Support thread for those experiencing or recently experienced a MC/MMC - Thread 6. ALL welcome!

[Sunbird24]

If you’re going through this, you’re not alone. I’ll post some links to support organisations shortly, but feel free to post, or just read, whatever you need.

@tulipsunday yay to ovulation☺️☺️🥳

@BlahBlah36 oh gosh sounds awful!! Hope you’re on the mend now❤️

I am so sorry to hear about your ordeals.

Both tests came back negative. This rings similar with my DD but I feel a sorta pressure, like cramps are happening or beginning to.

@ChloeN thank you. I’m in good spirits, and having minimal effects from the surgery so I’m doing ok.

@BlahBlah36 sorry to hear about your ordeal in hospital! But glad you got to have the procedure and are feeling better now? Or starting to feel better? Xxx

@Sophiey11 🤞🏻 for you too! Xxx after my horrible ordeal, I've got the horrible outlook on everything too! Part of me wishes that the stork theory was true ha then we wouldn't have to go through this pain and we would have our baby! Me and my partner had sex for the first time since it all the other day when it looked like I had ovulation goop so now I'm going to be extra nervous. I want another baby more than anything but I don't know how I'll feel if and when we get that positive test!

@Braylen so sorry 😞 hope you're doing as well as can be! Xx

@Brokenpancreas94 thank you. I’m very sore today but it’s in my neck, shoulders and back which I think is from the intubation. Feel really groggy still so am taking it easy.

Hope you get a positive test this cycle 🤞

Hope you are recovering ok @BlahBlah36 what an ordeal. @ChloeN sorry wasn't clear - I have had a positive pregnancy test. Must have ovulated early in the cycle as only three weeks according to last period but clear positives on different tests. God knows what will happen pretty scared but guess have to wait and see 😬 all the best to everyone who is going through a miscarriage or TTC again... such an anxious time.

@tulipsunday ohhh!! I thought you meant positive ovulation test lol🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ that’s such good news congratulations lovely xx

@ChloeN 😂 all these bloody tests we have to do it is confusing. Thank you hope you get yours really soon.

@tulipsunday that’s wonderful news! Congratulations, I’m keeping everything crossed that all goes smoothly x

@BlahBlah36 thank you ❤️ how are you doing?

@BlahBlah36 hope you’re feeling okay today xx

@Brokenpancreas94 thanks so much. I feel like these 2 lines on my HPT haven’t helped if anything to be honest. Because now it’s just reminded me how much I want this and how disappointed I’m going to be if I’m not pregnant. I’m still showing faint lines on the First response but negative on a digital. I’m only 11 dpo so still unsure where I stand.

@tulipsunday congratilations on your news. I have everything crossed for you 🌈🤞🏼 Xx

@tulipsunday @Sophiey11 thanks both. Sleepy and aching today. My neck, back and chest muscles feel really sore. My first thought when I woke up was that I’d been hit by a bus. However, very minimal cramping and bleeding so can’t complain. My sick note runs out today so I’ve requested another one.

A friend shared the new Disney Christmas ad on Facebook and it absolutely broke me. All about a little kids mum being pregnant and bringing the new baby home at Christmas. We were going to announce our pregnancy at Christmas and I’d been looking at gifts on Etsy so it just hit a sore spot.

I’m going in for my second scan tomorrow to confirm miscarriage is complete- I hope! I’ve had a negative pregnancy test already, does anyone know does this suggest it is complete? I’m thinking if there was still tissue etc retained then maybe it would still be positive?

@BlahBlah36 hope youre ok, I know what you mean, we were going announce ours at Xmas too.

Hi ladies just me checking in, I hope your all well. I found out I'm pregnant today, have no idea how many weeks I am. I'm excited but petrified, so petrified. Don't want to get my hopes up as I know how much it hurts to be happy then get heartbroken 😞 you ladies were my saviour through my mmc, honestly I know I didn't post much but reading these posts did really help me😘😘

@Tawny2022 do you still have any bleeding etc? I tested negative at week 3 but I continue to bleed till week 5. I had a scan at EPU which showed I still had some blood clots to pass. Even though I had tested positive. I passed them a few days later over a course of 3 days. However if you haven’t got any bleeding and your tests are negative, I would say that it has complete. Hope you’re okay xx

@candycrush789 congratulations xx

Sorry that should say even tho I tested negative.

@Sophiey11 thanks for replying. Bleeding stopped altogether about 5 days ago. I’ve got fingers crossed for a clear scan tomorrow!

@candycrush789 aww that’s lovely news congratulations! I’m so pleased you and @tulipsunday have your bfps, hopefully I won’t be too far behind you both🤞🏻🌈

@ChloeN thank you! A bit worried as I have sharp pains on my right side, but trying not to over think it too much! Xx----

How did your scan go @Tawny2022? congrats @candycrush789 lovely to hear from you. Yes @ChloeN rooting for you won't be long hopefully.

Hi @tulipsunday it went well, the miscarriage is ‘complete’ so I don’t have to have any follow up which I am relieved about. It was a lot less than I thought it was going to be. Mine was quite early though. Thanks for asking!

Has anyone been having headaches with miscarriage? I’ve been having a headache every day pretty much even though it’s complete now :(

Hi ladies. Following on from my last post regarding my HPT - I tested again this morning and the line is barely visible. I’ve been having symptoms (nausea, cramping etc) but it’s way lighter this morning. I am thinking I may have had a chemical, despite my MMC being 8 weeks ago. I also showed the tests to my fertility consultant who said I’m ‘probably not pregnant’ just so disappointed :( the grief is never ending. I’ve not had any bleeding so feel I’m just waiting for it to happen now x

@Sophiey11 hey lovely, so sorry😔 I had the same except I bled first. The only positive I took from it was at least I ovulated, as was panicking I wouldn’t for months. Sending you lots of love xx