Staying posifrickentive- Thread 16 for ladies pg after mc

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Starting a new thread for us ladies...

How far on are you?

Big hugs and handhold here.

Saz, Charlie & Peach great news! Really pleased for you all

Pattern how worrying. Giving you a hand hold

I'm 8+3 today. Bloody timing is the exact same time I had significant bleeding last time. It couldn't have just gone according to plan could it? Mind you at least I'll get it over with before the wedding!

Oh Pattern, hand-holding. 8+3 was when I had my bleed. Hoping all is okay for you too. Really thinking of you.

Hand holding @noparticularpattern 💐

@NoParticularPattern must be so stressful. I'm so sorry. Also here for a hand hold

If you see any more or feel any pain could you not go to A&E? Annoying how this had to happen on a Friday evening.

Hang in there. Crossing fingers that it's nothing

Welcome to all the newcomers 😊👋

Fantastic news on scans peach and charlie and great news on hcg levels saz

Oh no pattern so sorry to hear about your bleed. Hand hold from here. Was there any cramping? I've had so many bleeds during this pregnancy including "bits" coming out and everything has been fine - turned out to be a hematoma - I know how terrifying it can be but please don't lose hope and get yourself to A&E if the bleeding gets any worse. Sending lots of virtual hugs

Oh pattern really hope it eases and turns out to be nothing sinister. Hand holding. So worrying for you. 💐

Thanks for all your messages ladies. I've had no more blood or mucus and nothing to write home about cramps wise. Just absolutely terrified every time I stand up that I'll have that familiar gush of blood that means it's all over. Thanks again ladies

Pattern
Such a stress and sorry you are going through this. Hoping all stays calm now for you.

Hope you are ok @Pattern and the bleeding stops now. Obviously get it checked out but it's common to bleed/spot, it is just so easy to assume because of what we've been through, that every pregnancy will go the same way. Crossing everything for you. X

After 3 days of intermittent spotting I allowed myself to retest. Line is much, much darker than when I tested on Wednesday and appeared before the control line. Hoping this is a good thing.

How are you today pattern? Hope you managed to get some rest and no more spotting today.

I hope all is ok pattern. Wort time ever for you to get problems if this is when you had them last time. I hope all is ok.

Yesterday morning I was constipated, yesterday afternoon I had a big cramp, then a big poo and then felt horribly sick for a bit. I was hoping the cramp was just the constipation resolving itself and was hoping I would wake up this morning feeling as sick as i have the last couple of mornings. Of course I woke up feeling fine, felt a little queasy, but it went away with a slice of brioche. Then I was fine for a couple of hours. Had a proper breakfast when DH woke up then remarked to him that I was a bit worried by the lack of feeling sick. Within half an hour I have started to feel crap again. Never been so glad to feel rough in my life. It is going to be a long few weeks yet.

Oh and that is good news Dancing

Brenna, it must be so stressful. It's so hard to not doubt and analyse every single niggle and symptom. It is definitely going to be a long few months!

I still feel absolutely horrendous so maybe that's a good sign? I've had no more bleeding but a lot of mucus like stuff this morning. Not just like the normal CM I have been getting bit more like actual serious head cold snot but not from my nose! Anyway not a lot I can do about it til Monday, and not even sure who I ring then anyway! Thanks for your concern ladies, I hope the rest of you guys are doing ok!

I hope it is just your cervix playing silly buggers pattern. I would ring your EPU on monday.

I was about to check in you @NoParticularPattern and if there's been any more bleeding. I know it's difficult to say try not to stress so please hang in there. Until you are told differently, today you are pregnant.

Agree with Brenna and just call the EPU on Monday anyway, just to reassure you if nothing else.

hello to all the new comers to the thread

Hope everyone has a good, uneventful weekend

Morning all hope you're all ok...

@NoParticularPattern I hope the mucus settles down and agree with others who have said to seek advice from the epu on Monday, I too hope it's your cervix being sensitive.

@Brenna24 I had horrendous cramps from constipation in the beginning too, it's an awful symptom of early pregnancy being so constipated. I was also scared to try to go to the toilet in fear of pushing the baby out which made it 10x worse!

Had some fab news yesterday, one of my twin nephews was discharged from the hospital 😁😁 just have to get the smaller one of the two up to 4lbs now and he can come home too. They're both still so tiny, like little dolls but so so strong. Also got a cuddle with the bigger twin on Tuesday.
Baby girl is still vibrating it's so strange. Speaking to a couple of my friends who are Midwife's who said it's generally when a baby stretches out they do a little foot judder or if the cord it on their hand they wiggle to get free. Neither of my older girls did this and it really is an odd sensation!

Happy weekend everyone, hope it's an uneventful relaxing couple of days for us all xx

@NoParticularPattern I was thinking last night - isn't it around 7-8 weeks that your mucous plug forms? So it makes sense that you would get some extra discharge around now, and the blood tinge could be old blood that was lurking in your cervix. I'm glad it's settled down and hope it stays that way. Will you call the EPU on Monday, do you think?

I'm unsure if ringing the EPU will be the best call. I don't think I can self refer to ours so I think I have to go to the doctors first and then they will refer me. Could be worth a call to them but as it's been so long since I was there with the MC in July last year I doubt if they will see me off their own back without a referral.

Hi ladies after some advice with tests !! I had a miscarriage 3months ago 😥 And now my last period started on 1st may I still haven't come on but still getting negative clear blue digital tests it's so annoying we really want that positive now !! From doing a few ovulation tests in may I ovulated much later then I should have so was thinking maybe it's just to early still but it's just driving me mad !! I'm going to get a doctors appointment next week I think and see what's happening I'm going on holiday in a few weeks so really wanted to know before then !! Just can't see why else I wouldn't have come on yet as I'm usually regular !

@Georgie540 I think it can take a while for cycles to settle back in to their normal pattern. I found it took mine almost 6 months with a couple of chemical pregnancies after a MMC at nearly 14wks. Sorry for your loss. The months TTC after are hard, be kind to yourself.