Don't know which dad it is

[Gab101]

Hello.

I hope this is the right place to be and that I don't get judgement for this as I am very scared!

I am pregnant, I am unsure how many weeks as I haven't had a scan yet.

My last period was 6th of October-9th.

I had sex with someone on the 18th October unprotected, and then again on the 27th and 28th, 27th with the same guy I slept with on the 18th and 28th with a different person.

I took a clear blue digital and it said I was 1-2 weeks which I think means 3-4.

Please can someone help me work out who is more likely to be the dad! The line on a test I did last week Tuesday the 6th October was almost invisible, then did one on the 9th that was more visible and also did the digital on the 9th. It's now the 15th and the line is very obvious and strong so surely that means it was the guy from the 18th October?!

Thanks so much to anyone that helps! 

Dunno, why not toss a coin and go with that?

And go with what?

Honestly, I don't think there's a chance of figuring it out by dates, they're too close together.

When you get your first scan, can they tell the difference in 10 days growth this early? Because that is the days in between?

This is the first time I have posted on here and wrote one post on conception and one on pregnancy? I meant a strong line on 6th November.

It could be either. The margin of error is too large and the sex too close together. You need a DNA test. It's actually more likely that you conceived at the end of Oct based on those dates.

I feel like I’ve seen this post a lot of times before.

I have literally just made an account today and posted this.

There’s always a chance you ovulated late or have a longer cycle but going by the average cycle you most likely ovulated around the 18th. The 27th was day 21 of your cycle which is late for ovulation, it usually happens around day 14.

This is familiar.

@OutPinked thanks so much for that response that has calmed me down a lot. I am hoping it was the 18th I conceived!

You are going to have to be very brave and swallow your pride and ego here and tell both men you are pregnant but not sure who the father is and ask them to do a DNA test when baby is born.

I'd say it's more likely to be the one you slept with on the 18th. Based on a 28 day cycle, you would have ovulated on the 20th. The sperm from the 18th could still have been there. It's unlikely to have been the 27th or 28th.

P.s didn't this happen in Bridget Jones Baby? Maybe watch it!

Are you usually regular?

You obviously wanted to get pregnant more than you cared about who the father was, so does it really matter at this stage?

No one on mumsnet can tell you who the father is. Only a dna test will be able to do that for you.

I trust you've now learnt about using contraception yes ?

It's a bit pointless of posters to stick the boot in. The woman asked a question. Either answer it or don't. She doesn't need your pearl clutching.

@Alilwolf I tried to attach pictures of my cycle but new users cannot do that. My cycles have been in the past couple months

34 days (only long for me)
27
29
28
26
And this month 41 as I am pregnant

Thanks for your response x

It's very likely to have been the 18th then I would say.

Posters more into testing would have more knowledge on a Clearblue result.

@Alilwolf really appreciate the informative kind response and the back up from negativity! Your a great person. Xx

Was the 18th the only time it was unprotected?

If you had a positive text on 6th Nov, you are unlikely to be pg from 28th Oct.
Was that test definitely positive?