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My husband is a cunt

220 replies

myhusbandisacunt · 29/07/2015 17:18

My husband is a cunt.
#justsaying

I found out on Saturday (whilst on a family holiday) that he has been having an affair for 10 years.
10 fucking pisstaking, lying, cuntish fucking years.

This is why he is a cunt and I hate him.
I also wonder where the actual fuck her (OW) self esteem is hiding, and also wonder why I am such a gullible fucking prick.

I probably won't post again on this thread, but if I do it may not be for ages as I am currently packing all his fucking shit up, I am just taking a break.

I am not a troll, mn can verify this if needs be.

OP posts:
CocktailQueen · 29/07/2015 18:44

I'm so sorry. What a horrible, horrible shock. You're right. Your husband is a cunt. Hugs and flowers for you.

Rant away!

Boofy27 · 29/07/2015 18:45

...also wonder why I am such a gullible fucking prick...

You trusted the man you're married to, nowt wrong with that.

Now that's cleared up, have you considered shitting on top on his things?

headlesslambrini · 29/07/2015 18:54

Does he know that you know yet? Ask someone to come and sit with you when he's home to give you some moral support.

At least you wont waste any more time on him now that you know. He is obviously a skilled lyer so dont waste time listening to anything he says. Good luck.

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 29/07/2015 19:26

Definitely a cunt.
poor you OPThanks

The5DayChicken · 29/07/2015 19:26

Definitely a cunt. I hope it's a nice shock for him when he arrives home and realises his bags are packed and you know everything.

Ouchbloodyouch · 29/07/2015 19:32

My ex partner was a cheating cunt and I am pretty lovely. You married him because he's a lying cunt a bulshitting cunt. Its him not you. Karma finds its way. It really does. But I am sorry for this to be happening to you as unfortunately karma takes its own sweet time.

WicksEnd · 29/07/2015 19:36

I hope you're packing with a liberal splash of bleach & tinned tuna.

Flowers
Octopush13 · 29/07/2015 19:37

He is. At least it wasn't 11...or longer...every day saved from him is worth celebrating...take care.

TokenGinger · 29/07/2015 19:41

What an absolute fuck face.

Finola1step · 29/07/2015 19:45

10 years. Oh My Goodness. Flowers

bimandbam · 29/07/2015 19:50

Jesus christ op. What a wankerbastard he is.

Do you have wine and a friend for company?

Do the financial side of things first. Then chuck his shit in the car and dump it in the ows front garden. Or his mothers if you don't know where she lives. Or his work. Or his mates house. Don't be careful with bags and shit. Just turf his stuff out.

Then buy alldawine or alldagin.

LovesPeace · 29/07/2015 19:50

If you aren't supposed to trust the man who asked you to marry him, what's the point.
Onwards and upwards without the twat.

GreenTee · 29/07/2015 19:51

I would agree that your husband is a cunt, OP!

What a vile man he is. How has he lived with himself for the past 10 years is what I'd like to know.

goddessofsmallthings · 29/07/2015 19:54

Put it this way, GreenTee, cunts like him rarely get stress related ulcers.

Lizzylou · 29/07/2015 19:54

Shit, in your place he would be wearing his balls as earrings Op.
Hope you are as ok as you can be.
Use the anger!

LillyBugg · 29/07/2015 19:55

Wow OP. Channel that anger and get his shit packed up ASAP and out the fucking door. Ten years. Cunt doesn't cover it.

SylvanianCaliphate · 29/07/2015 19:59

Absolute cunt.

Almost the definition of.

You aren't gullible you are a normal, feeling human being who wouldn't dream of doing that so wouldn't expect it either.
Flowers

Vatersay · 29/07/2015 20:01

Ten years? With the same OW? What kind of person is capable of that level of deceit?

I hope you have real life support.

Don't do anything rash (however tempting the suggestions above are Grin).

Keep the moral high ground and get yourself an amazing solicitor.

ArseForElbow · 29/07/2015 20:04

Rant away, he is a cunt and you deserve so much more. Flowers

Hissy · 29/07/2015 20:05

You're not gullible, not at all. Not to blame, not at fault, none of these things.

He did this.

10 years. Jeez. I supoose it's harder to spot signs when behaviour is always like that due to the length of the deception. What an arse.

Offred · 29/07/2015 20:09

You aren't gullible, I imagine he's just a cunt and you trusted him without having access to the full picture - that's his fault because he spent a lot of time and effort on achieving it, it's not yours...

Tronkmanton · 29/07/2015 20:12

Packing his stuff? Set fire to it!!!

chairmeoh · 29/07/2015 20:15

Jesus! What an absolute shit. He's probably feeling pretty smug that he's got away with it for so long, but his life is about to take a very bad turn for the worse.
Stay angry OP, for as long as it takes to get rid.
Then get even by building a fantastic single life for yourself.

VelmaD · 29/07/2015 20:17

10 years Shock Shock what an absolute cunt. and i dont use that word.

are you ok practically? do you have physical support?

Lacoba66 · 29/07/2015 20:17

OP, you are correct! He is a cunt! Will always be one as well....

OW has the morals of a "wipe of your shoe" but he is the biggest turd in all this.

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