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dinkystinky · 01/04/2009 17:37

'nuff said

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Calico1 · 09/04/2009 12:01

KT just to clarify - the mum I know whose baby was saved by a breathing monitor - her baby did have respiratory problems so that is why they had the monitor....new babies do all have irregular breathing for a while - enough to make anyone panic!

littleboyblue · 09/04/2009 12:20

Back from the docs. I dressed him lightly in the end, the doc also said, that no matter how cold I think he is over the next few days, I'm to have him wearing as little as possible while his temp is still up and down.
Doc said his ear is looking slightly red so she has put him on AB's He's never been on AB's before. It's like we've hit a milestone or something!

KT The alarm pads must be quite reassuring when they don't go off, but when they do.....I would agree and say maybe you should just bin it, but doubt you'll be able to relax when in seperate rooms for a while. jacob would always hold his breath when we were in bed.

KT1983 · 09/04/2009 13:00

Were back from the doctors...Poor Poppy, she looks so sorry for herself. Turns out she has a high temp too. 38.9.
We have a temp thing at home and ours kept saying she was fine and within the normal range. It was expensive too - load of plastic rubbish
Doc seems to think its nothing to do with Reflux due to her temperature. He thinks she has a tummy bug, which is why she keeps falling asleep when feeding & not eating much
all these poorly babies - its horrible isnt it? When you cant do anything to help?
Ive bought some calpol - Should I give her some to help bring her temperature down a bit?

I think you might all be right about the alarm - It really made me feel better from day one. But now its done that, Im going to be even more anxious in the night now. Swings & roundabouts really. I feel like I want her to sleep in my bed next to me until she is better, so I can give her lots of love & cuddles.

KT1983 · 09/04/2009 13:05

LBB I cannot believe how you were treated after your m/c. That must have been awful and so stressful and upsetting

MrsY · 09/04/2009 13:05

Hi all -

back seems a bit better because John had been doing all the lifting, changing and feeding today. Thank goodness he didn't cancel his day off because of not working tomorrow, which he had planned to do. Mum's helping out again on Saturday, and then John's off again on Sunday, so fingers crossed by then it will have sorted itself out. If not, I'll head down to osteopath early next week.

lbb - sorry to hear about Jacob's temp and AB's. Hope he's back to his normal self soon - ob, and love the 'baps' thing from fb!

PinkTulips - well done Aaron! Hope you and your boobs have recovered from the shock and you get a repeat tonight - and with you daughter being dry as well.

KT - man, how scary. We have one of those monitor's, but M's still in her moses basket next to us. I think by the time she goes in her own room, her breathing patterns will be more established, but I'm still in two minds about using them. With regards to the TT teats, Gaviscon does make the milk much thicker (it says not to use with thickeners or thicker milks on the box) and I would go with vari-flow if I were you. I have a whole load of x-shaped teats for the easy-vent bottles if you want me to send them to you? We use the anti-colic plus bottles now... Also, bear in mind that the easy-digest and stay down milks tend to be thicker so you may need to check with GP or HV about switching and whether or not to stay with the Gaviscon...

STW - hope you have a good day with Little O - can't wait to go shoe shopping with M!

KT1983 · 09/04/2009 13:23

Thanks Mrsy - I have just been to Mothercare & bought a few different types of teats to try. Thanks for the offer though, much appreciated
I might give the easy digest milk a go without the Gaviscon. See how we go with that.
What decision did you end up making with your milk/gaviscon, cause I remember you had a dilema deciding a week or so ago?

herbgarden · 09/04/2009 13:39

MrsY - Poor you and your back. Hope the osteo can work his/her magic on you.

KT I have a baby sensor monitor under DD's cot - it's the one we used for DS too and we did it as we didn't plan on having him sleep in our room for long as I'm a rubbish sleeper as it is. Anyway, it did go off a couple of times and once because I'd left DS big light on in his room and he'd shuffled off the mat (you change the mats around as they get older) - I have never moved so fast in my life. In a way PT is right about ditching it but on the other hand, I'd rather a scare in a rare moment than worrying all the time.

