wanking while i'm in the shower

[isheaknob]

ok have a bf of 9 months. have got really close lately. he stays over at mine 2-3 times a week.
anyway he tried it on this morning and i said no i wasn't up for it as i needed to sort the kids out (they were downstairs watching tv). so i have a very quick shower and come back into the bedroom. he has a towel wrapped around him when before he had boxers. i ask him why and he said he was getting ready for a shower and his boxers were in his bag.
so he has a shower and it becomes obvious that he had a very quick wank while i was in the shower. i confronted him and he admitted it saying that he didn't think it was wrong as he was feeling extra horny! he said sorry but now i just feel weird about it. the thing is its not like he hasn't had it in a while as we have been doing it twice the last few days.
just need some female views as i'm not sure if i'm over re-acting. just because i say no does that mean he has to go and jerk off!
thanx.
oh by the way am a regular and am far too embarrassed to have my real name

no AF - I presume you shagged your DP/DH/Father of your children.

The poster seems to have an issue with me f*cking someone my children have never met on my sofa while they sleep...........

Toccatanfudge - that would make me feel loads better, the shed thing. D'you think you could also tell them how dirty sex is and smack their hands if they touch themselves anywhere below the waist? That would really make my day.

And at least if they're in the shed you can do it dangling from the lightfittings too.

Yes how very disrespectful you didn't ask anyones permission and on the sofa

oooo I'm not sure about that buttonmoon - the smacking their hands if they touch themselves below the waist........

I have not 1, not 2, but 3 boys - not sure I can keep up with them all

Raf - do you think I should have rung my Landlord and asked him if it was ok???? I mean - the sofas are the only thing in the house which were here when I moved in - so technically they're still his..........and it's his house...........

it wasn't the father of my children, it was the window cleaner calling for his money

Yes whilst you were at it, you should have made sure the kids were out of the house and offered that the sofa would be sterilised on you finishing your business, think of the germs...........

I'm disappointed. If you really cared about screwing them up you'd find the time. Call youself a good mum?!

And as for the sofas, I expect you ought to ask the landlord. Is there a manufacturers label in them? I think you ought to ring them too.

yes instruction - you've lost points for the fact that your DC have met him

lol AF

oh but button - I have a rising 10yr old, and a just turned 3yr old (the 6yr old isn't so bad these days - outgrown the initial curiosity, but not old enough for further exploration ), you can't possibly expect me to keep up with the, while ringin my landlord in the middle of a shag on my sofa with the kids locked in the shed

Well no, not while they're locked in the shed. After all, you'll have your mind on other things. But I really think you're copping out on this.

I'm far too busy for a wank on the sofa. Gavin and Stacey is on and as a welsh bird I can't ever watch it enough.

am watching G+S too

whilst havin' a fiddle

You're such a bunch of fucking bullies. No one ever said wanking or any kind of sex was wrong. She just didn't appreciate a bloke jizzing in her bed after she said no to sex that morning. it's about respecting people's boundaries.

why are you so set on making her feel prudish? she could have done him every which way the night before, but once she said enough, thought that carrying on solo was disrespectful.

i thought you lot were so diligent when it came to trusting your instincts; only doing what made you feel safe and comfortable, and No meaning No - not carry on in MY home regardless.

Anyway, i can't be bothered with this anymore. go back to insulting me if it makes you feel better about yourselves you saddos. that's if you have anytime leftover from your daily dogging sessions.

wipes DH'S cock on your curtains

My god, DD will you marry me? You are so...upright.

PS: We dont have curtains. Could your charming and respectable DH wipe his cock on my cushions instead?

Oh, don't be childish DD. Nobody's been a bully. People have just stated that they have no problem with this. Then qualified it with a little personal anecdotal stuff. Now we're all just having a laugh.

Grow up and lighten up. You can't take the moral high ground then say

^Anyway, i can't be bothered with this anymore. go back to insulting me if it makes you feel better about yourselves you saddos. that's if you have anytime leftover from your daily dogging sessions.

wipes DH'S cock on your curtains^

You've just totally devalued any point you may have had.

I'm sorry but 2 people said (in not so many words) that having a wank made him a pervert.

Wanking is not perverted - at least not while it's on your (presumably quite hot given they've been at it like rabbits recently) bed.

Damn. That really took the edge off when the stupid computer fails to do what you want!!!

Hmm.. what if he had just thought about wanking in her bed but not done it?

Or had started, got cold feet and then stopped himself. Would that still be bad? Or better?

Was it the act of ejaculation itself that was bad -or the urge behind it??

DD, I think I really like you

DD...serious question

do you think your summing-up of his character as "tedious little pervert" was better than the rest of us telling her she is just being silly and he is a normal fella

I would take offence at the former, and laugh along with the latter

just a thought

Good point well made AF. Better than I did but was trying to say the same thing really.