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My Dh died this morning and I don't know how to go on

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JuanPotatoTwo · 27/02/2017 19:18

But I will because I have to, because I have 4 incredible dc he loved.

I'm so so sad, didn't see it coming this time. Been lots of occasions in the past when we thought we'd lose him but he fought back and pulled through. Too much for him this time. One month today we would have been married 24 years.

Being self indulgent posting but I'm trying to put on brave front for dc even though 3 of them are adult and trying to be brave for me. We all loved him so much.

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Horsemad · 27/02/2017 19:31

Flowers Thinking of you and your family. X

gnatgnu · 27/02/2017 19:31

Oh Juan, this is so sad, I hope that you have support around you x

WateryTart · 27/02/2017 19:31

So sorry, wishing you strength to get you through.

RustyPaperclip · 27/02/2017 19:31

So sorry for your loss. You are not being self indulgent at all. Keep posting if it helps you Flowers

Uiscebeatha85 · 27/02/2017 19:31

Flowers I'm so sorry Op Flowers

thebear1 · 27/02/2017 19:32

Sorry for your loss.

MissisBoote · 27/02/2017 19:32

I'm so sorry for your loss - thoughts with you and your family Flowers

SilentlyScreamingAgain · 27/02/2017 19:32

I'm so sorry for your loss. X

Dumdedumdedum · 27/02/2017 19:32

I am so sorry, Juan, please accept my condolences. May your husband rest in peace.
Not self-indulgent at all, you must be in awful shock.

Booper42 · 27/02/2017 19:32

So sad and very sorry to read this - I just cannot imagine what you are going through, really hope someone comes along who can give you some practical sdvice XX

Dontjudgeme1 · 27/02/2017 19:33

Thats really sad news. So sorry for you and your family.

tinglyfing · 27/02/2017 19:33

So sorry for your loss Flowers

WhatWouldLeslieKnopeDo · 27/02/2017 19:33

Flowers I'm sorry

Pinbasket · 27/02/2017 19:35

So sorry for your loss Juan. Flowers

Finola1step · 27/02/2017 19:36

Oh Juan I'm so very sorry for your loss. Flowers

icelollycraving · 27/02/2017 19:36

So sorry for the loss of your dh. Hope you have some support around you Flowers

NewPuppyMum · 27/02/2017 19:36

I'm so sorry Juan Flowers.

Doyouthinktheysaurus · 27/02/2017 19:36

I am so very sorry for your lossThanks

Thinking of you and your family

MyCatIsABiggerBastardThanYours · 27/02/2017 19:36

I'm sorry to hear that.

You are allowed to be self indulgent. Flowers

ChickenVindaloo2 · 27/02/2017 19:37

I'm so sorry for your loss. I do hope that your children and your happy memories will get you through this time. xx

HemanOrSheRa · 27/02/2017 19:37

Oh Juan I am so sorry Flowers.

Beeziekn33ze · 27/02/2017 19:37

💐 So sorry for you and DC at such a distressing time.

building2017 · 27/02/2017 19:38

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Note3 · 27/02/2017 19:38

I'm so sorry you've all experienced this loss. I hope you have people you can get comfort from. Offering you my sincere condolences

MollyHopps · 27/02/2017 19:39

Juan, you need to let yourself grieve. It's OK, you don't have to be brave right now, and everyone will know (and be there for you) you are going to crumble.

Thanks There is no right or wrong when it comes to grief.