Due late Oct 🎃 - early Nov 🎉

[Foxella]

I don’t know when I’m due, I’ve not had a period since DS was born but I got 1-2 weeks on a Clearblue digi this morning which puts me sometime late October or early November (I think!)
Feels like I’m too far behind the October group but too early for a November one… anyone due a similar time and want to join me? Would love to have some company 😊

Hello. Very early days for me, got a bfp at 9 and 11 dpo. Will be testing tomorrow again. Mmc the last time so it's an anxious time atm. Congratulations!

Hi @Raindrops2015 congratulations! I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a mmc 💐 really hope this is it for you
I’ll be joining you in testing again tomorrow, it’s such an anxious time but seeing the lines get darker is the closest you can get to knowing it’s progressing at this stage even tho I know it changes nothing. Do you have any symptoms yet?

I am due ~ 27th October:) have had 2 mcs and been ttc for nearly 3 years so it's a rather anxious time!

I had a clearblue 2-3 weeks on Thursday 🥰

@Foxella - I've sore boobs, leukorreah, fatigue (though going off caffeine may be contributing to that) and some mild cramping. What about you?
@Annny27 I'm really sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I hope and pray this is it for you. Are you taking anything or getting any extra help from doctors? I'm taking aspirin 75mg, high dose vit D, 100mg ubiquinol and the pregnacare. I'm going to try and throw myself into everything else to keep my mind off it.

Hi, I'm 17dpo today and have had positive tests since 10dpo, I've been too scared to join the October group for fear of jinxing it. We had a chemical pregnancy in December but the tests are much darker this time so really hoping this is the one! If it is I'm due about 28th October

Can I join 🙋🏻‍♀️. Finally got a BFP yesterday after a year TTC. I honestly can't believe it, such dark lines as well. I think I would be due 31st October so feel the same as you, don't really fit in the 'due in October' chats, not yet anyway. Obviously very early and don't want to jinx anything but so hard not to get excited and tell anyone isn't it? Also not to get too far ahead of myself but we are hosting an Easter party for our families the day I will hit the second trimester (all going well) and it would be so nice to share our news then.

Also sorry to hear about the losses in the group, that must have been so hard. Fingers crossed for us all that these all stick x

Morning 😊 how’s everyone feeling today? I got a lovely strong FRER this morning, and my crappy one-step’s even have a line that doesn’t need squinting at! I’m still in shock to be honest, I think it’ll take a while to sink in.

Congratulations @Annny27 @justanotherlaura @kmbegs ! lovely to have you join 🥰 anyone else have DC already?

I was trying to figure out potential due dates based on how my tests look compared to my first pregnancy (I tracked everything religiously 😬) and my first thought was oooh, I’m having a pumpkin 😂😂
So far I’ve just had a bit of cramping and a few very light waves of nausea. And my sense of smell is definitely on the up, but nothing yet that would mean I was suspicious of being pregnant without a test to prove tho.

Definitely helps being in a group and have ladies to share with who actually understand! I know it doesn’t always work out and I’m so sorry for those who’ve had losses before 💐 hoping we all have a happy and healthy 9(ish) months ahead 😊

@raindrops2015 nothing extra for me but I have a progesterone test on Monday and will see what that result is and then I will ask the epu if they recommend aspirin. Fingers cross this are our rainbows!

@foxella thank you for setting this up! This will be my first baby. How about you? I had quite a lot of cramping last week which is still sort of there but going down

@justanotherlaura I had a chemical in May last year and my lines were very faint and starting disappearing after a few days so this is already looking much more promissing for me too :)

Symptoms wise - soreish big boobs that fluctuate e.g sometimes feel deflated, sometimes big. And also a bit gaggy and very tired

Hello everyone, am also another one not sure on due date. The last few months my periods have been all over the place. Haven't had one since the beginning of the year. Had a BFP a few days ago & according to my LMP that would have made me 7 wks now but when I went for a private scan yesterday they could only see a small sac like structure measuring about 2.4mm so I calculated that makes me about 4 wks. Advised to scan again in 2 wks so am anxiously waiting. I'm sorry to hear about all the previous mcs in the group. Wishing us all happy & healthy pregnancies

Excitedly joining. I got my bfp yesterday after a MMC at 19+1 in October. Due around 2nd November

@Annny27 this will be my second, DS is 13 months (lockdown baby!) so will be about 22 months when this one arrives. I can’t believe he’s going to be a big brother, he’s still my little man and feels like yesterday that he was born, then I’ve blinked and he’s a year old. It’s scary how fast the time has gone.

