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Silly s'leb crush.

196 replies

ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 08:45

I feel like a right plonker for writing this but I need to get it out somewhere and don't really want to bring this out in RL.

I'm a married mum but have a daft crush on someone and I got it bad.

I feel really stupid. I know its normal to fancy people but I feel like a bloody teenager and can't stop thinking about him. My husband thinks it hilarious and its become a bit of a joke in the house, which is OK, but its pretty embarressing really. I mean I'm nearly 30, not 13 :(

I dreamt about this person last night (and yes as I'm about to type this I know how daft it sounds) but I woke up feeling like it was real and I 'miss him' now :s

I know it will eventually pass but just wanted to talk it out and get some reassurance that I'm not having a midlife crisis or some kind of meltdown?!

Surely its 'normal' to feel like this? Even at 30?

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YouveCatToBeKittenMe · 03/07/2012 12:16

OOOh I just Googled Chris Hemsworth. He was what-is-face in Home and Away back when I used to watch it and he was about 12

Don't remember him in any films though, has he been in any good ones?

ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 12:17

Ok enough with the gay!!!

Grin

I dont see that at all. weird. Confused

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ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 12:18

Hes in cabin in the woods. Thor. the avengers and snow white and the huntsman.

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gingerpig · 03/07/2012 12:24

I like Ewan McGregor. I get my DP to put a Scottish accent on, close my eyes and lie back..... Grin

ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 12:33

Haha gingerpig! I can just imagine!

Me- "so dh, how abouts adopting a gruff aussie accent ... or maybe prentend you are from asgard, thor style?"

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AWimbaWay · 03/07/2012 12:45

I knew him from Home and away too YouveCatToBeKittenMe, he was quite nice back then but I think has improved with age. He was in the latest star trek film too.

LadyClariceCannockMonty · 03/07/2012 12:46

I'm not saying I think Hemsworth is gay, OP although I wouldn't be surprised, just that being married with kids doesn't necessarily mean anything, does it Tom? Grin

ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 13:00

I am way too defensive of this guy Hmm

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CarpeJugulum · 03/07/2012 13:06

Can I confess to Laurence Fox (Hathaway in Lewis)?

Totally not my type. But hum....

GemsAngels · 03/07/2012 13:11

Hm well we all have different tastes! Channing Tatum yummy yummy!!

thecook · 03/07/2012 13:42

Piers Morgan

drxerox · 03/07/2012 13:55

Glad to read this thread - I have ongoing fantasies of bumping into Robert Downey Jnr and have repeatedly watched the video where he mimes the Elton John song.

ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 14:23

Oh i love RDJ. i dont fancy him but he is AWESOME! He was born to be ironman!

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Flobbadobs · 03/07/2012 14:31

OP I've got one for every day of the week and more! As mentioned above it's much healthier than fancying 'real life' people.
In no particular order....
Rhod Gilbert
Sean Lock
Lee mack
Robert Downey Junior
Benedict Cumberbatch
Phillip Glenister (Gene Hunt!)
I had one of those dreams about Sean Lock recently, he is rude... Grin

DamnDeDoubtance · 03/07/2012 14:38

I am madly in lust love with Ian Somerhalder.

Its soooo distracting.

But the man is just to delicious.

LadyClariceCannockMonty · 03/07/2012 15:05

Mine:

<a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=paul+bettany&hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=PSN&sa=X&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&biw=1216&bih=670&tbm=isch&prmd=imvnso&tbnid=B3ui7MB5DKFoTM:&imgrefurl=establishment.slashfandom.com/members/a-c/pbettany.html&docid=F88a2dLAU9CNBM&imgurl=establishment.slashfandom.com/images/members/pbettany1.jpg&w=300&h=405&ei=bsNdT7G5DKO30QXrosG3DQ&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=663&vpy=281&dur=742&hovh=261&hovw=193&tx=109&ty=224&sig=100905212096207828663&page=2&tbnh=156&tbnw=116&start=24&ndsp=26&ved=1t:429,r:22,s:24" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Ding dong

<a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=benedict+cumberbatch&hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=FxV&sa=X&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&biw=1216&bih=670&tbm=isch&prmd=imvnso&tbnid=h6HKltE2fpnjmM:&imgrefurl=www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/features/3203737/Sherlock-Holmes-Benedict-Cumberbatch-helps-disaffected-teens.html&docid=XqCMpKVzbYEb9M&imgurl=img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01153/SPREAD-MAIN_1153979a.jpg&w=280&h=390&ei=JSyRT6L_KsfD0QWF5ITpAQ&zoom=1&iact=rc&dur=3&sig=100905212096207828663&page=1&tbnh=146&tbnw=102&start=0&ndsp=22&ved=1t:429,r:17,s:0,i:156&tx=66&ty=59" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Humanna humanna

I thank you.

IawnCont · 03/07/2012 15:14

THANK YOU for starting this thread- I always wondered if other women had these all-consuming crushes. Blush
I have My Men on a rotation of crushes. On the list is Stephen Fry (I like a challenge!); David Tennant; Michael Sheen; Greg Davies (off the Inbetweeners) Tom Hanks and (lord forgive me) Robin Williams.

GetOrfMoiiLand · 03/07/2012 15:17

OOh yes I remember watching that Elton John video on a constant loop a few years ago. Robert DJ is a beautiful man.

Basically I am a sucker for anyone with big brown eyes. Not Richard Hammond though

IawnCont · 03/07/2012 15:18
GetOrfMoiiLand · 03/07/2012 15:20

My list

Alastair Campbell (I know)
Tom Hardy
Piers Morgan (yes it doesn't make any rational sense)
Jack Nicholson as he was in the 70s.
Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory
Michael Kitchen
Dave Gahan from Depeche Mode (he has been on the list since 1989)

Clytaemnestra · 03/07/2012 15:22

I fancy Robert Carlyle. Dressed as Rumplestiltskin. I win the appalling disturbing taste crush.

Squitten · 03/07/2012 15:24

Michael Fassbender. He really is just BEAUTIFUL

sigh

ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 15:38

Tom Hardys lovely, I wanna watch that Reece Witherspoon one he is in but DH having non of it.

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ThumbalinaDance · 03/07/2012 15:39

oh me, oh my, oh me oh my!!!

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thecook · 03/07/2012 15:52

GetOrfMoiLand - Another one for Piers Morgan!

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