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Is this ok? (New guy, not sure)

181 replies

Princessmollygolly · 13/02/2017 14:38

Quick straw poll: Guy you're seeing for 6 weeks, sleeping with etc, goes away for a (female) friend's birthday weekend (apparently about 8 people there, old uni friends.) Gets tagged in a photo naked in a hot tub wth also naked girl (another female "friend") Looking very cosy. Alcohol everywhere.
Is that ok?
Thoughts..?

OP posts:
EighthElement · 14/02/2017 15:42

Yes. He'll know you've seen it.

Princessmollygolly · 14/02/2017 15:48

Thing I see he was on about the hot tub before he went and I didn't say anything. I guess I thought it was weird that he was so obsessed with it but it was seeing this photo put up by this girl who he never mentioned (he mentioned the other attendees) that made me feel a bit funny, that and the fact that he didn't speak to me while he was there all weekend... I dunno.... and he wouldn't meet me when I said I had something for him which just made me feel a bit meh. Then I thought about more stuff such as the sex and booty call stuff which at the time I tried not to think about because it was so not what I expected from him when I first knew him.

OP posts:
iMatter · 14/02/2017 15:55

Sounds like he was trying to make you jealous with the wanky showing off about the hot tub.

Bellend.

However, this is about so much more than him getting excited about sharing a jacuzzi with a couple of women.

He's not a keeper op.

Lucky escape I think.

ReggaeShark · 14/02/2017 16:58

What are you going to do OP?

Surreyblah · 14/02/2017 18:57

Thought you'd decided to bin him?

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer · 14/02/2017 21:09

I think she has, Surrey but this is a safe space for navel-gazing, amiright? Grin

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