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DH spent over 500 in strip club

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Graceunderfire01 · 19/02/2015 01:53

Hi
This is my first post. I had posted earlier but my message disappeared. I know this topic has probably been done to death but I'm looking for some help/ information.
Whilst going through our bank statements tonight I've noticed a number of translations for a strip club in our city and I'm fucking raging. Dh was entertaining clients after a corporate even that he was part of and obviously took them to this strip club. How fucking clichéd! Anyway my question is the translations are for set amounts , £110 x2 and £130 x2 - what is this likely to be? As in what service did he avail of? You may laugh at this question but my knowledge of the prices and range of the 'services' on offer at these places is not good.
Can anyone please help? I'm mortified to be asking and fucking livid I'm in this situation.
Thank you

OP posts:
Iflyaway · 20/02/2015 19:33

Even the fact that OP has to put this out here means they have basic rules to talk about in their relationship = boundaries.

shutupayaface · 20/02/2015 20:03

My dh takes money for courses and ongoing exams etc out of personal money all the time and some for well over £500 usually reimbursed some not. I don't care as I know it's for the good of the family income in the long run.

Fairenuff · 20/02/2015 20:35

Since when did company expenditure relate to how mych somebody is paid?

When you have to pay it up front and get reimbursed a few weeks later.

AnyFucker · 20/02/2015 21:09

All this expense account bollocks, showing off about their husband's status and apparent ability to post anything without reference to said bloke is actually by the by

the op's husband has been spending large amounts of money, by any body's standards, on interacting with other women's genitals

any chance we could get back to that, and give op a chance to update us on how the conversation went with her punter of a husband ?

AnyFucker · 20/02/2015 21:11

*inability

Mom2K · 21/02/2015 03:04

I haven't read through everything so I don't know what has been discussed beyond the first two pages.

Regarding the amount he spent - I'd probably phone up the strip club myself, making it like I was arranging a stag do or something similar and ask for the price breakdown of their services. That should give you your answer as to what he bought. If the amount he spent (ie. 130 or 120) didn't come up...I'd ask if there was one particular service I could get for either of those amounts as that's the budget you're willing to spend on an extra "treat" for the groom to be or whoever.

I can't stand speculation. I'd cut right to the chase and see what I could get out of it.

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