Blow Job troubles- bit exteme warning

[GlitterHo]

sensitive subject _I've never been any good at them, I too much of a gag reflex I can never take * ahem full length without gagging.

I feel really bad as I'm letting him down on my side of the deal as he doesnt get satisfied properly.

the other night was just messing around and he just grabbed the back of my head and was literally like shagging my head, felt like I couldn't breathe and was gagging everywhere told him to stop eventually, started crying felt really bad I should be able to do it :(

Any tips on how I can round it??

ayerobot was that at me?

DO NOT feed the troll. Just ignore the fuckwit. Really.

congratulations on your intelligent comments

This is only my opinion but as i see it GH's partner is maybe a bit selfish of his own needs in the bedroom department & has stepped over the line.
GH does not have to put up with it if she feels uncomfortable, she has not implied that she is in an abusive relationship (this is contrived by mn posts & reactions to this scenario)
I am speaking from my own experience & i love everything about my man but he is highly sexed & enjoys a bit of rough in the bedroom. This does not have to come under abuse if the 2 ppl involved agree to what is acceptable. This is what i promote.
I also agree that if GH does not want this then its not going to work.
She came here asking for advice so the right way forward is to meet a compromise first & see what happens. No one can predict the outcome it has to happen?

note how all the folks who lack sufficient intelligence to win an argument clear off lol .... the bra burners running!!!

My DH gets carried away at times when we are engaging in oral sex. I have an incredible gag reflex and if even a teeny bit of semen gets in, I puke. Its happened a few times over the last 20 years. Someone has already said, but yes, outside of some weird porno thing, deep throating is not anymore arousing. All the good stuff is in the head of the penis and just below it. I have found that a 69 position with me on top for control, enables me to take more on, sort of speak, plus I get a bit of head too. Don't worry about it too much. It happens. DH and I can laugh about it now when I gag and or have to run to the washroom because he was too excited and pre-ejaculated.

My DH gets carried away at times when we are engaging in oral sex. I have an incredible gag reflex and if even a teeny bit of semen gets in, I puke. Its happened a few times over the last 20 years. Someone has already said, but yes, outside of some weird porno thing, deep throating is not anymore arousing. All the good stuff is in the head of the penis and just below it. I have found that a 69 position with me on top for control, enables me to take more on, sort of speak, plus I get a bit of head too. Don't worry about it too much. It happens. DH and I can laugh about it now when I gag and or have to run to the washroom because he was too excited and pre-ejaculated.

Oh you poor abused thing .... how on earth have you coped with a lifetime of sexual abuse ... better to leave your rapist husband just to be safe! (I don't think)

& they go on to their next victim in another thread!
Me now i only joined today & if i didnt have thick skin id be crying in a heap screaming abuse victim :(

wotnext - see OP's posts at 00:05 and 00:32;

"do you know last night...well that deepthroat thing you did ? really hurt and makes me gag im sick of telling you.
DP'mumble..mumble.sorry
and I said he'd better not do it again"

(But why are you sick of telling him? Will he not listen to you?)

"nope"

That doesn't sound like a man trying to improve his sexual performance, does it? Or even one with any respect for his partner. She has tried telling him, he has ignored her. That's shit!

Whatever you do consensually with your own husband is your own business, that's fine. But the OP doesn't want this, and doesn't enjoy it. Can't you see the difference?

thos - I don't think wotnext is a serious poster

obviously not a serious poster cos you don't agree with her

Oh, thanks Engelbert.

This thread really reminds me of this one

It is an absolute classic of someone who is so obviously in a relationship with a total tosser, being told to stay with him because for some reason, hanging on for grim life to a shit relationship, is more important than anything else.

The OP doesn't even say if she has children with this man.

Why on earth does she need to commit to this relationship? What's so great about longevity versus quality? Commit to trying to work it out with someone who quite clearly isn't interested in working it out? How can you do that then? Make a relationship work all by yourself, without the input of the other partner?

HairyTruckDriver, it's Friday night, shouldn't you be off, swinging, from some strange man's dick by now?

HairyTruckDriver, it's Friday night, shouldn't you be off, swinging, from some strange man's dick by now?

why o why do you girls insist on reducing yourselves to morons by posting garbage like this??? swinging within marriage has long been socially acceptable so I don't get why it is such an issue for small minded folks .......... it's a bit like saying "you are a bored housewife on mumsnet and therefore you should be fucking the windowcleaner" it doesn't follow ...... if only your intelligence equalled your gusto we might be onto something,,,,, shame

Why are you here Hairytrucker?

Why are you here Hairytrucker?

same reason as you I imagine

I'm not here to wind people up and personally insult them or start talking about my unlikely sex life on a thread where the OP is asking for advice.

So it's unlikely it's for the same reason...

I imagine it is actually..........

Throws strops and is used to getting his own way + watches a lot of porn = OP, you can expect more of the same.

(And not much of what you want will ever happen in this relationship, in or out of the bedroom.)

I don't have an issue with swinging, i am genuinely keen to know why you are on mumsnet instead of sucking cock whilst your dw looks on.

errrmmm..... just because I have done it in the past doesn't mean I do it evry waking hour ....... I guess you think all homosexuals spend all their time bumming too??

Come to think of it, why are you not perusing the many swinging websites for your next meet? A swinging trucker, Friday night, keen as mustard wife..

Oh please. You brought the subject in to the thread, now you've gone all coy. Anyone would think you were lying.

Hairy "Oh you poor abused thing .... how on earth have you coped with a lifetime of sexual abuse ... better to leave your rapist husband just to be safe! (I don't think)" Um... are you making a comment that some on here may think that I am sexually abused by my DH? I gag every time I brush my teeth too. It a real pain in the ass.