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My husband is a cunt

220 replies

myhusbandisacunt · 29/07/2015 17:18

My husband is a cunt.
#justsaying

I found out on Saturday (whilst on a family holiday) that he has been having an affair for 10 years.
10 fucking pisstaking, lying, cuntish fucking years.

This is why he is a cunt and I hate him.
I also wonder where the actual fuck her (OW) self esteem is hiding, and also wonder why I am such a gullible fucking prick.

I probably won't post again on this thread, but if I do it may not be for ages as I am currently packing all his fucking shit up, I am just taking a break.

I am not a troll, mn can verify this if needs be.

OP posts:
Mrstobe90 · 26/07/2018 00:33

So happy to read this update!

I hope karma bites him in the ass one day (soon)!!

You're so strong and have so much going for you! He will end up miserable and alone and quite frankly, he deserves it.

Burrumpeel · 26/07/2018 00:37

When I read that he'd cheated on the OW I laughed out loud. Grin. Hope that doesn't make me a bad person.

Callyd · 02/06/2020 23:51

I’m feel for you. How you doing love?
I wish I could get away from this fat ugly manipulative miserable cunt of mine. I hope you made it x🥰🥰🥰😂😂😂

Callyd · 03/06/2020 00:21

God human males are cunts eh?

Callyd · 03/06/2020 00:23

Utter fucking cunts. Ive wasted my life. 54 years x

willowmelangell · 03/06/2020 01:51

2016 and 2018 updates
I think this might be a zombie.

needhandhold · 03/06/2020 05:55

What’s happened @Callyd?

Callyd · 03/06/2020 08:58

Got to the end of my tether that’s all. When you dont care if you ever see him again you know it’s over 😊

Callyd · 03/06/2020 08:59

Ps. I’m not a zombie 😂

Whatabambam · 04/06/2020 00:07

Oh wow. That's an epic betrayal but you must not feel foolosh. Your trust in the relationship is testament to your good character. His betrayal and cruelty is a testament to his nasty character. Please make sure that you eat, sleep, cry and get lots of support from your friends and family. Xxx

vikingwife · 04/06/2020 00:33

So sorry this has happened to you. If it’s any consolation this is hands down the best thread title + opening (albeit possibly only!) post.
Just a good old fashioned, straight up no bullshit DUMPING. Me husband’s a cunt. See ya ladies, packing the prick’s bags up & chucking him out’s gonna take awhile & don’t know if I’ll even be able to be bothered posting about the loser. Peace out.”

Throwing their stuff out in a pile out the front for anyone who drives past to collect & sending them a pic of it all by the roadside & something simple like “better hurry it’s going fast”

Grin
TirisfalPumpkin · 04/06/2020 08:09

I'm guessing the thread resurrection was via a poster searching for the (rather relatable) thread title and posting here rather than starting a new one.

It's good to hear a happy / ironic ending to a story from time to time, I love it when OPs come back years later and update. Creates a whole archive of 'it was shit at the time but turned out fine in the end' for women still going through the shit time to read and be reassured by.

Callyd · 14/06/2020 23:59

its not going to turn out ok. The plan at the moment is to outlive the fucking eejit x

Callyd · 15/06/2020 00:02

He only gets a aroused when he has a dirty dream? Cheers you dickhead. 40 yrs I’ve given to you. Heart and soul. Not boasting. But I know I still have it going on. Xxxx

Callyd · 15/06/2020 00:05

Sorry ladies. It’s 30 years. Not 40. But jeez it feels like it XX

Regretful123 · 15/06/2020 01:19

Love it x got a bit confused as to why an old post was dragged up.

The woman across the road has three kids to a man who was married... no idea why, he’s not that attractive

Happynow001 · 15/06/2020 07:21

Wow. I'm so sorry you and the children are going through this.

Thank goodness you are being so focused and practical at the moment:
I also already moved all the money to a bank account which is in my name only on the day I found out.

that will help drive you forward to what you need to do.

Also take a look at www.entitledto.co.uk and/or www.turn2us.org.uk for benefits help. Also don't forget to apply, when appropriate, to get your 25% "single occupier" council tax discount with your local council.

Good luck OP. 🌹

Happynow001 · 15/06/2020 07:23

Oops!

Callyd · 15/06/2020 08:47

TirisfalPumpkin you are 100% correct 😊

BigBoosh · 15/06/2020 08:51

I get you're upset but that language is vile.

Callyd · 15/06/2020 13:33

The clue is in the title of the thread. If you’re offended by a bunch of women venting off to each other then do not read the thread. It’s that simple. You have NO idea what some of us have been living with and the sheer desperation we feel. Have a lovely day 😊

user1497873278 · 15/06/2020 14:29

Callyd
You are so right some people have no idea, just started divorce process I’m 50 think he thought he could carry on treating me like shit forever, well after 33 years and 4 kids I’m done, being in lockdown and in agony from a slipped disc for months, I’m done with my cunt of a husband, I also had a read of his phone while up all night in pain and his comments about me were awful pure nasty ness at the only time I have ever asked for his help. The rest of the time he’s a controlling, moaning, shouty bastard and he can’t understand why I don’t want to be with him😂 well he wouldn’t would he because he never does anything wrong fucking perfect my husband he’s going to need a big new house when everything is sorted so that he can fit in all his shit plus his big fucking head and ego, so yes there are many man cunts out there, I can’t wait for it to be someone else scrubbing his fucking shit of the back of the toilet every fucking morning, I have done my time and guess what when I couldn’t bend for months the shit just sat there I squirted the bleach on it but he couldn’t even clean up after himself when I was desperate so good luck for the next mug that takes care of him I’m sure there will be one along shortly

Callyd · 15/06/2020 18:57

Good luck to you my love. 🥰xxx

user1497873278 · 16/06/2020 08:59

Thank you shit at the moment but I’m hoping for better days 🙏

NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 16/06/2020 09:27

(Sorry about all the 'cunt'ing btw - on here is the only place I can be that ragey and that badly sweary)

I'll take you down the football when it all starts up again: it's positively encouraged Grin

So sorry for what you're going through. You will get through it. You will emerge stronger. Trust me. Flowers for you.