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I need to leave my husband. Please help me.

192 replies

anewbeginning2012 · 08/06/2012 16:27

Hi

I am not a mum. (don't hate me for posting here)

I need to leave my husband. He makes me do things and bullies me. I have no bank account, no job, and no friends.

I can get some money if I take his cards (for shopping). How much do I need?

also to massively complicate things I have a most beloved dog, that comes with me (i hope)

I stopped wearing my wedding ring this week and i am scared that things will escalate, he said rather pointedly 'so there's nothing I can say to make you put your ring back on?'

I am so scared. please help me.

OP posts:
Portofino · 12/06/2012 20:03

I am not in the UK, but maybe someone could check for you?

PurplePidjin · 12/06/2012 20:11

Google for your local. I have the numbers to hand for Dorset if that's any good (use Message Poster to the right of my name if you don't want to post up in public)

LizaTarbucksAuntie · 12/06/2012 20:12

0808 2000 247

Need to change that 147 to 247 at the end.

DottyDot · 12/06/2012 20:12

Hi - your first number was wrong. It's 0808 2000 247. Try that - should work.

nickelbarapasaurus · 13/06/2012 17:14

if you ring from a mobile, you'll need to dial 808 8000 247 (no 0)

Mjtay · 13/06/2012 18:43

Are u okay?! Xxx

finnbarr · 13/06/2012 19:12

How are you doing OP? Really hope you're ok. Stay strong x

LizaTarbucksAuntie · 15/06/2012 14:15

anew

Hope all is well..we're still here if you need us.

BettySwalloxs · 15/06/2012 14:55

Bump. Op, let us know how you are if u can?
Betty

SirSugar · 16/06/2012 07:09

worried about you. are you ok?

Did you post before, I remember a poster who had a dog which she walked.

woo1971 · 16/06/2012 10:42

anew i am in the same position at the moment i know how your feeling

woo1971 · 16/06/2012 10:44

been with my partner 24 yrs same predicament no job(work for him)no bank account no freinds no family 2 grown up children and 3 dogs 1 cat

woo1971 · 16/06/2012 10:46

what the hell r we supposed to do?

izzyizin · 16/06/2012 10:49

I suggest you start your own thread, woo, so that you can get the support/advice you need.

rhoobabble · 16/06/2012 21:48

Keep your mobile phone with you at all times and the charger in your bag. please ring womens aid xx

Offred · 18/06/2012 17:04

How's things?

Offred · 20/06/2012 19:19

Just checking in again.

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