We had a dreadful day with DD yesterday and it really sounds KT the same as Poppy. From about 7ish when she woke til about 6pm she was either asleep feeding a bit or crying like she was in excruciating pain. I just didn't know what to do with her - a bit confusing as she's been so chilled the last week or so I was beginning to think we were getting more settled. When she came down for her 10ish feed last night, she screamed for an hour after I gave it to her and nothing I could do would stop it. I nearly phoned NHS direct but then thought I'd see how the night went and take her to the docs today if I needed to. Her temp (from digi ear thermom altho' it says not to use under 6 months due to inaccuracy of reading) was normal and she didn't feel really really hot....Anyway, today she's still not herself and was quite unsettled in the night but does seem a bit better. Funnily enough, I changed her teats on Monday to No2 (Avent ones) and I wonder whether the slightly faster flow has temporarily made her a bit windy again. We'll see.

I was going to take DS to the softplay at our leisure centre but in the end we've stayed at home (thought could be difficult if DD still under the weather) and we've made a farmyard thing from his Charlie and Lola craft book from rubbish in the recycle bin (Blue Peter eat your heart out) and some banana buns ready for his little girlfriend (!) arriving this afternoon....it's been really nice actually - I usually dread a morning in but DS has been a poppet and it's flown by with our "activities " (! ).

LBB - I'm sure DS1 will feel better in a couple of days - it really sounds like the virus DS had last week - he'd get quite hot but would also get goosebumps and just looked a bit peaky as my mum would say !

We've got a nice sociable weekend ahead - all our visitors are coming over to us so no driving and lots of company with dinner out tomorrow night - granny is babysitting.....

What are you all up to??

littleboyblue · 09/04/2009 13:53

KT Calpol will help bring her temp down. I'm always told by NHS direct peole that the reason the temps fly up like that is so their bodies can fight infection. I think as Poppy is so young, it's a good idea to give calpol 4-6 hourly for the next 2 days just to make sure she doesn't get too hot. I'm buying an in-ear thermometer this afternoon, I don't think my oral one is very accurate, plus he gets quite distressed when I try to use it.

BTW, the m/c was alot easier to deal and cope with after ds1 was here. And the pregnancy I was carrying 5 weeks later was Luke so all worked out well in the end. So, 5 pregnancies and 2 children. Not bad

MrsY Do you suffer with back problems? (apart from now, clearly) Hope you feel better soon, it's awful when we're not on top for too isn't it?
Tbh, I'm quite liking Jacob at the mo, he is just laying on the sofa, staring at the tv but is very still and very quiet!
He does look awfully sorry for himself though, that bit's not nice
I wonder what baps means?

I think I may have just wrecked my wood floors. I suppose they're laminate really.
I found a bottle in the back of a cupboard, left by previous owners that was labelled wood floor polish, it said to spray sparingly onto area and go over with a damp mop, no need to rinse. So that's what I did and now my nice shiny woo floor is a grey dull colour. I must have used too much of the polish........I have just been over it with a wet mop to try get the stuff off, but doesn't seem to have done the trick. Whoops. Lets hope dp doesn't notice

littleboyblue · 09/04/2009 13:57

I've been sitting here waiting for JK to start and I've only got it on the wrong channel. What am I like?

PinkTulips · 09/04/2009 14:53

lbb, some of those wood floor things are odd. i used one once and it made the floor really dull and lifeless and it just looked grubby

KT.... if you'd be happier having her in your bed and she'd benefit from the cuddles then go for it! it'll do both of you the world of good with everything ye're going through.

some of my nicest memories of the kids as babies oddly enough are from times either i was sick or they were and we cuddled up under a duvet feeding and snoozing all day.

i promised the kids toast and jam and hotchocolate with marshmallows to make up for being dragged out in the rain to do the shopping...best move my bum and pay up

herby, i bow to your crafty mom skills.... i've never yet dared do anything like that with mine as they can't even do drawing without having a wrestling match over the bloody crayons.... god help us if i entered glue and glitter and stuff into the equation!

swampster · 09/04/2009 15:13

My house is a temple to paint and glitter and glue. Today we decorated the rocket launch pads even more. The rockets were made yesterday and are ready for take off.

