ALL NEW Road to Recovery for the Recently Ditched No. 6

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Born Free

Ok so the best plan is living well, getting my hair cut on friday might go from shoulder length to a shorter bob for a healthy hair ,quicker to style look ,also buy some new clothes asap and a pair of sexy spiky boots whenever i can just for fun,need to have an alternative to my trainers

Spiritual instrumental version x

Patience - tai chi sounds really positive - do you think it's helping you to relax?

Getting - sorry to hear you're feeling down. My friend who is about 3 years down the line now told me that you do have these times of regression into the sadness but that they do go!

Starting - I think a positive plan would be a good idea. I'm a listmaker too and I think I need to think about the next year and what my goals are while I've still got a little one that needs me most of the time.

I have a hair appointment for Saturday and H and I are having family photos done next week. I am determined to look fbulous. Might fi shopping after the haircut if I have time too!

Really looking forward to the meet too

Waves to Chairmum and baby Anya
Def a little sanctuary in my crazy life ,just such gentle peaceful movements ,always come out refreshed and grounded but not really knowing why IYSWIM a bit like alanon LOL!I think it must work on a deeper place in ur mind as well as your body .They do call it meditation with movement.

Sov ru out there i need top styling tips for sexy curly hair ,just lots of pics for ideas ,over due a curly phase ,hair needs nourishing too ,but soething funky prob just above my collar,hope ur cool x
Anyone else welcome to post

how about this ?

Evening all.........

Patience, loose the glasses or you'll scare the sheep . Sorry! pmsl. Curls are nice though .

Chairmum, glad you're doing ok & that you're feeling positive.

Aye I know only funky curls i could find LOL!

I could just be the mad curly mummy that wears black polo necks and dark glasses while doin the school run and mega spiky heels lol!

Actually I think that might be a great image . A bit grace kelly like

scroll down to kate beckinsdale

is this not curly enough?

love this

Had a great night on style and beauty .....
lots to think about all tunics and ballet pumps saw a lovely dress ,black polo neck and pencil skirt is always a good look though .....just need to get the right haircut ,getting right into this whole makeover by the way LOL!
Will try and stop myself buying new hoodie and jeans LOL!

Just saw an advert that eharmony are offering a free w'end from fri to mon for any interested fellow dumplings

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i saw that too starting but do you have to be divorced.... it did not let me join when i said was separated - did not want to fib (goody two shoes)

Think you're on the right track Patience. Was actually thinking of this myself as I never wear make up & y'day met a friend that was so groomed & looked yrs younger & fab. Made me realise that I think I'm getting to an age where clothes alone don't do it anymore ............need to up my ante!

I'm probably closer to marc bolan or jimi hendrix naturally hence dark shades lady and layered shoulder length poker straight at the moment ,a good cut makes all the difference with curls, thanks ab, hows u
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lmao sooo didnt do that right lol

hey everyone hope your all ok and feeling better been lurking but wallowing in self pity so havent posted :) will be back on soon just gotta let this pass and come up with a POA = plan of action

Sorry Armbow no idea if you have to be divorced, would seem odd though if that were the case....

Waves to Soverign....

X posts i seen the e harmony ad too am toying with the idea, do ya reckon i could get myself a nice soldier on there? that way i get perks and no everyday hassle lmao

i am feeling ok - just still very flat and feeling quite bitter about the whole thing tbh.

totally cut him off now though. how can you be friends and be so close with someone for soooo long then not know what they are up to ?? (general pondering really don't feel you need to answer that )

makeovers are great they put the focus back to where is should be i think - they have worn us down for too long.

going to get back to my positive and emotional steps (i had forgotten about them )

sooooo tomorrow i am going to:

emotional: be polite but distant with h (he is seeing kids)
practical: chase solicitors

Ok when im curly i usually have the kylie bob,but only because i can still straighten it LOL!So thats cheatin' really like the 3rd one Sov thankyou so much 4 looking ! I think its between sovs 3rd one and my one with shades .I have never been a huge make up fan Startin but think now clothes and hair are good fun and i need a bit of fun ,sort of healthy natural grooming for me ,ate a bit today and ds swimming was fab.

Soverign, I'm liking the idea of perks without the everyday hassle