can you just ask someone for sex?

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If you suspect that someone fancies you, how wrong is it to just ask them if they'd like some sex?

I'm not up for a relationship at all. But I'd really like some sex.

I don't think subtle is going to work. Or at least it will take too long. Or they might think I want to go out with them.

remind me how this works. It's been a while.

Are you both single for starters?

You been like a FWB situation? I don't even no how mine started so no idea. It was a long time ago though.

You could shout across a crowd 'Yo/Oi, wanna bang?'

But you have to mime hip thrusting while you do it.

Absolutely. 'Sex me up, buttercup' usually works.

I think it's widely regarded as a bit of a social faux pas.

Could you try making a round hole with one hand and poke your finger through it, whilst winking and licking your lips ?

Worth a pop ?

Open your legs, show him your foof!

ROFL I'll work on the thrusting.

No "would you be interested in coming over for a night of drinking and activities up to and possibly including recreational sex?"...

that's not how you do it huh?

Or sing 'lets talk about sex baby, lets talk about you and me' at them

Straight to the point might work. I was giving you subtle suggestions obviously

Save some words and say:

'wanna get pissed and shag?'

SoulSource it's not summer anymore, but I'll put that one in the 'Car Park' for later.

just say 'Grab your coat, love. You've pulled'

Depends how you normally interact with each other.

Is it a friend or a random?

Acquaintance. And yes, single :)

I feel like Ralph on the fast show.

Well you first need to find out of he is interested in you. Then feel free to go thrusting in his direction

You do need to say something really filthy to him, and see if he looks interested or recoils.

How about asking if they want to do a little dance, make a little love and finally go get down tonight?

at this thread!

Or mention the film Friends With Benefits and say how you would love something like that.

Yes, I am the queen of been subtle

I'm thinking of trying some of these on my dh!

(Purely for the then it would elicit).

Sadly, he's working tonight!

Filthy. OK.

They don't have to do that on The West Wing, do they? Maybe I should buy him a fish. On telly it's all grown ups flirting in intellectual ways and they still get past the awkwardness and on to the fucking.

I suggest you just look at him. Then lean over for a kiss. Let it develop into a snog. You will find out from how you both react to this, if the sex is a go or a no go.