I came downstairs yesterday to find the two-year-old had filled a cup to overflowing with yellow paint. And put glitter everywhere. Had to get out and go to the park.

We just made two of those fantastic 5 minute chocolate mug cakes for the first time. Set to become a favourite round here.

swampster · 09/04/2009 15:14

Agree with the under-the-duvet-with-a-baby-days being some of the best. There's no better feeling than snuggling up with a tiny one.

thehouseofmirth · 09/04/2009 15:20

Swampy, when I am confronted by the fall-out from someone small's artistic endeavours I like to read this poem:

Sweeping Up Stars
by Kirsty Gunn

Not perhaps so strange, or so bizarre

that I should find myself

again down on my knees

and sweeping up

with dustpan and with brush

the crazed remains

of yet another

afternoon

of glitter and of glue

and paint, the craft

of your inventions, girls,

the 'let's-make-cards!' beginnings

or the 'why-not-paint-today?' exertions

of a certain kind of grey-lit hour,

the time when we've a while yet

till it's tea,

and lunch, the park's long gone ...

It's only

you two here

and me - and makes me think,

you know, consider, just how many

afternoons of this

will I have left

in one small life,

amidst the tax returns and supermarket shops

and work not done and stuff that I'm aware I should

be doing now while on my knees in some strange

corner of the room... That I'll not have much more

of this, the chance

to gather in

the bits of glitter, sweep up brightness

from the floor, to tip into the bin

bright constellations ... How much time

to sweep up stars?

Have you tried the mug cake with custard?

dinkystinky · 09/04/2009 15:26

STW and KT - sorry your little people are poorly. There seem to be an inordinate number of bugs doing the rounds this spring! STW - steamy bathroom will help with Sam's congestion; I took Danny in his bouncer into the bathroom with me when I had my morning showers when his cold was at his worst and it really helped for most of the morning. Hope you have a much better night tonight - and have fun shoe shopping with Little O.

Herbgarden - that sounds like a really lovely morning you've had. DS1 will be very jealous to hear that your DS has got a charlie & lola craft book. He got his charlie & lola potty training present yesterday after 10 successfu potty and wee occurrences and was beside himself with joy. He's now aiming for a Peppa Pig train...

Pink - wow, go Aaron. Hope he does that again tonight for you. And well done to your DD and DS too. Potty training is going well so far today (touch wood) - 4 wees in potty, none in cardboard boxes (even though he has been playing in one this morning - he was pretending it was Charlie & Lola's house) so fingers crossed he's going to get over the pissed tramp phase soon, and an outing this morning. He's now off to football class with his nanny so that's going to be the acid (or if its wee, should it be alkali) test for potty training today...

Danny and I have just been to the local postnatal pilates class round the corner from me - and as its easter we were the only ones there today so got a one on one class (normally costs around £40) for the bargain price of £10 Danny was a good little man and kicked away on the mat next to me for the first 50 minutes but then decided enough was enough and he was tired - though has been fighting going down for a nap ever since we got home. Typical! Hopefully he's down now though...

We're off to my parents house for Easter - they've been pressuring me to potty train DS1 so figure they'll be more than happy to deal with any accidents that happen while we're over at their place - and then back to London on the Sunday for a family day together on the Monday (when the weather is supposed to brighten up). Depending on how we're all feeling and what the weather is doing, we might go to the zoo or funfair at Hampstead Heath.

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herbgarden · 09/04/2009 15:28

Oh yes and I'm feeling very proud today. DS has done 5 wees and 2 poos on the potty and twice went without even telling me . Bless 'im. Both times he wanted a poo he asked for his pull up and I asked him to try the potty....and he did....

