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Don't know which dad it is

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Gab101 · 15/11/2018 14:15

Hello.

I hope this is the right place to be and that I don't get judgement for this as I am very scared!

I am pregnant, I am unsure how many weeks as I haven't had a scan yet.

My last period was 6th of October-9th.

I had sex with someone on the 18th October unprotected, and then again on the 27th and 28th, 27th with the same guy I slept with on the 18th and 28th with a different person.

I took a clear blue digital and it said I was 1-2 weeks which I think means 3-4.

Please can someone help me work out who is more likely to be the dad! The line on a test I did last week Tuesday the 6th October was almost invisible, then did one on the 9th that was more visible and also did the digital on the 9th. It's now the 15th and the line is very obvious and strong so surely that means it was the guy from the 18th October?!

Thanks so much to anyone that helps! 

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Alilwolf · 15/11/2018 17:48

Harriet, what is that supposed to mean? I know it's intended to be nasty, but what are you trying to say?

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Gab101 · 15/11/2018 18:48

@Alilwolf I am in contact with both yes. But 18th one I'm in contact with quite a lot, and the other one text me this weekend asking if I wanted to go out with him sometime and I had to ignore as I felt so awkward. Glad to see the nasty comments deleted and me to be believed not to be a troll.

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AuntMarch · 15/11/2018 19:20

I'm not seeing over invested, just a conversation.

Even if OP was a troll it's highly likely someone in a similar situation will read this and find the posts from @Alilwolf reassuring that their world isn't ending!

NOTthepinkranger · 15/11/2018 20:05

You do seem slightly over invested asking quite personal questions tbh. Each to their own but you’re coming off as quite heavy

WitchesHatRim · 15/11/2018 20:09

I didn't know what to say, so then he goes 'No, I can't tell whether it's got curly hair or not'.

Well that wasn't at all racist. Hmm

WitchesHatRim · 15/11/2018 20:11

Look, if you have nothing nice to say, or no advice to give, maybe do one.

Well it's you that has been deleted umpteen times. Hmm @Alilwolf

Exhaustedmummy1811 · 16/11/2018 00:08

I am in a similar situation, the date I was given at my scan puts my conception bang in the middle of a six week period I wasn't active and no where near a period. My first scan was at 16 weeks and was told its harder to date but it left me very confused. The last period I remember having was only for 1 day where usually I would be on for 5, the dates don't match up with any of my ovulation either (and that's taking into account the 2 weeks they add on) I hope you get the answers you want

babyp160 · 16/11/2018 02:32

@Gab101 I've known people to get pregnant the day their period ended so everyone is different I'm afraid.

The only way is to be honest with both men.
This did make me think of Bridget Jones baby film 🙈

Everyone has made silly choices in their lifetime so the haters on here are obviously fooling them self to think they're a saint.

A positive to people thinking you're a troll as they've read this many times before just goes to show you aren't alone in your situation. Every cloud and that.

Belynda23 · 05/04/2019 05:14

I think go in for a 7 week ultrasound, they are the most accurate in determining conception date with 3-5 days difference. Hope that helps

SneakyGremlins · 05/04/2019 05:24

This is from November.....

SneakyGremlins · 05/04/2019 05:24

Zombie thread...

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