour out whatever you want, whenever you need to. Flowers