Blow Job troubles- bit exteme warning

[GlitterHo]

sensitive subject _I've never been any good at them, I too much of a gag reflex I can never take * ahem full length without gagging.

I feel really bad as I'm letting him down on my side of the deal as he doesnt get satisfied properly.

the other night was just messing around and he just grabbed the back of my head and was literally like shagging my head, felt like I couldn't breathe and was gagging everywhere told him to stop eventually, started crying felt really bad I should be able to do it :(

Any tips on how I can round it??

"This is her BOYFRIEND.
She is 21."

and as such a sexually mature, responsible adult. My wife and I were married long before 21

*distressed

In your eyes, HTD, would resolving their differences mean that she learns to like it or that he stop doing it?

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

If your going to lie, didn't your Mum say, you always have to remember what you have said, you will get caught.

Troll has failed, nvm HTD.

errm... in what way???

If he had hit her, would anyone be saying she should try to work through her relationship with him? Tell her how to improve her housekeeping skills perhaps so that he would be less likely to hit her? I hope not.

What he did was as bad as hitting her. And she has told him time and time again not to gag her.

Glitterho, you are a young woman. You can do waaaaay better than him!

Your poor wife. What a lot of crap she has to put up with from you HTD. And she's never known any better because you married her before she had been able to experience adult life. No wonder it makes you uncomfortable seeing women saying to another woman that she doesn't have to put up with sexual crap in a relationship.

wtf r u on about and who the fuck do you think you are???? actually the swinging we've done has been her idea and on the whole, it's been great! why are you so damned judgey?

HTD, can you please enlighten us with your superior conflict resolution skills and answer my question?

"My wife and I were married long before 21"

That's great. I've been with my husband since I was 17. It's not a competition. And it certainly doesn't mean everyone has to stay with the partner they're with when they're 21. Certainly not when they do something like this and refuse to apologise, or even discuss it

Or should I still be with my boyfriend from when I was 16, who gave me crabs? The charmer... We were together for 3 months, after all. Where do you draw the line at a 'committed relationship'?

HTD, can you please enlighten us with your superior conflict resolution skills and answer my question?

already have, suggest you read my previous posts as an alternative to trying (unsuccessfully) to slate me!

Clearly HAIRYTRUCKDRIVER is winding you all up.

at how gullible some people are.

HTD, I cant think of one woman who would want to watch her husband give another man a blow job. Does not compute. Not even in the swinging world.

Swinging never sounds so good when it's the bloke talking about it. It sounds sad, seedy and depressing.

It was quite nice actually

Shall we stop feeding the troll now?

OP might want some more support.

and it degenerates into a bun fight...HTD you should probably take your big wooden spoon and leave the thread. Not nice.

But you haven't.

Should he stop making her gag or should she learn not to gag? Because there's not a middle ground.

Aye robot...
If you read what i put in my initial posts from aprx 2pm today that she deal with this situation, i dont want to repeat myself tbh. So if you read back it will be clear.
However it is very hard to be diplomatic when some peoples views are very forcefull.
Personal attacks on other posters & their opinion is basically going against the grain. Instead of healthy debate this is just turned itself into a bit of an unhealthy argument.

Well I will be amazed if this thread does not end up deleted but OP if you are still here please place a higher value on yourself than you are. You deserve so much better than this. Whether you achieve this through breaking up with this gentleman or by setting clear rules of engagement which you will not vary, you need to make a change.

Good luck. I have been in this situation and it was actually very traumatic. :( You need to take back control over your body from this man - it is abuse and you cannot let it continue to the point you don't think you deserve better.

oh yeah I forgot ....."because I don't have the ability to understand someone elses perspective - they must not be serious and therefore a troll" .... really bright attitude!

try going back and considering what I have actually said before tripping over your smouldering bra straps

who would that be dittany?

I wonder if GlitterHo is reading this, it has gone really awry.

Dump him. He is a pig. Just because he's not done it before isn't an excuse.

Oh lookie HTD's sockpuppet is out to play too.

what a strange thing to say ..... unfortunately it doesn't sufficiently disguise your inability to engage in a reasoned argument .... sorry

DO NOT feed the troll. Just ignore the fuckwit. Really.