Damn. That took me forever to post. 
Yup YW I have recently found out, to my sadness, that the amount of people who think you are a neurotic over bearing woooooo mummy for saying you have a baby with intolerance is far greater than the kind, understanding people.
I'll fully admit to knowing nothing about it prior to O, but I'm fairly sure I never thought that they didn't exist, or that someone was just looking for reasons for their 'whingy baby'.
I was talking about it in baby group today - saying how O was now sleeping much better after a tough few weeks. One mother stated how she just put her baby down awake from birth, and he would go asleep. I said that I had to rock O for every sleep pretty much until this week. I explained that he just wouldn't self settle, not for lack of trying. Her reply? Oh no, I couldn't be doing with that. You just need to put them down from when they are first born, and they will get it.
I impressed myself with my restraint. If only it was so fucking simple, yeah?!
A few minutes later another playworker entered the room and on hearing the gist of the conversation, said of course intolerance exists, all 3 of my children were CMP. I could have hugged her. 
Well, whatever will be will be. This time passes so quickly. O is generally happy, growing, playing, developing. And for that I am grateful. And sleeping!
I really must get myself together and get my posts on here sorted - for a timeline. So I can document O's life so far. It is going so fast - and I have shared so too much of it on here. I would like to get all my posts and save them minus the swearing and the DP rants! in to a little diary. I think that would show us how far we have come.
It is so easy to forget it all. I can barely remember DS1's babyhood.
Isn't it strange to think we will forget the vast majority of this time? When we are living it now, it is so real. But soon it will be a distant memory .
Oh, talking of woo, YW how did the wotsit sessions get on for J? Did you see any further improvement?