I realise though that I'm slightly cheating by being housebound but I'm going to try the next few days with pants and then might venture out with the potette next week - blimey a trip to the local cafe will be like packing for a 2 week holiday won't it?!

To cap off my housebound with toddler day, I downloaded his nursery rhymes CD from the car on the ipod and it's now playing on continuous and it's not annoying me......yet...I realise that this is a mistake as I'll never get away with playing my music again in the house during daylight hours.

Normally by 3pm I'm completely frazzled and ready to hit the gin. What IS GOING ON ?!

herbgarden · 09/04/2009 15:30

Dinky - Yay on the potty front !

HOM - I am seriously tearful after reading that poem. I am a sucker for sentimental things like that

dinkystinky · 09/04/2009 15:31

Herb - we have a potette. DS1 refuses to sit on it as "its too big" apparently So we're just taking his normal potty out and about everywhere with us, with the potette bags to chuck wee into......

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dinkystinky · 09/04/2009 15:36

Lovely poem THOM - will have to remember it next time our kitchen suffers from an art attack. And I second Swampster and Pink KT - there is nothing as lovely as cuddling up in bed with a little one. DS1 wasnt a big fan of co-sleeping but Danny co-sleeps with me from his 4/5am feed until getting up time (mainly as I cant be bothered to get back up out of bed) and its lovely..

Swampster -oooh rocket launch pads. DS1 has made a rocket with his nanny before but not launch pads. I sense a craft activity for next week brewing...

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littlesez · 09/04/2009 15:39

HOM lovely poem p.s HV ruled out thrush

kT sorry your bubs is poorly big hygs, re mum and baby cinema,the screenings here are made for mums, they show chick flicks not kiddie films. Its about being able to do cinema and meet friends and just babies are welcome. so if they cry, change, feed its ok as everyone is in same boat.

jent thanks for advise, bf is still sore but im coping isobella has 1 bottle of ebm most days with dad which is fab.

love you all! so so at meet up, next time i am actually contemplating travelling to london from up north!

xxx

PinkTulips · 09/04/2009 15:49

dinky... nice to know i'm not the only one who takes wicked enjoyment from my kids peeing all over my parents house as revenge for listening to endless 's/he's getting a bit big for the nappies now' comments

ds1 was doing well this morning but has been a bit grumpy since we got home from shopping so still has his pull up on, am going to take it off once roary is over as between watching that and being full of jam and chocolate he should be a little more cheerful. we still haven't had a single poo on the toilet though, bit frustrating.

herby... i know what you mean, most days i'm a bear with a sore head by this time of day but when they're good and actually appreciate the things we do together i actually [gasp] enjoy being a mummy

swampster · 09/04/2009 16:00

Sweet poem.

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm cake with custard! Didnt' have any chocolate chips either . Next time... and I think next time I'll add a bit more cocoa too.

Calico1 · 09/04/2009 16:46

great poem THOM made me all teary...

Dinky and PT - potty training sounds interesting.... Gonna start my DS on the potty soon. He chose a potty with Thomas the Tank Engine on last week, but uses it to store his trains in as it is too big for his bottom apparently it could take a while methinks.

DH has gone DIY crazy today - for no apparent reason we now have shelves all around the top of the nursery walls
(too high for me to reach), two holes in the ceiling of the lounge (caused by careless shelf carrying) and brick dust all over the nice pile of clean laundry I left in DS's room this morning. I am not happy...

MrsY - sorry to hear about your back - I know its agony when your back pings.

PinkTulips · 09/04/2009 16:58

calico... can you pop him on a plane over here pleae? i need shelves badly and i'm quite tall so he can stick em as high up as he likes

dinkystinky · 09/04/2009 17:39

Calico - just read your post about your DHs DIY shennanigans to DH and he said "that's why I swear by handymen"....

Meant to say earlier - Danny has started laughing yesterday - at the sofa. This morning he was laughing again - at the radiator in the bathroom. Maybe he's a fledging interior designer and laughing at our inferior furnishings

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swampster · 09/04/2009 18:16

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