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If my partner has kids with social involvement will they be involved with mine ?

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ConnieC2001 · 27/11/2023 12:20

just that really . Partner is in a custody battle and socials are involved with him and his kids mum. I just found out I’m pregnant again (first with my current partner , I have one from previous relationship) no socials were involved with me, but because they’re involved with his other kids will socials be involved with this new baby ?

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piperpheobepruepaige · 27/11/2023 22:43

TeaKitten · 27/11/2023 22:09

Chill out! We get it, OPs story doesn’t match up to her other posts. You’ve done 8 posts on this page alone about it. Other threads are also available.

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So? nothing feels a bit odd about a poster mixing up age of a newborn, it's not like when you talk about a grandparent dying "in their 80s"?. The age of a newborn is almost measured in minutes, and so hard to get wrong

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TheShellBeach · 28/11/2023 12:51

piperpheobepruepaige · 27/11/2023 22:43

So? nothing feels a bit odd about a poster mixing up age of a newborn, it's not like when you talk about a grandparent dying "in their 80s"?. The age of a newborn is almost measured in minutes, and so hard to get wrong

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Well quite.
You'd know if your baby was eight weeks old or if it was five weeks old, surely?

blackfluffycat · 28/11/2023 13:31

Assuming you still have contact either way a health visitor / midwife? Can you ask their advice or abortion / contraception / housing etc? To know the NHS is stretched as well as the council and all of the charities.

Is your mum ok with you and two babies living with her?

Loloxo · 30/04/2024 11:04

ConnieC2001 · 27/11/2023 12:20

just that really . Partner is in a custody battle and socials are involved with him and his kids mum. I just found out I’m pregnant again (first with my current partner , I have one from previous relationship) no socials were involved with me, but because they’re involved with his other kids will socials be involved with this new baby ?

Hi guys
me and my ex partner had our children taken off us due to my son being hurt by my ex (his dad) they were placed under a sgo but I have had the sgo reversed and now I have full custody of my children, the case with social services has been closed but they said the dad has to have supervised visits with the children till I say different, I recently found out he has a new baby on the way with a new gf but I don’t think he has told her about the history, will social services flag this to his new gf and be involved or can he continue lying?

Bobtheamazinggingerdog · 30/04/2024 11:27

Loloxo · 30/04/2024 11:04

Hi guys
me and my ex partner had our children taken off us due to my son being hurt by my ex (his dad) they were placed under a sgo but I have had the sgo reversed and now I have full custody of my children, the case with social services has been closed but they said the dad has to have supervised visits with the children till I say different, I recently found out he has a new baby on the way with a new gf but I don’t think he has told her about the history, will social services flag this to his new gf and be involved or can he continue lying?

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You need to start a new thread if you want advice. You should report the baby to social services in the area he lives unless he's living in the same area as they would have linked the two families already if so.

Loloxo · 30/04/2024 11:35

i wanted to start a new thread but I’m not sure how to do, could you explain to me please

Icanseethebeach · 30/04/2024 11:37

ConnieC2001 · 27/11/2023 12:51

socials are involved due to the children’s mother . She was on drugs (clean now) but still has her kids living in awful condition. Then obviously she was throwing out accusations, as was he, it’s all a bit of a mess that I don’t know much about . This pregnancy wasn’t at all planned as we only just started dating

Has he tried to get full or main custody of his children or is he happy to leave his children in this situation?

Nevercloserfortherestofourlives · 30/04/2024 11:55

Loloxo · 30/04/2024 11:35

i wanted to start a new thread but I’m not sure how to do, could you explain to me please

At the top of the page click on ‘start new thread’
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Durham87 · 19/01/2025 06:12

Hi if someone has children who have been placed in the foster care system but has regular face to face contact and are not a physical risk to kids gets into a relationship with a fulltime patent ...what are the steps

kittensinthekitchen · 20/01/2025 11:32

Durham87 · 19/01/2025 06:12

Hi if someone has children who have been placed in the foster care system but has regular face to face contact and are not a physical risk to kids gets into a relationship with a fulltime patent ...what are the steps

Hi, you'd be better to start your own thread, as people won't see this very easily.

But I would question why someone with children would want to get involved with a partner whose children had been removed.

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