i don't know if i can talk about it here?

[panele01]

hello everyone,
i am new here and i don't know,i am not sure if i can talk about it here? i am 20 weeks and 4 days pregnant
,but i am having problems in my life right now,difficulties,complications

My brain is everywhere right now, i need to slow down and take one step by step,i am feeling really weak right now,i didn't feel like posting in here since i didn't take any actions yet and i didn't do something important for me and my baby.....hmmmm

How did you get a scan without midwifery services being alerted/triggered?

Unless you are consciously avoiding healthcare?
Usually once you are 'in' the antenatal system you are placed on a very clear pathway of care, and it's usually fairly robust and standardised on a national level.

But that's exactly what you did just do
Blame your doctor

SomewhereInbetween,ok,ok,i did

MetallicBeige,i have called my GP and she referred me there,my GP didn't say that i will need midwife yet,i was only doing the scan to find out,how far ahead i was in a pregnancy? That was the time when i wasn't sure if i wanted to continue with the pregnancy or not

Ok,ok,i am not blaming my GP,it is my fault that i haven't done anything so far

Panele, I think you might be anaemic (too little iron in your blood.) It makes you very tired and weak.

When you begin your pregnancy care, your blood will be tested and you will get an medicines you need.

• any medicines you need

GarlicBake,could be,i don't know

Of course you don't know! You need a health check :)

Are you scared to go out of the house?

There is something not right about this thread.

I'm sorry but I just do not get it and I am really worried for this baby

Agreed twosugars

GarlicBake,kind of yes,some of the moments i feel i am ok,i am brave and then go out,but some of the moments i can't be bothered,all i want is to stay sleeping,nothing else,i can't even get myself out of the bed

I thought you were on the sofa not a bed?

Correction: sofa

Yes,it was my writing mistake,sorry,no no no no,i do sleep on a sofa,i am not lying to you,why would i lie about my life? I don't have no intentions/reasons to lie

It seems that people in here,are not believing in me at all? What i say and what i have said

I am really sorry

You have said a lot that does not make sense, a lot that raises many questions and many concerns. You have had some fantastic advice here folk have been attempting to help you and support you yet you just keep going round in circles, not doing anything to change the situation you say you are in and still keep coming back saying the same things over and over. That is why some people are not believing you. Like I've said in previous messages, there is some things about your story that don't add up

Ok,i see

panele01 is feeling sleepy,she had a stressful day today

Panele, in the morning read some of the great advice in the posts on this thread. Then either phone or go and see the people who will be able to help you.

I think we know that is not going to happen.
The question is why.

lamaBluebird

Thank you very much Goodnight everyone,sweet dreams,all the best,good luck,take care,bye