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CantSleepWontSleep · 12/12/2008 20:56

10th Sept (Due 1st Oct) - loulou33 - Boy - Joe Louis David - 6lbs 12oz - Induction due to rhesus sensitivity, G&A.
12th Sept (Due 6th Oct) - iuseantiageingstuff - Boy - Fred William - 8lbs 13.5oz - Induction due to high BP.
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12th Oct (Due 4th Oct) - pistachio - Boy - Thomas Fraser - 10lbs 2oz - Homebirth.
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16th Oct (Due 12th Oct) - milfakamonkeymonkeymoomoo - Boy - - 9lbs 13.5oz - Home water birth
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17th Oct (Due 27th Oct) - Rhian82 - Boy - - - Episiotomy and ventouse.
17th Oct (Due 22nd Oct) - pingviner - Boy - Teemu Finn - 7lbs 15oz - Em C-Sec
18th Oct (Due 13th Oct) - YumMum22 - Boy - - 10lbs - Home water birth
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20th Oct (Due 16th Oct) - bigmouthstrikesagain - Girl - Polly - 8lbs 7oz - Good hospital birth with synto drip.
21st Oct (Due 16th Oct) - WheresTheAuPair - Boy - Finley Peter - 9lbs 7oz - Elective c-sec
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26th Oct (Due 20th Oct) - jenwa - Girl - Phoebe Jasmine - 9lbs 2.5oz -
27th Oct (Due 23rd Oct) - nuclear - Boy - - 8lbs 13oz - Gas & air and some stitches.
28th Oct (Due 30th Oct) - Jambers99 - Girl - Hannah Louise - 7lbs 3oz - Straightforward and quick labour.
31st Oct (Due 20th Oct) - KnickersOnMaHead - Boy - Samuel Paul - 9lbs 11oz - No stitches!
31st Oct (Due 21st Oct) - GirlWithTheMouseyHair - Boy - Ethan Christopher Loy - - Homebirth.
1st Nov (Due 25th Oct) - Flum - Boy - Bob - 8lbs 10oz - 4 hour labour with gas & air, pethidine and a healthy dose of champagne!
1st Nov (Due 22nd Oct) - SmudgeyDoodle - Girl - - 8lbs 2oz - Hospital water birth.
5th Nov (Due 29th Oct) - Honeymoonmummy - Girl - Poppy Grace - 6lbs 15oz -
5th Nov (Due 30th Oct) - MamaG - Boy - Harry James - 10lbs 9oz - Em C-Sec. Back to back and knotted cord around neck.
5th Nov (Due 23rd Oct) - Sallypuss - Girl - Eibhlin Alexandra - 9lbs 4oz - Induction, 15 hour labour then emergency c-section.

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Honeymoonmummy · 29/01/2009 10:15

Morning all. I rang the HV first thing CSWS and she told me the same thing . Plus she told me to express this morning.

Poppy slept thro the night so must have had enough in the end.

I cant believe 'i've got a cold now!! Thought I'd escaped it for this year. I did wonder about mastitis but i have no pain or red spots.

Welcome Dizzee!!

CSWS design fault IMO, I tipped the kettle when it was fairly empty and the lid fell off!

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star6 · 29/01/2009 10:58

myjob - same with Q. I'm not sure what to do... I don't want to give him solids, either, but he does follow the spoon to my mouth too like you said. I feel a bit mean eating in front of him He's taking nystatin and it's like dessert for him - he loves it! I think that's what did it... he saw that he can get something else in his mouth that tastes "good" and wants more..?

jenwa · 29/01/2009 11:18

csws you are right, I am a control freak and a little OD
Spoke to my sis in law yest and heard myself telling her how I empty my dyson before each hoover to see how much i hoover up each day and judge it after each room!!!! how am I!! I even wash it sometimes!!!!!

Where has my life gone........aghhhhhhhhh

Can anyone recommend a good high chair. Had a basic one from mothercare last time but when dd got bigger too hard to sit her in it as tray came down over her head. Thought about ones you strap to chair but not so good when they are smaller! Want to get one to be ORGANISED

star6 · 29/01/2009 11:23

P must be a good baby, jenwa I was like that before Q... I always washed the hoover after each day, but now I can barely sort out how to fit in time to hoover! Q is so demanding.

