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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Carry On Past The Christmas Party (part 2)

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TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 15/12/2010 13:51

Hello

I'm Mouse.

Welcome to the Brave Babes Bus - Gerald! Blame Silver for the name! Grin

We are a group of MNers who post about our relationship with alcohol and how drinking it, or not, has an effect on our day to day lives.

Come and meet the other Brave Babes, say hi, take a seat or just read.

Here are the threads so far

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Silverbaubleonatree · 18/12/2010 15:28

DD nicking PC now - back later babes x

Rubyrednose · 18/12/2010 15:30

Hi Mouse I'm doing ok thanks. Was supposed to be out tonight but it has been cancelled due to bad weather so I'm going to snuggle up and watch some good TV (I hope)
Glad you awoke feeling refreshed.

My DD keeps playing with the computer so I'm gonna have to go and distract her

75rfhy7fch7h7erydxxe| H M, Xmas Smile

Christmaswithtesrocks · 18/12/2010 15:30

Hi Mouse

Glad you are not suffering with a hangover, mine has finally started to go and am dosed up on lemsip as cold has now appeared - punishment Wink.

Now I have name changed (I think) and also created a profile page but I need to change it as it says I have no kids and joined in 2009 Confused - I joined 2004 (I remember as I logged on to get advice about mc) and have 2 DS which are currently playing Fifa 11.

I will email MHHQ but if you know a simple way to change it that would be great Xmas Smile

Tes x

TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 16:31

Tes - just go into your profile, set up profile I think and you can erase what is in there and put the up to date stuff in.

Remember to use your original MN name to log in and your password.

Shout me if you get stuck and I'll run through it with you

Ruby - I doubt you'll get to watch anything good on tv tonight! It's date night in the Mouse house so no tv here!! Xmas Blush

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TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 16:32

Tes - I meant email not your nickname.

Sorry!!

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TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 16:33

Tes there is also a profile mover page so if you want to attch your profile to this name, you can do it.

Make sure you save the cnahges and refresh your page when come back so it all works!

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TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 16:34

or the changes!!

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Christmaswithtesrocks · 18/12/2010 16:46

Thanks Mouse, I had to go to profile mover so I have now officially recognised my sons -phew!

I have yet to have the chat with DH about my terrible drinking in case he brings up the other night - God I'm a coward Blush but I have said I have a craving for Diet Coke and he has just gone to shops and bought some lemons and limes to go with it Xmas Grin!!

Dare I ask about date night at the Mouse house!? My night is purely about Strictly and have persuaded DH to watch it with me!

If you don't reply I'll guess its because you are getting extra glamourous for your night ahead Wink

notevenachristmousie · 18/12/2010 16:53

Hi everyone,
Well, it's been a rough kind of day - it's my own fault. DD vomiting with her tonsils being so enlarged, me vomiting with this stupid hangover. We've snuggled, watched some television, read stories, and that's about it. Getting through the day and reading the Big Book online. Dp is over tonight to talk - I've been honest about my relapse - am starting to wonder if this ongoing trying to be friends but struggling not to be intimate is in either of our interests. I love him but feel very confused by this.

TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 17:02

Tes

Date night in the Mouse house is basically a nice dinner cooked by both of us, (taking turns to look after Nemo) a glass of something lush (I only ever have a glass of fizz and let DH have the rest) followed by a night with no MN!!

DD is at my parents as they are coming to see us tomorrow and it's been ages since we made a real effort.

Can you believe it? No MN! Xmas Shock

Whatever next.

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TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 17:07

Diet Coke is my tipple for the evening (other than a glass of fizz)

noteven - hello. You sound as though you have s lot to deal with at the moment. And all with a hangover!

Yuk!

Sorry DD is suffering.

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desiretochange · 18/12/2010 18:10

Evening everyone:) Soooooooooo cold! Mouse enjoy your date night, sounds lovely Xmas Envy

TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 18:20

Thank you desire.

I'm here for a while yet whilst Nemo has his last feed.

How are you this evening??

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desiretochange · 18/12/2010 18:25

Other than feeling cold, am ok Mouse, just trying to get last bits and pieces for Christmas. Am so happy to be off work, am flipping exhausted. How's things with you?

sleighrideinthursnow · 18/12/2010 18:33

Good evening ladies,

very busy day here, DC1 home from uni tomorrow, and so I have changed the beds, sparkled the house, and made a braised lamb shanks recipe from Hugh Fearnley Whittingstall book (should be Hugh F*ing Whittingstall after the time it took!), which will be ready in about 4hrs, and then has to cool overnight.

Very silly of me really, after all they live here!, and know what it's like Smile.

Mouse your date night sounds lovely, I hope you have a very snuggly time Grin.

I have just seen that the 1st Bridget Jones film is on tonight, and I have never seen it, so that's my plan. After I have showered the stench of said lamb away (I don't like red meat),but lamb is DC's fave, I plan to tuck up on the sofa under a blanket!

Venus I hope you got home safely.

dementedma · 18/12/2010 18:33

hi all - just checking in and haven't read back so hi to any newbies and well done to all those who are doing well.
Settling down to watch Strictly with DS who LOVES it.....I think it's the sequins

TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 19:02

desire - I'm okay now that I've learnt my lesson re drugs and booze! Not a happy couple.

venus - thinking of you too!

Hey thurso - your Sunday will be wonderful simply because you have everyone there with you!!

Bridget Jones is fantastic. My favourite line is 'Come the fuck on Bridget' Xmas Grin

Still waiting for Nemo to decided if he is going to sleep or not!!!

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TheMousefaceBeforeChristMouse · 18/12/2010 19:46

Right Brave Babes.

Off to put Nemo to bed and calm DH (no cooking sherry or dark soy sauce so he's 'on one' and it's date night Sad)

Be back in the morning.

nomorenomore the bus looks fabulous!!

Night all xxx

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notevenachristmousie · 18/12/2010 21:15

Mouse I hope you've had a lovely evening.

I hope everyone else is ok. I have had a big talk with DP. I don't know what's going on. I love him, he is supportive and caring - but he says he doesn't feel the way he did and can't handle the fact that we never get time to ourselves (am totally single parent). Aargh, it's so difficult.

Going to AA at lunchtime tomorrow though. Really need it.

jesusthisstableiscrowded · 18/12/2010 22:35

evening!!, quite an eventful day, been to sil, had to drive to dms afterwards, left dms for the 20 minute journey home, 3 hours later and we have had to abandon the car and are back at dms! Xmas Shock - being snowed in with dh = bliss. - being snowed in at parentals house = not bliss!! Xmas Grin

so, with any luck i will see you all tomorrow! - take care babes, its bloody awful out there!!

Silverbaubleonatree · 18/12/2010 22:48

just checking in to say goodnight xxx

sweet dreams Babes x

BBwannaB · 18/12/2010 23:24

Who's the light weight now Silver ? Xmas Grin

Silverbaubleonatree · 19/12/2010 00:22

eerm - me? Xmas Grin

notevenachristmousie · 19/12/2010 07:17

Morning all.
Terrible night with DD coughing. And me thinking. Feeling very lonely and sad.
But all I have to do is not drink for today, and things will get better, right?

dementedma · 19/12/2010 09:11

morning all - is Gerald snowed in?

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