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January 2008 Shiny New Year Toddlers - Toddling, tempers and tantrums

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madmouse · 03/04/2009 20:54

ok then, thought it sounded better this way round.

hope everyone finds it!

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Gingeme · 19/05/2009 14:47

Oh have I missed a new baby? Many many congratulations Bluebell. My rl friend has a Darcy I just love that name xxx

simpson · 19/05/2009 15:51

I love the name Darcy too

Lucky - so doc was crap then Am suprised he didn't send you for blood test to rule out pg...

JKS - hope today went well...

Lilyloo - school shoes already!! We are supposed to be getting a pack from school with all the stuff I will need to do/buy. I hope they do it soon as I like to be organised

Have got most of J's school uniform now just need one "official" school jumper and his PE kit, oh yes and book bag.

I love a bargain £10 instead of £48 sounds great

JustKeepSwimming · 19/05/2009 20:27

Hey all, using brother's laptop so best be brief (as i can anyway) - it mostly went well.

i can't remember it all clearly but the plan is:
increas to 3/4 dose today (instead of waiting till fri), then full dose next week (the 4.13 thing she cleared up saying it's not THAT precise, we can go for 4 or 4.2!).
then 2 or 3 weeks later the fits should have stopped.
IF they haven't then Epilim is the wrong drug and we can try Keppra (think she is keener on K than E anyway from her tone). so within a few months we really should be on top of the fits.
she wants us to go back in a couple of months to discuss.
and another MRI in about 8 months to see if they can get a clearer picture of abnormal bit.
it is NOT a tumour, it is an 'area' (about the size of a slice of a medium size tomato) that did not develop in the womb (for no particular reason) and will not grow/change/develop from now.
the brain should learn to work around it so his development should NOT be affected. though he may have learning issues later on (but then i'm expecting dyslexia anyway cos of DH)...

if the drugs aren't working & another MRI shows a better pic, then they may suggest surgery.
but...she is a specialist in the ketogenic diet and was happy with my preference to try that before brain surgery (or at least to fully research the surgery before just blindly agreeing to it).

i'm sure i've missed loads but must call grandparents and try to be concise, lol!

mostly positive, some sadness, he is unlikely to 'grow out of it' but it should not affect things like driving, swimming, school, etc.

have i been clear?

Gingeme · 19/05/2009 20:29

Wow JKS your brill at remembering stuff. Sounds much clearer and I bet its put your mind at rest a bit. Certainly alot more positive anyway I am glad x

AngeChica · 19/05/2009 20:39

Good news JKS that they will get the fits under control one way or t'other. What an odd thing the human brain is!

Would love to try and meet for coffee Madmouse - think we basing ourselves at Ambleside but Keswick is doable for a trip. MIL is on one of those organised kind of Shearings bus tour things anyway so has other stuff to do - will try and get some kind of sense out of her re timetable and get back to you!

Likelihood of piddling down in the Lake District: strong I'd say.

congrats Bluebell if you're reading this.

With you on the sleep front Gingeme. Yes we are going to do CC from Thursday night and I will probably be on here wailing and gnashing teeth about it!

Maybe just one of those hormonal blips Lucky, have you come off the pill recently?

Lilyloo · 19/05/2009 20:44

Just popping back to see if you have had chance to update JKS!

At least you know what your dealing with now. That sounds greta that you can have them under control in such a short time and at least you know the cause and why they are happening.
Whilst he may not grow out of it , at least it won't change or get worse so quite positive.
Great news on the development stuff too. Should he need less sleep when you get things under control ?

madmouse · 19/05/2009 20:45

Oh JKS, that is what I said I hoped it would be, a small area of damage that the brain can work around. No tumour is great news.

Caution about keto diet - it is horrendous and I would not automatically place it in preference over surgery. Talk to Riven (all over the board but home on sn thread) her dd is on it due to really really bad epilepsy.

Keppra is apparently a good drug that can work really well for a lot of cases. And not the worst one for side effects either.

Hope the fits stop soon.

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simpson · 19/05/2009 20:52

JKS - Just checking in for your news.

Glad appt went as well as it could

At least you know what you are dealing with and H will be able to drive/swim etc which is great news!!

LuckySalem · 19/05/2009 22:46

JKS - That sounds like its as good as can be. I'm glad they can get things sorted that soon and its great that he can work around it

I think AF is here so can finally start again.

simpson · 19/05/2009 22:53

Lucky - if you are trying to TTC you need to try and work out when you OV.

Easier said then done I know as I was in your position when TTCing DD and it took 7mths.

As we were getting frisky at the wrong time iyswim.

LuckySalem · 19/05/2009 22:56

Ahh see but I dont want it to be about the science I want it to be about romance (or as romantic as I can be)

We would only (regularly) be able to "do it" once a week anyway so knowing when isn't going to make much difference.

simpson · 19/05/2009 23:09

Not about science about symptoms your body gives you iyswim.

I never used anything to tell me when I OV but now I can tell so would avoid sex then iyswim.

I Know JKS is a fan too...

LuckySalem · 19/05/2009 23:12

hmmm ok as long as I dont have to pee on a stick to tell me when to have sex

Ok so what kind of symptoms are there for ovulation?

Bloody police chopper is out again!! [sigh]

simpson · 19/05/2009 23:18

Wehad police chopper out earlier. Grrr...

TBH mucus is the main symptom.

I did use OV kits for 2mths then I recognised symptoms iyswim.