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heather1980 · 29/01/2009 12:25

afternoon ladies,
welcome to the newbie ladies.
well i took alex to the drs today as he's been a bit off colour the past few days, and the dr thinks he has reflux, he has always been a sicky baby but has been getting worse with the projectile vomiting recently, he's given him infant gaviscon which i don't really want to give him but i will if it makes him better.
how do i give it? he's bf and i don't really express coz i have no need to build up a supply in the freezer.
also if i remember a few babies on here are also taking it, what are your experiences with it?
the dr also told me off for not getting him weighed at baby clinic! i don't see the point tbh so long as he is growing out of his clothes i see no problem.

1sttimer80 · 29/01/2009 12:43

Hi there, it's me again!!!

Stuggling with the little one as he still has his hydronephoresis. Has another test tody and really worrie. promise to post soon.

just a correction little one was 6.5lbs!

star6 · 29/01/2009 12:56

heather - can you give it via a syringe or dropper? I give Q nystatin from the dropper and he loves it. He isn't fond of a bottle tbh but takes it when it's all that's available while I'm away, but will play with the dropper thing in his mouth and tongue.

I looked at the samples of rice we're getting in the mail and they all have "signs of weaning" and it's funny that a lot of those "signs" are just things babies at 4 months do anyway! ha ha!! Talk about trying to sell a product! But I do feel guilty about eating in front of Q. It's definitely obvious that he wants what we have and I don't like him to just watch us eat! It's horrible!! At the same time I want to do what is best for his digestive system and I dont' want him to grow up too fast either . I know nights are practically sleepless and there are so many hardships, but I do wish he could stay a baby forever

SmudgeyDoodle · 29/01/2009 13:11

Honeymoon glad you had a good night in the end. DD is still feeding every 2 hours and got herself so overtired yesterday (too nosy when we're out) that she couldn't feed because she was too tired and couldn't sleep because she was too hungry. Had an ok night (DH away!) and she's now having a good sleep. In fact, both DS and DD are asleep at the same time. I should be doing some cleaning/cooking/tidying but decided to treat myself instead.
I've been looking at cake recipes too CSWS. DH birthday on Sun and DS a week today. We're going to make him a tractor cake. I think this will involve lots of wine and probably plenty of arguments!
Welcome to cherrychoc and dizzee. we're all going through the same things so feel free to chip in. I think the differences between our LO will start to lessen (I mean the ones who were born in Sep versus those in Nov). My postnatal thread with dS has gone very quiet so I hope we all keep chatting.
JENWA LOL at hoover. I'm lucky if I get mine out once a week. My excuse is that DS is terrified! We just got a highchair that you strap to the chair for DS and it's been great. You prob don't want to put them in until they can sit up anyway as can use a bouncy chair/bumbo till then?
1sttimer - hope test goes ok. Come back and tell us what's happening when you get chance.
Star - you at work today? You sound like you're a really determined person. I don't know many people who would have continued with BF through all the struggle that you've had and now with the sleepless nights too. You're right though, this time round, I'm trying not to stress too much as everything will soon pass (I hope!)

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CherryChoc · 29/01/2009 13:20

jenwa I know you said the strap on seats aren't good but I'm getting the fisher price rainforest one and the reviews of that say it accommodates a 6 month old baby well - one even said they'd used it for 6 month old twins and twins are often premature - so might be worth looking at unless you are weaning early.

Other than that I have got some old pregnancy magazines from a friend who had hers in June, (great for shopping from btw, you save loads of money because you want to buy the things which were brand new then!) and they all rave about the Chicco Polly. Mothercare has a copycat of that one too.

jenwa · 29/01/2009 15:12

thanks for advice, I think I will prob get one that attaches to chair and use bouncing chair or see if can borrow friends bumbo again.

Honeymoonmummy · 29/01/2009 17:25

Jenwa, what's a hoover?

Heathr, Poppy has reflux, we're lucky that she takes it with cool boiled water in a bottle, I was expressing for it every day at first but couldnt keep up.

You can also use a syringe, I never have, but HV told me to release it slowly into her cheek so she doesnt choke.

