alarm bell just rang in my head

[OnlyWantsOneTwoAndThree]

and now I cant shake it

what the actual fuck :(

I posted the other day about him changing his plans

any way.... last night, he gets in at 1am, and today he's gone out again to do some thing which is totally out of character for him to do (involves motorbikes, he has never paid any interest in bikes before)

We moved house 5 weeks ago, since then he's been out 2/3 times a week with work, drinks here, quiz nights etc im never asked out on these things which is fine, but last night he went to this black tie dinner at a big hotel, and i know partners went - he never asked me to accompany him and have a night out :(

3 weeks ago I wanted to phone his sister and tried to get in his phone (he has a pass code on it, which he had told me) but he had changed it, and when I asked him about it he said his blackberry had encouraged him to change it, then he changed the subject, but that would be the first time in over a year he has changed his passcode... he didnt say "oh yeah, its now blah blah"

now I have these doubts, its all I can think of.

im 7 months PG with baby number 3... oh

That's a good point actually. Im sure you'd want to be involved in the planning and venue choosing of your own wedding. So either he was trying to surprise you or its another example of his not considering you at all and just doing what he wants.

you didn't know you had a wedding planner ?

I don't understand

we selected 3/4 venues a few weeks ago, he's emailed all of them detailing our requirements and asking prices, ive seen the emails - this chattering woman is the real deal, I didnt beleive she was so asked for her number and phoned the place back - she just seems barmy

she's not our wedding planner, shes an "event coordinator" or some shiz for the hotel

Ok so he hasn't been steaming ahead with the plans for your wedding? Phew!

no, he'd get a response from me if he did

oh, I see < got married in The Dark Ages at a Registry Office, so don't get all this modern poncery >

i dont actually care for the whole country house crap, but any thing that avoids a church is good in my book

and i wont be wearing a fucking dress

I wore a frock from Principles, remember them ? It cost 80 notes.

principles?

um...

is that like in the era of C & A

hahah I could wear RED whore dress

i actually like that

well, it was in the era of C and A

Principles shops have disappeared now, but I think there is still a concession in Debenhams < classy >

that dress is very understated < not>

I actually quite like it :) nice to finally read a thread that doesn't end in an affair!

< ahem > he ain't off the hook just yet !

no he fucking isnt

sorry

sweary me

Oh, join the Sweary Names, OP, it's surprisingly satisfying.
My other new name is garlicfanjo.

I did wear a red dress! Honestly.

ooo scarlet woman !