Blow Job troubles- bit exteme warning

[GlitterHo]

sensitive subject _I've never been any good at them, I too much of a gag reflex I can never take * ahem full length without gagging.

I feel really bad as I'm letting him down on my side of the deal as he doesnt get satisfied properly.

the other night was just messing around and he just grabbed the back of my head and was literally like shagging my head, felt like I couldn't breathe and was gagging everywhere told him to stop eventually, started crying felt really bad I should be able to do it :(

Any tips on how I can round it??

Oh htd, really is a bloke, I thought it was a regular on a wind up. The mist clears.

Thank fuck I'm not his wife, eugh.

HTD - What the OP has gone through would be horrifically traumatic for most of us. Seriously.
I'm staggered that you would consider 'helping' your own daughter through something like this in the way you mean.

Apologies for my statement there about single has been's. It wasn't meant to the majority.

OP I suggest you dump him - he's a moron.

Here's hoping your next boyfriend has a short, fat one - problem sorted.

OR if you have sex with someone you love, and who loves you back, you will want to do it, but won't have to IYSWIM.

oh God, poor OP.

this is not normal or nice.

HairyTruckDriver thinks an abusive relationship is one that just needs a bit more commitment. Creepy.

Wotnext I vehemently disagree. This isn't about blow-jobs or consensual sex at all. Oral sex can be a fantastic aspect of a mutually satisfying sexual relationship.

Ramming a penis down a woman's throat so that she gags and cries is not. Pulling her hair is not. Hurting her and making her cry is not.

If that's what passes as acceptable sexual behaviour in your relationship, more fool you. It has got nothing to do with liking oral sex, or mutual satisfaction.

It is porn-fuelled violence.

The OP was unfortunately looking for tips to perform oral sex, but it would have been woefully irresponsible and frankly insane if we had indulged that wish, when what she needed was some advice that her partner's actions were cruel and wrong.

any man that does this is an abusive arse.

any dad that encourages his daughter to stay with a man who does this is a crap dad and I would wonder if he was abusive himself.

Relationships have to come first. Sex second. For all you lot know he could be a fantastic partner in every other way. I am not a nasty man or a rapist. My wife and I have been through all manner of difficulties in our relationship and it has been thoroughly worth it I Can assure you. The dump his arse and find a real man attitude is one of the reasons society is in the sorry situation it is today I'm afraid. Just because I am a man, doesn't invalidate my opinion by the way.

also I think with a name like hairytruckdriver, you might have figured out I was a man earlier!!!!!

In your eyes, HTD, would resolving their differences mean that she learns to like it or that he stop doing it?

and did 'all manner of difficulties' include you abusing her?
I assume not, but it should be fairly obvious that some things are things you work through and others are things where you need to get the hell out fast.

No wonder OP has made a sharp exit :(

how many women on here have worked through an affair?

Militantly anti-commitment?!

FFS, hairytruckdriver, have you actually read the thread?

This is her BOYFRIEND.
She is 21.
She's even given him the chance to apologise, which he hasn't managed - so presumably he intends to do it again. Lovely.

You're 21, you go out with a bloke, they turn out to be an abusive wanker, you move on. Lesson learned. Lucky escape. No biggie.

(in your 13:24 post you say you enjoy giving blowjobs... to your wife of 20 years in your 17:10 post? )

HTD...................

I second this

Relationships have to come first. Sex second. For all you lot know he could be a fantastic partner in every other way. I am not a nasty man or a rapist. My wife and I have been through all manner of difficulties in our relationship and it has been thoroughly worth it I Can assure you. The dump his arse and find a real man attitude is one of the reasons society is in the sorry situation it is today I'm afraid. Just because I am a man, doesn't invalidate my opinion by the way.

People like us have enjoyed many years of marriage, good & bad by working through our problems, differences & life's trials by talking, making changes & compromising.

Ask any couple who has been together for many years...
They will tell you its bloody hard work!

In your eyes, wotnext, would resolving their differences mean that she learns to like it or that he stop doing it?

(in your 13:24 post you say you enjoy giving blowjobs... to your wife of 20 years in your 17:10 post? )

err nope, she hasn't got a penis funilly enough ..... I have given blowjobs to men recently but only with her in the room and with her permission .... got a problem with that, have you?

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

If your going to lie, didn't your Mum say, you always have to remember what you have said, you will get caught.

Troll has failed, nvm HTD.

Was just checking back to see why I'd assumed you were a woman...

So would you carry on giving blowjobs to a guy who was determined to shove it down your throat every time?

Yes ofc you have, keep digging. BUT gtfo off this thread which happens to be quite serious, it's a about a women who was so distessed she was crying.

So do fuck off now you have outed yourself so obviously as a troll.

I have given blowjobs to men recently but only with her in the room and with her permission

riiiiiiiiiight then.... ...