wanking while i'm in the shower

[isheaknob]

ok have a bf of 9 months. have got really close lately. he stays over at mine 2-3 times a week.
anyway he tried it on this morning and i said no i wasn't up for it as i needed to sort the kids out (they were downstairs watching tv). so i have a very quick shower and come back into the bedroom. he has a towel wrapped around him when before he had boxers. i ask him why and he said he was getting ready for a shower and his boxers were in his bag.
so he has a shower and it becomes obvious that he had a very quick wank while i was in the shower. i confronted him and he admitted it saying that he didn't think it was wrong as he was feeling extra horny! he said sorry but now i just feel weird about it. the thing is its not like he hasn't had it in a while as we have been doing it twice the last few days.
just need some female views as i'm not sure if i'm over re-acting. just because i say no does that mean he has to go and jerk off!
thanx.
oh by the way am a regular and am far too embarrassed to have my real name

am not implying anything at all, just teasing ya

I have the female equivalent, quite regularly, without the mess, of course

I have sacked someone for wanking at his desk
and another for wanking in the men's toilets
perhaps they were turned down for sex that morning?

yes, ron, and weren't allowed to have a wank in the privacy of their own bedroom

Sacking someone for wanking in the toilets??
Christ, is it now a police state?

I love the word wank

wank wank wank

It changes to kwank if you say it fast enough

"he said sorry", poor bloke. Seems totally normal to me. I would see it as a sign that he is comfortable in your house.

Poor bloke. 'Tis quite normal. Anyone who says they don't either can't (medically) or is a liar!

It's not something you tend to do in public so I'm not surprised he was trying to be discreet.

Ron - I get the sacking for wanking at the desk...but the toilet? Really?

How did you know is my second question......

I'm with the poster. my DH is free to happily wank whenever if likes, but as a previous single mum; if a BF had wanked in my bed whilst my kid was downstairs after i's just said that sex was not on the agenda, i'd feel extremely disrespected.

and as for you guys, who are usually so supportive; to gang up on this poor woman is really mean. And for those of you had had to barge in saying stuff like 'ooh i'd jump in and help him out', wtf are you trying to prove? you're like a bunch of arsehole alpha males desperate to show off their fertility/sexuality. have you got such a chip on your shoulder that you've got to highjack a thread where a woman has doubts about a new relationship?

does it make you feel better to show off to bunch of anonymous internetters? you're probably all fat donkeys anyway. yeah put the gimp mask back on munters, we're soooo impressed.

OP - stick with you're instincts, this guy sounds like a disrespectful twunt.

Time of the month drunken? Or just had a few already? Or just not getting any as you are so uptight I can't decide.

nice drunkendaisy.....nice!!!

PMSL at this whole thread!

charming person you sound DD

methinks you are in need of a good rogering yourself

new relationship at 9 months on??

oh and btw - I'm a single mum if my BF (haven't quite got one.,yet - he's still my "date" ( wanked in my bed after we'd shagged in it several times I wouldn't care two hoots.

Presumably they've been having sex with young children in the house? So what's the difference with DIY with kids in the house????

I have sex with young children in the house all the time. It would be a bit mean to make them leave.

lol Morloth - you mean you don't chuck you children out of the house while you shag

I shagged a man my children have never met (and never will as we decided we wanted different things from relationships) on my sofa while they were asleep upstairs

Sorry so it's ok for two people to have sex in a bed when the kids are downstairs but not one?

I'm confused.

That does seem to be the most bewildering thing about the whole thread - that the OP and some of the other maniacs are saying that it's worse to have a wank than have sex (WRT DC being in the house).

In general, people who think there is anything inherently wrong with wanking tend to have rather unpleasant attitudes towards sex.

(And I would also like to know why Ronaldinho sacked someone for wanking in the toilet! Was the person caught jizzing on the wall or something?

I can see why someone was sacked for wanking in the toilet: if they had took a longer break than allowed LOL. Misuse of company time?

that's a good point SGB - surely the "risk" of being interrupted (and not noticing you've got an audience) is higher with sex than with a wank.

I'd love to contribute to this thread, but I feel obliged to confess my dalliance with onanism.

Oh, the shame

Now, where's my fireproof pants

AF and SGB i usually really respect what you post, but this time i think you're being mean. the poor girl obviously has afew doubts regarding this tedious little pervert. what about trusting your instincts and feeling comfortable in her new sexual relationship?

if she doesn't feel that they've reached the happy wanking stage yet, then they haven't; so lay off.

And to the rest of you; I take a virtual dump in your handbags!

pervert??? oh dear DD you are being sooooo unpleasant!!

High Five drunkendaisy, I was trying to make this point last night, mabe it didnt come across as well as you have put though!!!! Glad someone else is willing to speak up and not be worried about being jumped on by some of the bitches on here

drunk and thick....says it all really!