My husband is a cunt

[myhusbandisacunt]

My husband is a cunt.
#justsaying

I found out on Saturday (whilst on a family holiday) that he has been having an affair for 10 years.
10 fucking pisstaking, lying, cuntish fucking years.

This is why he is a cunt and I hate him.
I also wonder where the actual fuck her (OW) self esteem is hiding, and also wonder why I am such a gullible fucking prick.

I probably won't post again on this thread, but if I do it may not be for ages as I am currently packing all his fucking shit up, I am just taking a break.

I am not a troll, mn can verify this if needs be.

Just read your original post op and I'm so glad things are looking up for you.

All the best x

Good luck with starting Uni. Glad that you are happy

You're such a strong woman, OP. To be dealt that body blow and recover from it better than before, is an amazing achievement. Best wishes to you and I hope that university is a wonderful experience for you.

Wow - you are brilliant, well done indeed.

I did think the OW will be savage that he helped you move and is amicable. How you even manage to be civil to him is way more than I ever managed. You are a far better woman than I was! Good luck with uni, am sure you will be brilliant.

Lovely update OP. Glad things are going well for you x

I'm so so pleased to read this. I'm sure things will get better and better for you.

Bless you and your kids! What an amazing update. Wish you only the very best, your ex has no clue about the woman you are and it's really his loss.

Wow I had that for about 6 months - STBXH had affair at work - but feel for you as your ex is a complete and nasty idiot.

Well done you for venting and looking ahead.

You are a superstar and an inspiration.

This is my favourite bit though....please keep us updated to their demise...

He's still with OW, but now that she has 'won her prize', she is showing her true colours & isn't just the ego-massaging, compassionate cheerleader that she was when he was 'unhappily' married; he isn't the impassioned, Romeo, knight in shining armour that he played to her Juliet....they are not living the fairytale dream that they fondly imagined - real life has scuppered the rose-tinted daydream of the star crossed lovers.
Who knew that would happen?!?!

It's the same script as I had! The hateful phone call from the OW a few weeks later (they must be crapping themselves that 'their man' just wants to return home?), followed by 'Cunt Romeo and Cunt Juliet' splitting up after two years.

Anyway, many many years on I am so very glad I'm not with him. I had to be strong and it taught me a lot.

Thanks for your update. You sound amazing.

I put all Xcunts designer suits, shoes in black plastic bags into a charity shop... And his affair was 4 years , she was a prostitute with a child ( his)
What a bastard, I thought 4 years was the worst
Go for it !!!

Oh no wonder you're raging,how rotten of him. Have a justified expletive peppered rant.
And then...
Get advice inc legal. Plan what you want to do
Garner your own support network,and look after yourself
Try eat well,go frequently go for a walk to clear your head.buy yourself a treat

Romeo Montacunt and Juliet Cuntulet. That's them, that is. Doomed an' all.

Well done OP! You deserve to be happy. Good luck with starting uni!

I read this as if it had just happened. Didn't notice the year then saw your update and now I want to cry. I'm so sorry you went through all that. Not sorry at all it wasn't loves young dream for them. Chuffed to bits you've got your house etc and your children are well.

I feel shit I'm one of the useless, weak, pathetic wives who stayed with a cheating husband. 15 months of contact then met three times and shagged and finished it. She's clearly not as hot as she thought sorry

I hope one day I'll feel like you do

Wow! Well done you after such a year. Glad to hear life is not rosy for your ex. Enjoy your new home, Uni and your boys.

So loves young dream are finding real life a bit of a struggle eh? What a fucking pity! Be careful what you wish for....:o:o

This is awesome, well done OP. I lurked on your original thread. Lovely to see you come out the other side.

Thanks for update, misread also , good luck with uni and happy times in your new home

Should've read more of thread before giving into my rage. Thanks OP, glad things on the up and up for you

Love the update. Happy for you.

Upwards and onwards.... Well done OP !

Wonderful update. Good luck at uni. :)

I never saw your thread last year, and have just read your brave, inspiring story.

This must have been such a difficult year for you, and I am so pleased that you can now see light at the end of the tunnel. Be very proud of yourself!

Enjoy your new home and Uni, I wish you nothing but the best 💐