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My husband is a cunt

220 replies

myhusbandisacunt · 29/07/2015 17:18

My husband is a cunt.
#justsaying

I found out on Saturday (whilst on a family holiday) that he has been having an affair for 10 years.
10 fucking pisstaking, lying, cuntish fucking years.

This is why he is a cunt and I hate him.
I also wonder where the actual fuck her (OW) self esteem is hiding, and also wonder why I am such a gullible fucking prick.

I probably won't post again on this thread, but if I do it may not be for ages as I am currently packing all his fucking shit up, I am just taking a break.

I am not a troll, mn can verify this if needs be.

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TaliZorahVasNormandy · 29/07/2015 20:24

I wouldnt call him a cunt, since he lacks the warmth and depth of one.

I'd call him a useless piece of stinking, nasty, fetid shit that has been left on the ground baking in the hot sun all day.

What an absolute fuck nugget. Stay strong, you know you deserve better.

ThoseAwfulCurtains · 29/07/2015 20:26

When you say 'packing", I hope that means compressing it down into the smallest possible space, using force and/or a lump hammer where necessary.
What a cunt.
Put a few prawns in random and hard to guess places while you pack.

Rubberduck2 · 29/07/2015 20:32

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loveliesbleeding1 · 29/07/2015 20:39

Hope you're as ok as can be, please don't call yourself names.

BastardGoDarkly · 29/07/2015 20:39

Oh fucking hell, I'm so sorry, do you have children together? There is lots of life left to enjoy, without this utter bastard.

And yes, shit in his suitcase Flowers

Longdistance · 29/07/2015 20:41

Don't forget to pack his dirty laundry so the ow can do it now...

So sorry you've been married to a cunt Flowers Wine

swisscheesetony · 29/07/2015 20:49

Holy crap you poor thing. Xxx

I opened this thread expecting tales of some minor in indiscretion such as roses vs lilies - and my jaw dropped!

You are NOT some gullible fool. It's not like your routine changed over a few weeks and it's all been a bit "off". It's been your normality for 10 years so of course it seemed normal.

Sending much love and support.

Moobaloo · 29/07/2015 20:55

What an absolute fuckbadgering cuntweasel. I'm so sorry op. You sound awesome, fwiw.

WineBrewThanks For you. Definitely prawns for his clothes.

Mimigolightly · 29/07/2015 20:58

Flowers for you. I am so, so sorry that you're going through this.

myhusbandisacunt · 29/07/2015 20:59

Have 2 boys, am furious beyond belief but also strangely fine.

Actually found out on Saturday whilst away on family holiday; kicked him out of the room immediately, took his house/car keys etc.
Flew back all on same flight yesterday then he left to go straight to OW's house and I drove home with the kids.

Lots of tears etc since Saturday and then especially yesterday, but woke up strangely in control today.
I have spent the day cleansing the house of all his stuff (did not shit in it though Grin), and had it all in the hall ready for him to pick up earlier tonight.
He has 'promised' me and the kids that he will look after us financially, but obviously he is a compulsive liar so I will take that with a pinch of salt.

I posted on here in a bit of a ragey moment earlier when I was taking a break - I like it that I can be entirely honest on mn and say what I really think/feel.
On fb I have been dignified - I do not usually share a lot on fb tbh, but just posted that we have split up. I have been overwhelmed by the lovely replies from so many friends and have had loads of messages and offers of help etc - I feel so lucky and am touched that I have real support.
My next door neighbour who I usually only pass the time with, but who always makes me laugh popped round to see if I was ok and cheered me up loads.
MN is obvs amazing as everyone is totally ruthless and lovely as ever.

I may post again, I may not - but thank you so much for all your posts and flowers.
Thanks

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BathtimeFunkster · 29/07/2015 21:04

He has 'promised' me and the kids that he will look after us financially

Wow, that's big of him.

He stole a decade of your life, but he's going to do what all husbands do for their families as a matter of course.

Utter cunt.

OooMatron · 29/07/2015 21:05

Stay strong and take care.

Finallyonboard · 29/07/2015 21:09

Fucking cunt! Hope things feel better soon.

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 29/07/2015 21:11

so good that you have real life support.

but of course we are here for you as long as you need

stay strong (sending you hugs or fist bumps as you preferWink )

SoleBizzzz · 29/07/2015 22:05
Flowers

This wasn't your fault.

Onedayinthesun · 29/07/2015 22:10

Pair of Cunts. Best of luck OP xx

ThoseAwfulCurtains · 29/07/2015 23:00

I hope his knob turns black and drops off.
Cunt.

BettyCatKitten · 29/07/2015 23:29

Grin ^this

notrocketscience · 29/07/2015 23:38

Well now the OW gets to wash his dirty pants, smell his farts and feed the bast**d. Lucky her.

He's a fool.

And you are going to go through hell and back with a roller coaster of emotions.

Take care m'dear. X

Lacoba66 · 29/07/2015 23:46

If you need us , then we are here. Flowers x

moonriverandme · 29/07/2015 23:49

So sorry op what a shock for you. It sounds as if the ow has won herself a lovely prize. He has shown you who he really is. Pity it took 10 years. Hope you continue to have plenty of support from family and friends. The least he can do is give you generous financial support, Flowers

BitchPeas · 29/07/2015 23:52

The pair of cunts will be miserable as sin in a few months when the novelty wears off.

Be cold and be clever. You owe him nothing. Flowers

BitOutOfPractice · 29/07/2015 23:56

Yanbu op he is indeed a cunt

HoldYerWhist · 30/07/2015 00:05

I hate him for you. Walker.

HoldYerWhist · 30/07/2015 00:06

*wanker Blush