Think I might have a couple of left over ones if you want them??

LuckySalem · 19/05/2009 23:21

hmm - ok is it when there is a lot of mucus i'm OVing cos I only get that for a couple of days a month

simpson · 19/05/2009 23:26

Best thing to do TBH is BD every other day starting 2 weeks from AF and that
should do it.

Gingeme · 20/05/2009 13:09

Morning ladies. Well my day started bloody early 5.24 am to be exact. George decided he was going to try his new top of his voice chatting skills out at this hour . I was not impressed to say the least.
Just been and payed a bit more off our holiday . Also went to Mothercare and bought a nappy bin. I am sick of my kitchen bin stinking when its only half full. Hopefully this will do the trick. Anyone had any experience of them?
DH has just gone to my Dads to fix some of those shower taps in his bathroom. You know the ones that look like an old fashioned phone?
Hopefully going to Clown Town later. DH going to see the new Star Trek film tonight with his friend (yawn).
Well thats about it from me. TTFN x

nicky6 · 20/05/2009 13:49

hi all just a quicky.

Congrats bluebell.

JKS sounds like things went pretty well considering and you have a consultant on the same wave length as you. Hope fully things will soon be much better once fits under control.

No dont know flavour of mine I think boy though although midwife guess is another girl.

Am off tomorrow with DH my mum coming to look after charlie from tomorrow until friday night we are flying (at 34 weeks pg) to Newquay and going to Rick stein restaraunt in Paidstow - dh's 40th birthday and its a suprise and he has always wanted to go. So hopefully will be a good surprise better be as cost arm and three legs.

Charlie lovely chat chat chat all the time and a few prope sentences - yesterday dh showed her a wine bottle and said whats this - response nonchalant as you like its a bottle ...continues to eat pack of raisins very funny.

ANyway have to go and see physio sorry if tmi but bit pelvic floor rectal problems so have been told to go and get checked out before the brth of number 2.

Gotta dash pressies to wrap and all sorts.

mixedmamameansbusiness · 20/05/2009 13:50

Afternoon ladies,

JKS so so pleased that there is at least options available and that it is not a tumour. Heres hoping for more good news along the way.

Ange - Eurovision was awesome... I was disapointed with Norway tho personally.

Ginge - hope your eye is getting better. And Star Trek euugh.

I didnt get that job, but not too bothered since I am happy where I am and it does suit me.

Have finally pinned down when and what i am going to study. Am going to start in September with a 2 term course specfically to prepare for the History degree at Birkbeck and then next year enrol on the degree. So excited I actually cannot contain myself. Not sure where this leaves us in the way of baby making but will just see how it goes.

Am back at WW and lost 3lbs today. Very pleased.

Lucky - hope it gets sorted and Simps that room sounds great.

Hi to Lily and MM and I think that is everyone.

mixedmamameansbusiness · 20/05/2009 13:51

And Nicky - I love Rick Stein and the passion with which he talks about fish... I love fish with a similar passion.

simpson · 20/05/2009 17:07

Hi all

Just got back from after school club with 2 very tired children.

M really enjoyed it this week which was good

She even did some cooking (with help from me obv.)

M currently devouring her tea and J lying prone on the floor

JustKeepSwimming · 20/05/2009 20:37

Nicky - enjoy the trip!

hi everyone, thanks for the wellwishes

H didn't seem to have any fits of any sort today (so maybe the higher dose from last night already kicking in?) - or...more likely i just didn't see them.

(think he may have developed a new 'twitch' when his right shoulder sort of 'shrugs' which if i'm honest, is probably a variation of the absence. it all seems to be based around his right hand side.
and the doc yesterday said his physical symptoms would change as he grows/develops.

anyway, dh home - then i remembered i'd forgotten H's evening dose
(because DH turned off the morning alarm this morning and didn't set the evening one)
anyway, Dh got him up and gave it to him now. oops.
live and learn....

Lilyloo · 20/05/2009 20:49

Evening all
Am compiling list to pack tom! I hate this part of going away
I cannot do any tonight as all dc in bed so will have to do it tom with M helping
Am really annoyed too as dp has to go into work Fri am so we can't leave until lunchtime and i will have to load car etc on my own after doing school runs!!!

Well done MM 3lbs very good. I have lost 5Lbs up to now! Probably put it all back on though with croissants , wine , cheese and bread

Nicky have lovely time and hope dh is pleased!!!

Gingeme i still use the bin , we bought it for H i think they are fab!

Simps brave you doing cooking i think M would eat everything!!

JKS i suppose you are now more aware to look out for different things that you weren't before!

Took M and L to soft play today. M managed to get up 3 levels on the big kids apparatus. A couple of other mums were they obv don't know M
Have just had to pay out £40 for L dance costumes for summer show and £20 for tickets to go watch her My advice is leave the dancing as long as poss for any lo's interested!!!

JustKeepSwimming · 20/05/2009 20:52

Lily - and £££ for dancing!
and at M and her amazing climbing abilities!!!
Hope the packing goes ok, i always have lists too!

G - we have a nappy bin from T and we still use it upstairs, i find it helps but not everyone does.
is a faff sometimes and we've lost lots of the bits that make it turn around, but it still works fine.

madmouse · 20/05/2009 22:59

Hi all

Lily where are you going? We are off to Lakes on saturday - but can't really think about that as I have assessment appointment with mental Health trust tomorrow to talk to therapist to discuss what help i need. am freaked out!!! Really stressed

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