'Pregnancy after Miscarriage - Latest support thread'

[tulipsunday]

Hi all new thread as the other one is about to max out.

For all those going through pregnancy after miscarriage/s. Come share your worries and celebrate your milestones with people who can relate to what you are going through 🥰

@TheBirdintheCave jeeze! They didn't even think to do any tests or anything? 😮
My blood is around 11 now, but I still feel like crap...going to be one of them days I think. Diabetes sucks

@Brokenpancreas94 Nope. The whole thing is very strange.

I hope you start to feel better soon!

@Brokenpancreas94 hope things settle down for you doesn't sound nice at all.

@tulipsunday @TheBirdintheCave thank you...starting to think it's not diabetes related as I'm not feeling any better 😫

@Brokenpancreas94 hope you feel better tomorrow, anything that sounds similar to a hangover all day sounds truly horrendous! Look after yourself. x

@Neelamj welcome to the group and good luck for tomorrow 🤞

@Brokenpancreas94 hope you feel better soon! And hope you are ok after your fall @tulipsunday

I still have this bloody cough! It's been 3 weeks now 😩

16 weeks tomorrow and have been having this weird sensation inside this week, like my stomach is lurching. It's really odd and hard to explain but it makes me feel all weird. I'm hoping it's a good sign.

@suz2285 @Brokenpancreas94 @tulipsunday @SparkleFly thank you ladies for all the reassuring comments, the day has arrived! Less than 3hrs to go. Been told to drink 2 cups water so thats all ive been thinking about this morning to make sure I drink enough lol

@Neelamj Good luck today!

@Neelamj good luck today xx lots of hugs - hopefully it is just spotting nothing else.

update from me: we had our 12 week scan yesterday and we got to see our wiggly baby 😭 i am so relieved as morning sickness has been getting better so was going all panicky again (hence silence…) but now officially at 13 weeks 1 day we are into second trimester and 5 weeks ahead of last loss so starting to relax a teeny tiny bit as % has dropped. Now to wait for 20 week scan 😵‍💫

@Nushyboots Aww congratulations :D It's the best feeling!

Congratulations @Nushyboots nothing beats seeing them wriggling around 💞 focus on that good feeling to get you through the next few weeks.

Good luck @Neelamj I had reassurance scans at 7 and 9 weeks and it does help to see everything progressing. Fingers crossed for good news for you 🤞🏼

Aww @Nushyboots that's great news ☺️
Do you think you'll have a private scan in the meantime? I'm 16 weeks today and have decided to wait for the hospital one as I find it so much nicer than the private ones around here. Bump's looking a bit bigger today as well so that's reassuring.

@SparkleFly I'm getting antsy now and am wondering if I should book a 16 week one just to check on the baby as it feels SOOOO long until Christmas/NewYear when my 20 week scan is.

@sweetpotato29 thanks so much will definately try hold onto that feeling - hopefully get flutters before 20 weeks!

@SparkleFly I would probably get one - but at the minute focussed on saving for maternity leave as i only just started a new job so most like only SMP 🤦🏽‍♀️ Maybe hubby will treat me to one? 🤞🏾

@TheBirdintheCave mine should be around xmas new year too! When are you due?

@Nushyboots thank you, and congratualtions!

@sweetpotato29 @TheBirdintheCave thank you:)

I have just had a scan but they only saw a sac measuring 6mm (i should be 7 weeks 2days) because its so small they cant see much inside maybe a small dot (if that) they will be doing blood tests and tell me to come again. Mentally prepared as I am so early and due to implantation etc naybe it implanted later etc as I am sure of my last period. Feeling soo numb as I know its not looking good

Just saw my notes again, there is a yolk sac but its measuring at less than 5 I think so confused with all Jargon, docter seemed more positive she said at this stage its good she saw that much bu will have to wait 2weeks to see if the pregnancy is viable or not.

@Neelamj Was it an internal or external scan as external can really knock the sizing out.

Sorry that it wasn't the news you were expecting @Neelamj it's tricky when they don't know for sure as you feel in limbo! I think all you can do it wait to find out more information, because the dates are always guesswork so it could just be tracking early. Keeping everything crossed for you 💞 be kind to yourself

@Nushyboots great news, the wait between 12-20 weeks feels ages again! We had a 16 week private scan cos I couldn't wait 😂

@TheBirdintheCave see above 😂 I def couldn't have waited, I found the 20 week scan really scary but the 16 week scan prob helped know things were looking ok!

@Neelamj are they going to do some blood tests? I've heard of this happening so much around 7 weeks and it could go either way it's so hard to tell cos they're measuring things in millimetres it's so difficult to tell what's going on... even for the doctors! Sorry you're having to wait again though 🤞🤞

Great news @Nushyboots ❤️

Did they do an abdominal scan or vaginal? @Neelamj hoping the pregnancy does turn out to be viable for you, horrible that you have to do even more waiting 😭😭

So so tired today! Barely slept last night (thought I would considering how I felt yesterday but nope)

@Neelamj sorry you are still having to wait. Hope you get the blood tests and some answers soon xx

@Brokenpancreas94 can relate to the tiredness. Fell asleep on the sofa last night 😂 am so keen at the end of the day to have some me time but just keep feeling too tired to watch tv.

@Nushyboots brilliant news! ❤️

@tulipsunday I just kept tossing and turning last night, couldn't get comfortable...then when I did, I had a hypo (treated it this time ha) but then I was awake! Finally got back to sleep and then daughter comes and gets in bed with me 😂🙄 fun and games!