wanking while i'm in the shower

[isheaknob]

ok have a bf of 9 months. have got really close lately. he stays over at mine 2-3 times a week.
anyway he tried it on this morning and i said no i wasn't up for it as i needed to sort the kids out (they were downstairs watching tv). so i have a very quick shower and come back into the bedroom. he has a towel wrapped around him when before he had boxers. i ask him why and he said he was getting ready for a shower and his boxers were in his bag.
so he has a shower and it becomes obvious that he had a very quick wank while i was in the shower. i confronted him and he admitted it saying that he didn't think it was wrong as he was feeling extra horny! he said sorry but now i just feel weird about it. the thing is its not like he hasn't had it in a while as we have been doing it twice the last few days.
just need some female views as i'm not sure if i'm over re-acting. just because i say no does that mean he has to go and jerk off!
thanx.
oh by the way am a regular and am far too embarrassed to have my real name

[Elmtree1Ems]

Ok look. Thing is OP asked for female opinions and whether she had over-reacted. Yes there was some general hilarity regarding wanking in general...but really bullying? Come on.

As for people being bitches seem to me that esculating things into insult hurling is far more bitchy. Just fowiw.

OP - If you feel uncomfortable about your boyfriend masturbating in your bed / shower / wherever in your house without you being there, then by all means let him know that. It may be worth exploring WHY you feel so uncomfortable with it, perhaps it's to do with not wanting him to 'get off' without you around, or perhaps it's because of the mess or..well whatever it is, it's worth thinking about, because if this is an otherwise healthy relationship then seems to me that this doesn't need to be a big issue.

You asked if you were over-reacting, my opinion, which you asked for is uh yes. Sorry.

[DrunkenDaisy]

No i don't. i was just trying to get my point across within internet banter.

AF - i defo like you. You've done some really good stuff on this forum and made me wise up too. big respect.

[AnyFucker]

but the rest of it was "internet banter", daisy

which the OP was going along with ok (if you look back to the first page or so)

until some other peeps with some funny ideas about what constitutes "perversion" piled in and then she is back to hating the whole idea again (fickle, what ? )

now about my curtains, I need a bit more jizz on 'em 'cos they are not quite blocking out the light at 4am, if you please

[Rafwife]

Who said about jizzing on curtains I swear I just spat my tea out.

[AnyFucker]

RW...daisy is offering her DH up for cock-wiping-on-curtains duty

[Rafwife]

Excellent!

[ninah]

what a waste of those sparkling windows

[Coolfonz]

OP - You could get your boyfriend a laminated copy of a well known Rohld Dahl book and then he could Willie Wonka in the shower instead.

Hope that helps.

[TDiddy]

AF- your image as the perfect wife only gets better

[AnyFucker]

you are a wise person, TD

[toccatanfudge]

I thought of this thread at around 6am this morning.

Someone stayed over (damn that was not on the agenda - but hey ho it happened, and he was very decent and "laid low" at least until my older 2 had gone off to school).

Anyhow, DS3 dragged me out of bed at 5am - he WOULD NOT go back to bed so I had to resign myself to the sofa with him again........

As he wriggled and tried to kick me off the sofa I thought of this thread and wondered if I should be horribly offended if he woke up to find me not there in the bed next to him and did a DIY job.

He had a smile on his face when he got up.............not sure whether that was from last night or this morning though.

[Malificence]

Sorry leQ, mine doesn't, he has no reason to lie, I'm perfectly comfortable with him doing so, he did in the past when working away because he used to tell me but it's probably been 4 or more years since he has.
I can say 100% that I could leave him alone for a month and he wouldn't bother sorting himself out, whereas I can't go a week.

[Homebird8]

You don't mind if he enjoys sex with you in the bed but not if you're in the shower and he's in the bed?
It's his body. His choice.

[Coolfonz]

I still want to know what the evidence was.

[buttonmoon78]

Well unless he shares habits with Daisy's curtain loving husband then I think it's all circumstantial - was wearing boxers then wearing towel. Unless I've missed a vital post!

[buttonmoon78]

Although, now I've written that I can't see why she would've jumped to that conclusion anyway? I mean, surely he normally takes his pants off to shower? So walking to the shower decently covered bearing in mind much publicised presence of dcs is being considerate, no?

[tortoiseonthehalfshell]

Coolfonz, the OP said that she asked him if he had, and he "admitted it".

This is a completely bonkers thread.

[TrinityRhino]

I have never read anything so funny about wanking in all my life
I woke at 5.30, couldn't get back to sleep, felt crappy, read this and laaauuugggghhhed!

thankyou

[toccatanfudge]

hahaha Trinity I thought you were going to say you woke at 5.30, couldn't back to sleep, felt crappy, read this and had a wank

[pudding21]

I think you should think he was so horny for you he couldn't wait. Take it as a compliment.

[jcne]

It's just a bodily function for a man, it's like taking a daily shit! if he was choosing having a wank OVER having sex with you, that would be a different matter, but as it is as far as I am
aware they play with their dicks from the moment they are born ¯(ツ)/¯

[whatsthecomingoverthehill]

I'd hope the OP wasn't still worrying about this seven years later.

[Fortheloveofdog]

ZOMBIE THREAD!!