Boyfriend doesn't want to have baby

[FirstTimeMummyxxx]

Hi, I am 23 and already have an 11 month old. My partner knew i wasn't on the pill and we have been having sex unprotected - lo and behold i done a test today and it was positive. He doesn't want to keep the baby, won't even sit down and talk about it just straight away said "do another test then we will google on what's the next steps to get rid" but i don't want to get rid. I have always wanted kids young and i am kind of against abortion... (please don't hate me for that). We have a house together but not sure what to do, leave him and keep the baby and get my own place and be a single mom or get rid like he wants?

It's your decision but i think you should go ahead with the pregnancy. Otherwise it sounds like you will regret it and it would be nice to have a sibling for your other little one. That said, you will need support so I would give yourself time to think things over and plan. And do take the time (it gives your partner time to take it in too) and then sort out things with your partner in due course. Tell him that you would prefer to keep it (if that's what your instincts are) and go from there. Be prepared for the case that he mightnt want to be a part of it and will want to break up. Start planning for support/childcare as soon as you can. Maybe I should say a big congrats! :)

Any updates OP? @FirstTimeMummyxxx ❤️

He's now excited about the baby and we're keeping ☺️

Oh I'm so happy for you! Congrats.. Glad it worked out for you both ❤️