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wanking while i'm in the shower

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isheaknob · 18/07/2010 18:58

ok have a bf of 9 months. have got really close lately. he stays over at mine 2-3 times a week.
anyway he tried it on this morning and i said no i wasn't up for it as i needed to sort the kids out (they were downstairs watching tv). so i have a very quick shower and come back into the bedroom. he has a towel wrapped around him when before he had boxers. i ask him why and he said he was getting ready for a shower and his boxers were in his bag.
so he has a shower and it becomes obvious that he had a very quick wank while i was in the shower. i confronted him and he admitted it saying that he didn't think it was wrong as he was feeling extra horny! he said sorry but now i just feel weird about it. the thing is its not like he hasn't had it in a while as we have been doing it twice the last few days.
just need some female views as i'm not sure if i'm over re-acting. just because i say no does that mean he has to go and jerk off!
thanx.
oh by the way am a regular and am far too embarrassed to have my real name

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Dineoutone · 20/01/2017 20:44

I wouldn't care.

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PabloEscobarReallyLovesHisKids · 20/01/2017 20:59

7 year old thread. I think he's finished the wank by now.

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noego · 21/01/2017 01:53

Initiates sex gets rejected. Respects you and doesn't pressurise you. Has a quick flick of the wrist. Gets confronted and feels embarrassed. Respects you and apologises.

Good luck with that relationship dear, it will need it.

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BastardGoDarkly · 21/01/2017 02:26

Think Redbeemer is a bloke by chance?

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NeedaFanjob · 21/01/2017 02:56

At least he did it while you were in the shower - it's not like he started choking his chicken while you were there. How did you know anyway?

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Aquamarine1029 · 21/01/2017 04:02

He had the urge and he jerked off. Why on earth are you making such a big fucking deal of it? He wanted you, you declined, so he dealt with it himself. If you want to ruin this relationship then by all means keep being so ridiculous.

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