can you just ask someone for sex?

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If you suspect that someone fancies you, how wrong is it to just ask them if they'd like some sex?

I'm not up for a relationship at all. But I'd really like some sex.

I don't think subtle is going to work. Or at least it will take too long. Or they might think I want to go out with them.

remind me how this works. It's been a while.

Oh this thread should come with a bucketload of popcorn that flies out the nearest USB port. Superb work Op.

Oh this is fantastic! Is he normally fairly active on fb OP?

from a man's perspective- go for it and ask away. It will be the best thing that's happened to him for ages.

Let's hope so, normalish, you have missed the update

...ah, just seen it. Crossed fingers for open legs!

You can keep that one MadBusLady

Oh and OP, if you are partial to drunk sexting, and you have snapchat - delete it now. Right now. Its only a matter of time...

Haha! Tell him you need 'something warm in your belly!'

Southern Snapchat should have a breath analyzer built in so if pissed it doesn't open

Aaaah this makes me feel nostalgic for the butterflies in tummy feeling that only comes if you've fucked up st work, lost your purse, or wondering if someone fancies you or not.

Happy days

Has he been online yet op? If you click on the message, then click on the little i at the top right corner it will tell you when he was last online.

God, FB is the devil's own web application.

Definitely SP. And not knowing what the hell you even sent is the worst.

And why when I'm at home does my battery die by 10pm but when I'm drunk at 2am the little fucker is still going??

I'm bi, and bi/gay men ask directly most of the time. It's not so common with members of the opposite sex, IMHO

he's still not seen it. Not that I'm checking every 17 seconds.

I haven't sent him any snapchats thank fuck. Waking up to 'screenshot!' would tip me over the edge.

Yes, but if he's been online, but not 'seen' it, he might still have seen it! If his settings send his private messages directly to his email address for example. In which case I would say he's considering his response...

Sorry OP this is hilarious although I appreciate the misery for you.

Or he has accessed facebook from a different source than the mobile app...

Yes that's true - you can read the message in the e-mail notification!

Or maybe he doesn't live his life on facebook and is at work be all busy and that

or he's waiting for a witty follow up. I'd message again the wait would be too much for me plus tonight could be sorted!

Christ no I'm not sending him anything else. He'll be getting a restraining order.

Was that a secret message op?