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wanking while i'm in the shower

281 replies

isheaknob · 18/07/2010 18:58

ok have a bf of 9 months. have got really close lately. he stays over at mine 2-3 times a week.
anyway he tried it on this morning and i said no i wasn't up for it as i needed to sort the kids out (they were downstairs watching tv). so i have a very quick shower and come back into the bedroom. he has a towel wrapped around him when before he had boxers. i ask him why and he said he was getting ready for a shower and his boxers were in his bag.
so he has a shower and it becomes obvious that he had a very quick wank while i was in the shower. i confronted him and he admitted it saying that he didn't think it was wrong as he was feeling extra horny! he said sorry but now i just feel weird about it. the thing is its not like he hasn't had it in a while as we have been doing it twice the last few days.
just need some female views as i'm not sure if i'm over re-acting. just because i say no does that mean he has to go and jerk off!
thanx.
oh by the way am a regular and am far too embarrassed to have my real name

OP posts:
DrunkenDaisy · 19/07/2010 20:12

high five sausage X

whatthecrocodilehatwasthat · 19/07/2010 20:14

I'm amazed this thread is still going!! What else is there to say?!

whatthecrocodilehatwasthat · 19/07/2010 20:15

I was with you by the way DrunkenDaisy, but was called uptight

isheaknob · 19/07/2010 20:17

Can I join in with the high five girls thanks for the support x

OP posts:
ThatDamnDog · 19/07/2010 20:27

So those who don't agree that wanking makes someone a pervert are bitches, am I right? Dear lord.

thickirishsausage · 19/07/2010 20:32

No thats not what I meant by that, If someone has an opionion that doesnt match the majority of people on the thread then you get jumped on like all the other threads on here which is why people feel they cant say anything if they dont agree (thats what I meant by bitches) as you can see from the comments!!!!!

toccatanfudge · 19/07/2010 20:38

pervert what - because he has a wank

dear god I hope you don't have little boys...........who are going to grow into teenagers...........

AnyFucker · 19/07/2010 20:44

ere we go, ere we go, ere we goooooooooo

who mentioned MN bitches ? < yawn >

wanking = pervert

I actually think people were trying to reassure OP that her bloke is normal. Calling him a "tedious little pervert" is supportive in your book, is it ???

DD, I have no idea if I usually respect your posts but I want to know why you are not shitting in my handbag !!

AnyFucker · 19/07/2010 20:45

Isheaknob....I take it you are binning the "tedious little pervert" then ?

toccatanfudge · 19/07/2010 20:46

I'll shit in ya handbag if you want AF

ThatDamnDog · 19/07/2010 20:47

But Thick, if a majority disagree then of course there's a big response against the points made. It's hardly being jumped on - it's just being disagreed with. As for suggesting someone who masturbates is a pervert - that's just too Daily Mail for words. Good point re your sons

Rafwife · 19/07/2010 20:49

Spot the people with really unhealthy attitudes towards sex.

I really hope none of you have boys and don't look at your dh's socks too closely.

Being called a pervert for having a vanilla wank whatever next, some people are so frigid.

Your partners probably wank a lot as they can't get their cocks into your pouty, snarly mouths, deary me.

Trying a little to hard to play devils advocate aren't we DD zzzzzzzzzzz.

AnyFucker · 19/07/2010 20:49

aww thanks, tocc

it's times like these you realise who ya mates are !

could you make it a firm one...the last time I just couldn't get it out of the pockets !

whatthecrocodilehatwasthat · 19/07/2010 20:49

Why are so many of you so proud of fucking on sofas? Especially when it's with guys your children have never met?

toccatanfudge · 19/07/2010 20:50

I'll do my best AF

seriously though I'm that there are people that think that someone having a wank makes them a pervert

AnyFucker · 19/07/2010 20:50

oh shut up, croc

keep ya judgey face to yourself

whatthecrocodilehatwasthat · 19/07/2010 20:51

AF just like to keep fanning the flames

AnyFucker · 19/07/2010 20:53

whatevs

whatthecrocodilehatwasthat · 19/07/2010 20:54

wow you gave me the 'whatever'

you are way cool

toccatanfudge · 19/07/2010 20:54

no - there's only one of us on this thread fucking on the sofa afaik.

I've only done it once.

My kids were in bed (asleep) when he arrived. He didn't stay the night.

I may not f*ck on the sofa on Wednesday, I have a feeling I may do, there's some little spark there with this guy that I've not had with anyone else I've dated....

Once again - he'll arrive after my kids have gone to bed, he won't be staying the night (indeeed I doubt he'll even stay too late as he's got to be somewhere at 8.30 Thursday morning)

toccatanfudge · 19/07/2010 20:55

oddly I think I can count on my hands how many times I fucked my exH on the sofa..........and we were married 10yrs (he was a boring sod that's why I'm not with him anymore lol)

toccatanfudge · 19/07/2010 20:57

if you'd prefer I can wake my children up and lock them in the shed at the end of the garden while we do the business if that would make it better?????

whatthecrocodilehatwasthat · 19/07/2010 20:58

hey I'm not judging you - I was just curious.

Rafwife · 19/07/2010 20:58

Sorry but what is wrong with fucking on the sofa now?

Or is sex something where you must lay flat in bed, let him shag you then offer you a tissue afterwards without uttering a sound, how shit would that be!

AnyFucker · 19/07/2010 21:01

I have had a shag on the sofa imbetween posts on this thread, I will have you know.

Do I get the sofa-shagging award ?

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