Doctor prob told u this but mix 5ml of water with the sachet(s) to make it into a smooth paste. Then add another 10ml. I use a 5ml plastic cooking measuring spoon because it can go in the microwave steriliser.

Try not to move him for 30 mins after each feed other than gentle winding and try to feed little and often.

HV told me to boil the water in one go and keep it covered in a jug - I use a spare bottle and top and keep it on the side in the kitchen. YOu need to make up the gaviscon immediately before using it, so I tend to start the microwave steriliser before the feed, then at the end of the feed, I gently sit Poppy up in the corner of the settee then go mix the gaviscon and put the bottle in a cup of warm water to warm it to hand temperature.

Whatever Alex sleeps in needs to be elevated at the head, they do special "feet" in mothercare which I got as I kept tripping on the phone book!

The gaviscon makes their poo go solid, so get ready for that! Poppy was straining and crying during a poo at first but altho she still strains she doesn't seem too put out by it.

It couldnt hurt to get Alex weighed regularly while the reflux is bad to ensure he's managing to keep enough down. I have some links which I sent to a friend recently. I've posted them below. Sorry if TMI!!!!

This site seems good:
www.pollywogbaby.com/
Especially this PDF:-
www.pollywogbaby.com/refluxandcolic/LivingwithInfantAcidReflux.pdf

www.babyreflux.co.uk/

www.users.qwest.net/~fsdebra1/refluxintro.html

www.littlerefluxers.co.uk/

This is good:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=breast_and_bottle_feeding&threadid=252336-reflux-in-a-5-week-old#506145 5

Honeymoonmummy · 29/01/2009 17:27

Oh, I've been going to a cranial osteopath too because its reputed to help with reflux. There are charitable ones in Manchester and London, if u live near there I'll find you the link.

aubergenie · 29/01/2009 17:50

As promised, here's the vegan chocolate cake recipe. It's from the vegetarian Society cookery school. I used to do vegetarian catering and this was requested a few times by some of my vegan customers:

Vegan Chocolate fudge cake

Ingredients

125g creamed coconut
50g cocoa powder
650 ml boiling water
400g self raising flour
1 level tsp baking powder
Large pinch salt
275g muscovado sugar
200 ml groundnut oil

Method

Preheat oven to gas mark 4, 180 degrees C, 350 degrees F

Grease and line 2 deep 20cm/8 inch tins
Pour the boiling water over the creamed coconut to dissolve
In a large bowl, mix the flour, cocoa powder, baking powder, salt and sugar.
Add the oil to the slightly cooled coconut mixture.
Add the liquid mixture to the dry ingredients and mix thoroughly.
Pour equal quantities into the 2 prepared tins.
Bake for approx one hour or until the cakes springy to the touch.
Leave to cool slightly before turning out onto the cooling rack.

Icing recipe as in previous message.

I've also found another no dairy chocolate cake recipe in my recipe folder, I don't think I've ever made this and I'm not sure where it came from, but it looks nice:

No Dairy Yummy Chocolate Cake

Ingredients

450g/1lb plain flour (organic if possible)
6 tbsp unsweetened cocoa powder
2 tsp baking powder
2 tsp bicarbonate of soda
300g/10oz caster sugar
125ml/4fl oz vegetable oil
300ml/½ pint water
2 tbsp distilled white vinegar
2 tsp vanilla extract
For the icing:
dark chocolate spread
OR
225g/8oz icing sugar
25g/1oz unsweetened cocoa powder
75g/3oz soya margarine, diced
1 tbsp golden syrup
4 tbsp soya milk

Method

  1. Preheat the oven to 180C/350F/Gas 4. Sift the flour, cocoa powder, baking
powder and bicarbonate of soda into a large bowl and stir in the sugar.
  1. Combine all the wet ingredients in another bowl. Pour the wet ingredients
into the dry ingredients all at once and beat until smooth.
  1. Pour the batter into a greased 23cm/9in springform cake tin and bake for
about 1 hour, until a skewer inserted in the centre comes out clean (place a sheet of foil over the top of the cake if it becomes too dark). Remove from the oven and leave to cool in the tin.
  1. Turn the cake out of the tin and spread the chocolate spread over the top.
Or, if you are making your own icing, sift the icing sugar and cocoa powder into a bowl and make a well in the centre.
  1. Gently heat the butter, golden syrup and milk until the butter has melted,
then pour into the well in the dry ingredients and stir until smooth.
  1. Beat with a wooden spoon until the icing has cooled and thickened slightly.
Spread the icing over the top and sides of the cake with a palette knife.
aubergenie · 29/01/2009 17:53

Why hasn't my bold thing worked?

