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November 2012 - Babies going trick or treating

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StuntNun · 17/10/2013 19:28

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Evilwater · 27/10/2013 10:00

Thanks yellow I've seen some flats that would be ok to live in. I when I phoned the family place they wanted me to phone the abuse line, but I don't think it's got that far. I just want to leave.

I'm glad the tax people are looking into him, according to his accounts some largest transfers have taken placed, and they want to know where it's going!

Evil

YellowWellies · 27/10/2013 10:01

As you can see by my numerous postings already today. I'm 'freelancing' and a bit distractable..... I need some quiche wisdom. In DH's family at Christmas time we all buy for the kids but we have a secret Santa for the adults. I need to write down three things to the value of £25 for my secret Santa. And I can't for the life of me think of anything I want. This isn't because I'm non materialistic, thoroughly zen and at one with the world - rather just that my brain has been trashed by having Jonas. Any ideas on stuff you'd like for Christmas for that value would be much appreciated. I like cooking, walking, reading, art, drinking, photography, wildlife and hedonistic little treats. I have genuinely no idea but as soon as Christmas is over I know I could be able to name like a million things I could hanker after and it's so infuriating.

MsJupiterJones · 27/10/2013 10:17

Evil you have always come across as such a strong and thoughtful person. Wishing you luck with making this move and starting the rest of your life without the strain you have been under. It sounds like you are going about it in a very sensible way, keep us updated.

YW I can never think of anything I want any more either. Does it have to be 3 things and do you have to be specific? You could ask for something totally frivolous like a lipstick or mascara (I barely wear makeup but there's something nice about having something you would never buy for yourself), a book and something practical-but-nice e.g. pretty storage box/basket, kitchen item etc. Alternatively vouchers but they're not so fun to wrap or open.

ChasingDaisy · 27/10/2013 10:18

Evil you are doing so well. I am really impressed that you have made those appointments and you sound incredibly strong. Keep talking to us and we will help you through.

Had a lovely lay in this morning and am currently curled up on the sofa with hot porridge, green tea and about to wrap up Oscar's birthday presents. Still a month and a day away but once I have his birthday all wrapped up - literally - I can focus on Christmas Smile

Passmethecrisps · 27/10/2013 10:49

For £25?

A voucher for a facial/beauty treatment (my eyebrows are fast becoming mono)
A smashing scarf

YellowWellies · 27/10/2013 11:25

Loving the ideas so far - thanks. Scarf and fancy schmanzy couldn't justify it myself cosmetics are cracking ideas. Already got a spa / treatment voucher from DH for Jonas' birthday. Also think I'm going to add a bottle of my favourite Pedro Ximinez sherry / port to the list. Keep em coming. I've got to think of three things worth approximately £25 each. You guys have much better imaginations than me! Smile Thanks so much. And yes I am aware that this is such a first world problem Blush.

ChasingDaisy · 27/10/2013 11:30

If it were me I would love a lovely book bundle. Or some proper fancy cosmetic stuff.

ChasingDaisy · 27/10/2013 11:31

I need a boyfriend by Christmas so they can buy me nice stuff Grin

ValiumQueen · 27/10/2013 11:36

I thought a Secret Santa was meant to think up something for their victim? Will you get all three gifts or will SS choose one?

Foot spa? Ice grips and warm socks and gloves for your winter walks? You could get a nice pair of leather gloves for £25

YellowWellies · 27/10/2013 12:01

In the IL's tradition, the victim suggests three pressies that they definitely want each to the value of £25 and the secret Santa buys one of them (it used to be that the Santa thought up a pressie but some of the older blokes in the family are so hard to buy for). DH manages to have a list of like a million bits of fishing gear every year for his secret Santa but I'm always stumped. Other than that it works really well as you get something you really want and it's still a bit of a surprise, and no one spends a fortune when it comes to buying for the wider family.

ChasingDaisy · 27/10/2013 12:14

Oh I forgot to say - date guy asked me if I used MN Grin he said a lot of his female friends rave about it!

BigPigLittlePig · 27/10/2013 12:25

YW I wish my ILs would do something like that, Christmas MIL in particular is a bloody nightmare. No matter the effort put in, it's never enough and she makes it very clear - not a nice feeling at all.

Another horrid night. Kept F up til 8 in the vain hope she might sleep . She managed til 4 with only one back-patting-near-miss at 11.30. And then all hell broke loose, again. Screaming for ages again, before finally nodding back off and sleeping a few more hours, on my chest. And not before there had been tears from me and dh too.

