thanks for your support once again everyone, wiping tears away here, i spend so much of the day 'keeping busy' that when i cry it is a torrent! mum was great after the chemo yesterday and i am astounded by her ability to be upbeat, long may it last.
Daisy,sorry you've had sad news too, it is so hard to compute what you are being told sometimes, thanks for your details.
loved the name minichoc so it is now officially adopted. all fine at m/w thankfully.
love to all of you at every stage of growing a baby, aren't we amazing.......
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