Star - If you're having trouble with the no dairy thing, I've got quite a number of good vegan recipes (I think you're a veggie aren't you?) so let me know what kind of thing you're missing and I can pass them on.

Welcome to Dizzee too!

heather1980 · 29/01/2009 18:29

thanks honeymoon, we are co-sleeping so i can't elevate the head of the bed. but i tend to put him in his chair in the day.
i live in manchester as it happens and have thought of CO, but never got round to it tbh
the dr gave me 15 doses and told me to try it for a week, so that's only 2 a day, he's worse in the evening so will give them then.

anythingbutpink · 29/01/2009 18:42

hello! Hope everyone is enjoying their 3 month olds! don't they grow up fast! DS1 has his 3rd b-day today - actually its tomorrow, but his dad had a day off today so we told him it was today
a question for you - I'm going away with my mum and the two dc tomorrow... and her dog, and I can't fit the double buggy + dog in boot - (rspca would be on to me in a flash!) and I don't feel happy with my mum's suggestion that she holds the dog in the front passenger seat...
I am thinking I might just take my maclaren quest buggy (and a sling for when the toddler gets tired, for the baby iyswim) - it says from 3 months, but seems a bit early - what do you think?

CantSleepWontSleep · 29/01/2009 22:04

Evening all.

heather - I used one of these to give gaviscon, mixed with water. Contrary to what honeymoon says, I don't think that you do need to mix the gaviscon up immediately before giving. With ds we mixed up a few sachets at a time and kept it in a pot (one of the avent via breastmilk/food storage pots), and then just drew up the right amount when it was time to give it.

Which sling anythingbutpink? I've been using one since birth! Dd is 3 next week and hasn't used a buggy for a year, so I would def leave the double behind. Ah - just realised that I think you actually meant the Quest is from 3 months, not the sling. We have one of those too, and I know that ds would be fine in it, so I would go with that option yes, and maybe just put something nice and soft under him in it.

Thanks for recipe Aubergenie .

Myjob/star - are you planning on doing blw? The theory of that is that the motor skills will be developed in line with the gut, so technically you could put food in front of them and let them have it if they can eat it by themselves. The chances are that they won't be able to yet. I'd still be inclined to wait a few more weeks before testing this theory though, as they might then get frustrated at not being able to eat what you have offered.

Hi 1sttimer - sorry to hear that you're struggling still. Hope to hear more from you soon. Can you clarify whether ds was 6lbs 5oz, or 6.5lbs, ie 6lbs 8oz?

Smudgey - my post-natal thread from dd is still going strong. We are all meeting up at mine in March (we've mostly all met before). Sorry to hear that yours has gone quiet.

Ds went to bed at 6:45 tonight, so hoping that this doesn't result in him getting up too early. He hasn't had much sleep today, and has had some medised to help his breathing tonight (you used to be able to give it from 3 months, and nothing has actually changed in it, before anyone tells me off!), so hopefully that will counterbalance the early bedtime.

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Honeymoonmummy · 29/01/2009 22:16

I'm pretty sure it says to mix immediately before use on the gaviscon instructions - HV told us off for not doing so initially.

CantSleepWontSleep · 29/01/2009 22:20

Yes it does honeymoon, but no-one's ever been able to provide a good reason as to why, so I ignore it. Didn't seem to matter to ds.

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star6 · 30/01/2009 05:27

csws is blw baby led weaning? Not sure how that works. TBH I was planning to just do what the gp and/or bf counselor tells me for weaning or, what I find when I read Dr. Sears advice or the advice in my breastfeeding book.
so basically, no idea. I was just noticing that he seems to want my food so I try not to eat in front of him... he doesnt seem to need anything more tbh - he's nice and chubby

star6 · 30/01/2009 05:32

Thanks aubergenie!! yum!

star6 · 30/01/2009 05:34

not so well-versed in the kitchen here... can you buy creamed coconut or do you have to puree a fresh one?

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