DH won the "twat of the week" award too (and not in a loveable-twat way but a twat-twat way) - when F woke up at 4, I nudged him and said, "can you get up with her?" His response to that was, "but I'm getting up in the morning with her" My response coloured the air blue Blush and pointed out in no uncertain terms that I didn't give a flying fuck as I got up every night, and every morning. And he had been farting so the room stank, which merely added fuel (natural gas) to the fire.

Anyway.

Apple I hope you don't have too sore a head this morning, although I suppose perversely sometimes the physical pain can help to detract from the emotional. Either way, I hope today is manageable.

Chasing delighted to hear of date success - good job the storm hadn't hit or it could have been an interesting afternoon! Enjoy the peace and quiet and me time this morning.

YW I would love books I guess, or some really fancy indulgent chocolate, ready for when J stops bf or can tolerate dairy. Or nice perfume. I stopped wearing perfume when pregnant and haven't started again. The one time I wore some, a few months ago, F freaked out as clearly mummy didn't smell right.

Happy birthday to the quichlet whose birthday it is - is it the foal? Can't remember Blush but hope you have a lovely day and enjoy nomming wrapping paper and boxes.

ChasingDaisy · 27/10/2013 12:27

YY about perfume pig. I stopped wearing it during pregnancy and only wear it on Oscar free days now.

Sorry to hear of such a terrible night. Do you have any idea what is causing it?

BigPigLittlePig · 27/10/2013 12:28

How could I forget? Evil I think you are incredibly brave, and I hope the meetings you have lined up go well. If there is any way I can be of help then let me know.

And on re-reading the bit I wrote to apple - I'm not sure if it came across how I intended. Tis meant to be a well-meaning sentiment, but possibly sounds a bit ham fisted.

I'll shut up now Blush

PS. can you tell F is having a nap and I am shirking housework!?

BigPigLittlePig · 27/10/2013 12:31

Chasing I have no clue. The screaming and inconsolableness is very reminiscent of the early reflux days, before it was controlled, so am thinking it's probably that. She is fine during the day, really happy although a bit more clingy than usual wasn't sure that was possible lol. I don't think it's teeth, because she's happy in the day - although is constantly nomming on her hands/any solid object and has bad dribble rash. Although that could be reflux. Who knows. Just know that my day has started at 4am for weeks now, bleurgh.

ChasingDaisy · 27/10/2013 12:39

I am largely clueless about reflux but there has been chat on here recently about needing to increase meds dosage due to weight gain. An option?

BigPigLittlePig · 27/10/2013 12:55

Have upped it as of yesterday, so am waiting to see if it helps!

horseylady · 27/10/2013 13:16

Birthday spent I the walk in centre. Waiting to be seen.

Bloody illness. Bloody party.

Sophiathesnowfairy · 27/10/2013 13:21

yw I think I would like , if it were me, either all wAterstones vouchers, Cotswold outdoor vouchers (to put towards a new pair of walking boots), wellie socks (good ones), boot scraper for my back door, a Liz Earle gift set thingy, some serving spoons that go with the cutlery I have.

I have loads to say to all of you but ahhhhh it's a busy day prepping for everyone's arrival tomorrow. nigellas 24 hour pork in the oven. I have made two chicken pies, a vat of parsnip soup and a batch of scones, facilitated DS1 at Sunday school, lunched everyone, arranged some roses and changed the bed. So I will sit down this evening and do a kyz style post.

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Lily311 · 27/10/2013 13:28

Fucking ear infection is back. 3 weeks after she recovered. No wonder we were up all night. Poor baby. I am exhausted.

ValiumQueen · 27/10/2013 13:30

Oh dear Horsey. What is wrong?

YW how about a magazine subscription or some stuff for baking?

ChasingDaisy · 27/10/2013 13:31

Oh no lily poor girl Sad

Sophia I LOVE Liz Earle stuff. I'm trying to make my current batch of cleanser and moisturiser last as I can't afford to buy any more.

ValiumQueen · 27/10/2013 13:31

Oh dear Lily. Hope she is soon better. Are antibiotics expensive?

PetiteRaleuse · 27/10/2013 13:49

yw I would want books, or a magazine subscription like vq suggested, or vouchers. I'm awful to buy for so always tell people what I want or to get me vouchers.

I have such a long to do list for this week including two doctor appointments and an appointment to get the winter tyres put on my car and I can't remember what else :( oh yes I need to get a yoga mat so am finally going to go back to the shopping centre. Will start looking for ideas for stockings etc for xmas. Also have to go to Germany to buy nappies (I go every couple of months) and I need to think about switching my mobile contracts. Will also be spending a small fortune at the British online supermarket and the British butcher in Normandy. So will have to clear out space in my freezer to make room for the sausages, bacon and pigs in blankets and the rest of it. Yum.

Did fuck all last week so this will make up for that.