can you just ask someone for sex?

[secretsatan]

If you suspect that someone fancies you, how wrong is it to just ask them if they'd like some sex?

I'm not up for a relationship at all. But I'd really like some sex.

I don't think subtle is going to work. Or at least it will take too long. Or they might think I want to go out with them.

remind me how this works. It's been a while.

It doesn't matter to me that much. My original post pertaining to this is to ask if OP was ok. If OP is ok, then all is well. Except it doesn't explain all the precious minutes I have ever wasted mis typing and re typing user names (of which I have legion, but am never allowed to make one tiny mistake with spelling, punctuation or capitalisation)

I don't ever sign out and if I do get signed out I sign in with my email address so my username isn't necessary.

I will come back and apologise profusely when I am proved to be very thick, or have misunderstood how usernames/log ins work or generally to be a bit of a tool.

All that has happened is her name has capitalised. As MadBusLady said, she has seen it happen to other people on here. Its not a big deal.

she is just the owner of a S and not a s. She didn't have to sign out to do that

SP, in all fairness, your word is not really the bottom line

My posts are supportive to the OP all the way through, so I shall leave it here for now

I will come back and apologise if required, but it won't be on your say-so

Most - honestly it really is straightforward, but I'm not sure what you're angling at anyway, op has stated clearly that she name changed for this thread.

Stands to reason then that she'll be changing between names and at some point when changing back she typed Secretsatan without capitalising, that's all.

Go into my mumsnet, change your name to one you already have but with different capitalisation and you'll see what happens.

Mist*

I never said my word was bottom line

Just explained how it worked as you wanted to know. MadBusLady also explained that random capital letters has come up.

No idea why you are making such a thing of it

Mist, I already had you in the 'good egg' column, so we're cool, but really, start logging in with your email if it pisses you off that much :o or pick something shorter so there's less margin for error :o

Mist - just for you!

All I did was click my mumsnet, type kellyhopter in the username box and voila I have that as a new nickname and don't come up highlighted as op. no logging out, no jiggerypokery. Just didn't capitalise.

Oh, I'm not highlighted? Aaaaaaahhh right I getcha. I am highlighted from my POV still :)

Anyway, I'm going back to my lonely bed.

Hello again. I was waiting for a reply from HQ after reporting my own posts. However they have neglected to put me right but kelly and Sp have.

I am sorry for hijacking your thread. It was that you were no longer highlighted as OP (a lovely shade of lavender you should be) so I asked why. No conspiracies or anything.

Hope your lonely bed wasn't too lonely

Well, I've changed my login name to reflect my needs :)

No

ThisBeaverNeedaWood is the name you should have picked

Christ, last time I checked this thread it was all light hearted fun, now it's po-faced troll hunting . Poor OP.

Jean, you haven't RTFT have you ?

So is it a help or a hindrance that I'm a male?

Always, is it a shameless offering of your company to the OP who's just lost a prospect but hasn't lost the drive?

I'd gladly meet up for a coffee/lunch and a good old natter at the very least.

Honey, just because you did not make a love connection with that dude does not mean you will not soon be back in the saddle. It sucks to feel sexy and have no outlet for that feeling.

Right, I have not RTFT but online dating....you are ensured to see as many cocks down the pike as you could ever hope. I married my online sweetie..

Huh ?

Is Always not satan then ?

FGS, I can't cope

err yes... I've read the thread.

Erm, I'm not always up for it, for clarification this was about one man, we got that, right?