husband has been using adultswork.com.

[Maryagness19]

i have just found out my husband has been on adultswork web site why I picked up his I pad I will never know. I logged on as him and I am absolutely deverstated. he was getting e mails and sent his phone number to a working girl.
he claims he never turned up for the appointment and it was just the thrill
there were at least 4 girls he was in contact with.
I really really want to believe he never went to the meeting but I just cant
get passed it. he swears he never went
should I believe him how can I get proof. at this moment in time I am hardly functioning he was the last person I thought would do this.he has deleted his account with them and cant say sorry enough but it just makes it worse appologies just don't cut it.

previous message was thanks to joystir. just goes to show how out of it I really am

OP, don't think all men do this, they don't, and 1 in 4 visiting prostitutes sounds like BS to me.

OP is you search Adultwork in Relationships on MN you will find many threads where the H claims exactly as your has done - that he was just making appointments for the thrill of it.

It's the standard response when they get caught out.

Sorry

Even if he did it just for the "thrill" that would be enough for me to end it. I'm not going to sit around while my husband gets his rocks off contacting other women. Fuck that shit.