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Silly s'leb crush.

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ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 08:45

I feel like a right plonker for writing this but I need to get it out somewhere and don't really want to bring this out in RL.

I'm a married mum but have a daft crush on someone and I got it bad.

I feel really stupid. I know its normal to fancy people but I feel like a bloody teenager and can't stop thinking about him. My husband thinks it hilarious and its become a bit of a joke in the house, which is OK, but its pretty embarressing really. I mean I'm nearly 30, not 13 :(

I dreamt about this person last night (and yes as I'm about to type this I know how daft it sounds) but I woke up feeling like it was real and I 'miss him' now :s

I know it will eventually pass but just wanted to talk it out and get some reassurance that I'm not having a midlife crisis or some kind of meltdown?!

Surely its 'normal' to feel like this? Even at 30?

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Midwife99 · 09/07/2012 14:14

Tim Minchin - oooohhhhhh!

Midwife99 · 09/07/2012 14:24

And Anthony from The Wiggles! Yum!

CatPower · 09/07/2012 14:35

God help me, mine is David from Emmerdale, Eric Pollard's son.

Then there's Christopher Eccleston, Jo-Wilfried Tsonga (his THIGHS, dear god!), Willem Dafoe, Benedict Cumberbatch (I would climb him like a tree), Colin Farrell...

LadyClariceCannockMonty · 09/07/2012 15:51

Tim Minchin's pretty hot, isn't he? In or out of guyliner.

I'm developing a little bit of a thing for Dafoe, Cat, after hearing and seeing a couple of his interviews for The Hunter. He's fascinating.

I'm afraid we'll have to step outside if you're after Benedict, though. I lust after heart him big time.

marmon · 09/07/2012 19:00

Im right with you Thumbelina, I have a massive crush on Rafa Nadal and was devastated when he got knocked out of Wimbledon, real tears and everything! But the most stupid thing is my DH is not to unlike him to look at, particuarly his physique, even my ds calls his Dad Rafa!!! But i lust over Rafa more!! Work that one out! Lol.

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Midwife99 · 09/07/2012 20:13

Gino D'Acampo! Small but perfectly formed!

BettyTurnip · 09/07/2012 23:35

<a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?start=169&num=10&hl=en&biw=1525&bih=717&addh=36&tbm=isch&tbnid=Wx6lE9dONUwdDM:&imgrefurl=www.sbs.com.au/films/movie/1661/Grosse-Pointe-Blank/type/review/id/21712&docid=oaNJAU8DhmsgyM&imgurl=media.sbs.com.au/films/thumb/640_360_100/site_28_rand_1066695601_grosse_pointe_blank_maxed.jpg&w=640&h=360&ei=UFv7T83OGoGi8QOP8aWVBw&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=472&vpy=257&dur=4796&hovh=168&hovw=300&tx=165&ty=120&sig=111080615467181291490&page=7&tbnh=155&tbnw=211&ndsp=29&ved=1t:429,r:10,s:169,i:313" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The biggest crush, nay, obsession, I ever had

BettyTurnip · 09/07/2012 23:40

<a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?num=10&hl=en&biw=1525&bih=717&tbm=isch&tbnid=S2QU-49bgalQbM:&imgrefurl=themoinmontrose.tumblr.com/page/12&docid=0vZjDhg4Q0HrgM&imgurl=25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m442zuFnkF1r7b601o1_500.jpg&w=500&h=359&ei=2Vz7T7qQD6nM0QXA3aiWBw&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=1038&vpy=37&dur=192&hovh=190&hovw=265&tx=142&ty=116&sig=111080615467181291490&page=1&tbnh=160&tbnw=197&start=0&ndsp=21&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:0,i:88" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">In my dreams!

<a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?num=10&hl=en&biw=1525&bih=717&tbm=isch&tbnid=swLoQBz0GMpefM:&imgrefurl=legendarycharacters.blogspot.com/2007/10/sawyer-lost.html&docid=hnXPaohzszVzWM&imgurl=2.bp.blogspot.com/_w7tcc-1HDow/Rxt6GWx3YNI/AAAAAAAAAJU/gF01rn246MY/s400/sawyer_lost_1.jpg&w=400&h=300&ei=mV37T8HtDMLF8gOU7aGfBw&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=923&vpy=363&dur=9252&hovh=194&hovw=259&tx=74&ty=132&sig=111080615467181291490&page=1&tbnh=143&tbnw=191&start=0&ndsp=23&ved=1t:429,r:12,s:0,i:176" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">No wonder I couldn't concentrate on Lost

Midwife99 · 10/07/2012 07:26

With you Betty on John!

KenDoddsDadsDog · 10/07/2012 20:06

I had a really rude dream about Jamie from Made in Chelsea last night. WTF?!

Midwife99 · 10/07/2012 21:16

Is he that ridiculous one with the long hair?

JackieandJudy · 10/07/2012 22:35

Gah, I thought we were offering up ridiculous crushes, hence my very brave confession above. If I'd known we were being sensible I'd have offered up Denzel Washington and him whose name I can never remember who used to be Mike in Neighbours still prefer Jimmy though

KenDoddsDadsDog · 10/07/2012 22:35

No he's the small one with white hair - the heir to McVities. Suppose he's not a bad catch

Midwife99 · 10/07/2012 22:38

None the wiser Mike from Neighbours - now you're talking!!!

Overtiredmum · 10/07/2012 22:39

Tom Hardy

JackieandJudy · 10/07/2012 22:40

What's his real name Midwife? Now I've got thinking about him, it's annoying me! (I realise I could look it up but I've gone and asked you instead now!)

Midwife99 · 10/07/2012 22:52

Oooohhhhh I know - Guy Pearce!!!

JackieandJudy · 10/07/2012 22:55

Oh that's it! Thank you . Can sleep easy now!

Midwife99 · 10/07/2012 23:04

Not sure I can sleep now - not with Guy Pearce in my mind!!

LurkingAndLearningForNow · 11/07/2012 03:32

Old enough to be my father but..Robson Green.

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