Emmsys angels xxx support for mummies of lost angels part 2 xxxxx

[barbie1]

Hello to everyone coming over from the previous thread and for all the new girls who will sadly be joining us...
You will not find a better bunch of girls to help you through such a hard time, we will get through this with the help of each other xxxx

Now you have intreaged us barbie, how you doing hun.

im fine, missed you today, hope you are feeling better after yesterday? im sat covered in fake tan, big black eye brows (while the tint developes!) and half painted nails....decided to live up to my name and be a real life barbie tomorrow!

come on, tell all....

lol, yeah I am feeling better thanks........making me laugh as we have just bought a whole load barbie stuff for dd's Christmas, you don't happen to drive a pink beetle do you.

Gonna need to go for now this is when I sync up with my family in the States thru ichat, will try and be back later xxx

C'mon Barbie, spill the beans

Night MM, talk soon

It was outside a nightclub called.........destiny! ! !

Oh how i cringe whenever somebody asks that!

To be fair it was a little more in depth....my mum has breast cancer and i had not been out for such a long time and my then bf at the time wasnt at all supportive.
My best friend at the time was going through a divorce and had been to see a fortune teller....keeping up?
Well on said night my best friend and my family all forced me to go out and let my hair down, best f told me the fortune teller told her she would meet a foreign looking guy with a tan and marry again, so we kept an eye out
Saw my now dh and v.drunk best f decided that was in fact the man she was told she was going to marry! Me being drunk brave decided to talk to him and then chickened out but he had spotted me....
Sometime later outside the club some random guy decided to pick me up and spin me around declaring his love for me, put me down and i promptly feel over james came to my rescue!
He told me to take his number and call to say i was safely home ahhh bless!
Got home to my then bf house and told him about james dont know what i was thinking! massive argument where i basically told him i didnt love him etc (been a long time coming)
Any how had holiday booked for following week so decided to give it another try...forgot about number in my purse.
Best friend found it a few days later and called james and pretended to be me! After a week of texting and meeting once in a local pub with friends i was smitten but i still had the holiday to go to.
I knew it was over for sure with bf before i even got on the plane as james waited up until 3.30 am to wish me a good holiday
Needless to say the holiday wasnt the best i had ever been on
6 months after the holiday dh and i were buying our own house and the rest as they say is history!

oh and james won a £5 bet that night, the guys he was with said i would never call! They gave us the money on our wedding day!

Hey, way to go girl! Go barbie, go barbie!

How is your mum btw? My mum had the very early (calcium deposits) stage of breast cancer picked up during a routine mammogram and underwent radiotherapy, followed by 5yrs of treatment but she was fine after that.

Anyone else care to tell us how they met their partner???...go on...

Wow....

VM, I think you have all the material you need for the next book

Thanks for the lovely welcome and boy this thread moves fast. So sorry to read about all your losses, especially those who have had more than one .

First things first, I've added my details:

barbie age 28 newcastle no children

vm age 25 oxford one ds

mm age 36 glasgow one dd

curlywurlee age 35 greenwich no children

molliemooma ?????

jonesy

mermaidspurse

sab

circularrainbow - age 140, hants, 2 dc

lilac

4ever

Vjay

sausage

bluesatinsash - age 37, Falkirk, 1 DS

scamperT

aspi

I really wish I'd come across this thread earlier as I think I tried to put my mc behind me too soon (that's a Scottish Prespeterian upbringing for you). Other than the first week post mc I never talk about it to anyone in RL (other than DH) and have spent all my energy on ttc which is good I know but I worry that it is going to bite me in the bum.

I had a catch up meeting with my boss last week and she mentioned that there was a 'sadness' to me which I admitted and said I was just counting the weeks 'til Christmas.

I was convinced I was having a girl and my close friend gave me a beautiful glass paperweight with a pink footprint on it as a memento which I cherish so good to hear of others taking comfort in similar ways.

On a lighter note in answer to your question Circular, I met my DH in the pub in 1999: closing time 1am, I drunkenly swaggered up to him at 12.30am and asked to buy him a pint. Bundled him off to my flat, made him listen to all my cool records (Black by Pearl Jam anyone ?). Bless him , he still tolerates me to this day!

Enought rambling, I bet this thread has another 20 posts since I started typing, apologies if I'm now out of date!

lol! right who is next????

Mum is ok now thankyou, touch wood and all that! ended having a lumpetomy, 6 months of chemo and 6 intensive weeks of radio. Got all clear now but has other problems related to given treatment of the cancer nothing that medication isnt controlling though xxx

Cripes Barbie - your story beats mine hands down!

'twas fate for sure..

just to update you my best friend married a rugby player and not at all foreign looking!
James only looks slightly foreign due to him being abroad so much and a grandma from malta!

Funny how alcohol is featuring heavily in these initial liaisons....

Was I the only one sober?!

Circular I bet alcohol was involved at some stage So... what happened after the encounter on the stairs?!

Blue I don't blame you not talking to people in RL about the miscarriage. I had my first "trip" back to RL this weekend and had only told one friend in the group what had happened. She is a dear friend, but still managed to upset me with almost everything she said.

We will all probably obsess about TTC, but at least we can do it together now

A quick hello to all...thanx for bringing me along to our new home....just adding my update to the list...

barbie age 28 newcastle no children

vm* age 25 oxford one ds

mm age 36 glasgow one dd

curlywurlee age 35 greenwich no children

molliemooma ?????

jonesy mermaidspurse sabs 27 London No children

circularrainbow - age 40, hants, 2 dc

lilac

4ever Vjay

sausage

bluesatinsash - age 37, Falkirk, 1 DS

scamperT aspi

curly - indeed! dh sent me an email and we met for coffee the following week (made him wait!) and then we took things from there...! So, your turn next...how did you meet your dh?

I met DH at work too! Saw him across a crowded room... but he was with someone else so I just pined for a while. About six months later a whole load of us from work were on a weekend away. We had this seventies night on the Friday, and (overcome by my brady bunch dress and knee high boots) he happened to mention that he was single again. I took this as my cue to suggest exploring a ruined castle we had seen on the way from the hotel. Anyway, we snuck off at 3am and got a taxi to the castle. He sprained his ankle climbing into the ruin. I broke a heel. We kissed, then limped happily back to the hotel. And the rest is history. Poor lad couldn't get his boot off his sprained ankle and had to sleep in it then drive home the next day.

Hello - May I join you?
Ive just had my 6th MC and am feeling rather down.
I am lucky that I have two lovely daughters though.
This last PG, I was put on daily Clexane injections - but it was my earliest ever mc. As Im now 40, I feel that this is my last window of opportunity but at the same time I dont know if I can put myself through it anymore.
What treatment have any of you been advised? DD2 "made it" by me taking 2 baby aspirins a day, but then I MC that way the next time.

tee hee, great story, though guess there wasn't much footsie that evening!

Keep the stories coming!

justbeme
Of course you can join us, sorry you are here i think you will find most of us are not having any treatment yet, although some of us have hospital appointments over the next few weeks. Please take your time and read the first thread it will help you to get to know us and what we are doing to help us through. Sorry to had to join us just now, we are in a giggley mood, we do this to help us through! Hope you dont find it too insensitve xx

Hey there Justbene - welcome to the group. I'm so sorry you are having such an awful time. I've not yet seen a consultant so have no advice for you but this is a great place just to talk things out.

Good night all. Thanks for being here and talk soon

Sorry, that was meant to be justbeme . Definitely time I went to bed. Take care hun and I hope things start looking up soon