@ThinkingDifferent stay positive, if your periods have been all over then they’re not worth going by. If you only got the positive a few days ago then go by that - I know it’ll feel like the longest two weeks though. I’ll keep everything crossed for you 🤞🏻 I had a reassurance scan at 6 weeks in my first pregnancy and they said as long as it’s at least 2 weeks from your positive test then they should be able to see something definitive.

@sayanythingelse I’m sorry, 19 weeks must have been heartbreaking 😥 hoping this one is your time ❤️

I’ll probably get sent for an early scan since my last period was nearly 2 years ago! I know I’m early tho so I’ll not book in with the midwives for a few more weeks. Aaarrgghh, conception and pregnancy is just so much anxious waiting!!

Can I tentatively join please? I had a MMC in December at 11 weeks and found out on Valentines Day that I am pregnant again 🌈

I haven’t had a period since the miscarriage so not really sure how pregnant I am but think about 5 weeks 🙏 so due date is roughly 23rd October

I had quite a traumatic miscarriage so the EPU have agreed to me having an early scan which is booked for 3rd March

I seem to have more symptoms this time around - nausea, cramping, bloating and constipation being the main ones alongside crippling fatigue 😂

Sending everybody lots of good wishes for a happy and healthy 9 months 🤗

Thank you @Foxella I'm incredibly excited & nervous at the same time. 2 weeks feels like miles away but am keeping positive

Cautiously joining this thread! BFP a week ago. Dating wise I think I am 4 weeks 5 days. Had an eptopic last august and a miscarriage the year before so certainly not excited and very anxious at this stage!
Not many symptoms yet, just fatigue and slightly sore boobs.
Wishing everyone on here the best of luck! xx

I have the same symptoms as you @1984pip with constant mild cramps. Wishing you all the best x

Hi I'm due 22nd October. It will be my 3rd baby. I'm 5wks 1day and I've just tested positive for covid 😞 feel so worried something will go wrong.

@EssieMay I know loads with covid and pregnant and all going OK.
@MrsGreen2021 that's great the EPU are doing that for you. I had to have surgery for my mc. I was going to push them for an early scan but they wouldn't give me a follow up scan so considering the private option. I'm sorry for you loss and hope you are well.
@1984pip sorry for your previous losses. I'm the same. Trying to take my mind off it and telling nobody. Don't even want to talk about it with partner. Trying to forget I'm pregnant whilst keeping really healthy. Can't wait til the day I can relax and enjoy it.

Just got this today 😲😁 had a miscarriage in November so im terrified

Congratulations @MrsGreen2021 @EssieMay @1984pip @JenniferR2021 ! the more the merrier 🥰 So many who have had early losses, but plenty of support here and we can all help each other through the anxieties. @Raindrops2015 I totally get what you mean about not wanting to talk to partner about it, mine takes such a ‘man’ view on things and really doesn’t get it!

@EssieMay sorry to hear you have Covid 😕 hope you’re not getting many symptoms and maybe you’ll have some extra immunity now. What ages are your DC?

How did you all tell your partners/husbands? I’ll tell my mum in a couple of weeks but would rather wait until after the first scan before telling anyone else. @kmbegs Easter party sounds the perfect time to share the news! Hopefully you’ll get a scan pic to show too 😬

Glad I am not the only one who has had a loss and yes, we can be a support to eachother:)

@foxella I found out valentines day in the evening so just said oh I have another valentines gift for you and handed it to him haha. How about you? Wow it will be lovely for your son

@JenniferR2021 congratulations 💗💗

@essiemay my friend (who has had 5 miscarriages!) Got covid and a positive pregnancy test on the same day and she is now 23 weeks :)

@1984pip I have similar symptoms. My big sore boobs come and go, sometimes they feel sore and big, sometimes normal!

Congratulations to everyone else :D xx

@Raindrops2015 that's helpful thank you.

@Foxella Thank you very much. I am quite poorly but just like a bad cold. My DC are 18 years old (boy) and 12 months (girl).

@Annny27 that is very reassuring thanks so much.

I sent my bf a watsap pic of the test today coz he was at work I couldn't wait till he finished lol

Hey guys xx im due on october the 21st ! I found out 12 days ago but held off telling my husband until valentine's day xx i wrapped the test up to give him xx i had a MMC last summer, we found out at 9 weeks that our baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks 😢 - i am trying to remain positive but im so anxious! I have sore boobs, mild period like cramps and my stomach is churning! Xx

Hello, joining as an 5 weeks today with a predicted due date of 23rd Oct. This will be my second DC and I'm equally excited / nervous / it still hasn't fully sunk in. I've also had a couple of chemicals and have been started on progesterone and have an appointment on Thursday with a gynae doctor so will see what they say.